Girl never asks me out.. But will go if I ask her?

[Anonymous]

There's this girl I've been dating here an there.. A month ago id ask her a lot of times to go out like once a week.. But I've been doing it less and less.. Giving her time to ask me out

Ill ask her to go on a date and she's there.. Happy smiling.. What have you.. But she has never asked me out on a date.. Why not?

Last month I asked like once or twice..

Ive told stories on here about what happens on our dates.. Nothing sexual but I've been told jokingly to get a room.. :)

And my friends who met her and we talked to for several hours told me after she left that "you should date her she really likes you" I paused and told them.. "that was a date we went to the mall before even meeting up with them"

I told them "shes told me I'm not the guy for her" the turned to me, mind you there a married couple, "my wife said that to me.. And if she's going on dates still.. She likes you"

So how is it that she's never asked me out?

Should I just keep asking her out and see what happens?

On a side note/question

I sent her a text a week before the county fair telling her about the special prices for each day to get in.. But forgot to actually ask her to go.. When the subject of the fair came up she told me she wanted to go but she was busy and I never asked her.. I said I swore I did (I asked everyone I could to go with me I thought.. but I must have missed her.. :( .. I was sad I thought she didn't want to go cause I never heard from her)

Anyway I said I thought I did.. And she checked her phone right there in front of me.. And said nope you didn't you just said what days had specials and then nothing..

Later that night I checked my phone and yeo I didn't send anything asking her to go :( sad.. I thought I did.. I went alone to the fair

Views? Did she really want me to ask her and sad or upset because I didnt?

My friends, the married couple, told me about another fair not to far away in about a week.. They told me to ask her to it to make up for the last one.. Will she go you think? And I'm not asking you "hey do you think she will.. Becuse you don't know.. I'm asking do you think she wants to go out with me from what you read?

Yes she would want to go to the fair she likes you

No because you forgot her the first time she's just using you

Maybe for you.. Maybe just fir the fair

Cant say either way

Other.. Please explain

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I should add a few more details..

On our second date we got into an arousing wresting match.. But we.. Well I stoped it when it almost became sexual.. She wouldn't have aproved.. But I did touch her everywhere but her breast, vagina, or butt.. But I tickled her everywhere else while she pinned my arm under herso my only move was to roll over on top of her


On our 3rd date I got to see her room.. I didn't pull anything.. But I wanted to But she sleeps with a dagger under her pillow.. Literally

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On our 4th date.. We watched the sunset while I tried to rub her back..


Oh on our 1st date we started off very nervious.. But by the end of the night we were eating off each others plates watching fireworks and talking for about 2 hours..


Oh and after one date we watch youtube videos in my car out side her house for about an hour

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Also.. Why did this question suddenly get put in the sexuality section?

[ImALuvrNotAFighter]

Women rarely ask guys out; she probably expects you to ask her out. Texting her various options doesn't cut it; that kind of behavior is perceived as spineless and wishy-washy. Call her and ask her out for a specific day and time. Have a plan for what you want to do, where you want to go, etc. Show her a good time.

[TheGodEmperorLeto]

Really depends on the girl. She could just love the attention and is using you for fun time out and whatnot, especially if you're paying for her stuff. Or she could genuinely like you. Too hard to really tell without knowing her. :\ but things sound like she might really like you and is just.. I dunno, screwy.

[Asker]

Well this last date wasn't supposed to be more then a free picnic in the park and a free movie.. Oh and sword sparing match in the park.. Again free

While on the date I did buy a few things but she didn't know I was going to untell we did

[TheGodEmperorLeto]

*until (spelling nazi!)

But ya, I dunno... I'd say it sounds like she's interested. But women are so freaking difficult to understand :\

[glaceon]

Ask her to go to the next fair and make sure it's really special.

She probably thinks it's up to the guy to make the dates. Just tell her that you would like it if she made a date every so often.

[Asker]

Well she did show me a broken lance with a guys number on it.. And she laughed and said

"i don't know why this guy did this.. Its the guys who should get the girls number and call them"

"but he put his number and gave it to me"

[sassyg1rl]

She likes you and she wants you to pursue her, woo her, and convince her that you ARE the one.

[Kiss_Me]

There are 3 bridges that all must cross with women. Most men fail to cross at lest 2.
1. Meeting her - you see her across the room and she sees you. Yet, for some reason the two of you never start a conversation.
2. Ask her for number or for a date - you are flirting and she is responding. Yet for some reason you never make a date offer
3. Kiss her - The place and timing is right. Yet for some reason you talk yourself out of it.
4. Getting intimate - The place and timing right, she is willing. Yet for some reason you fail to make a move.

Dude, You are failing to cross bridges 3 & 4.

Advice: There are TON of safe and charming ways to initiate a first kiss. The next time you guys are close, look at her lips and then her eyes. She will get the message. If she pulls away. Abandon the attempt. Chances are she is willing.

Once you get past that first kiss the other stuff is easy.