the trick is not to hit on her to the point where she feels like you are trying to pick her up. as soon as she feels like you are trying to pick her up she will most likely say she is unavailable. either A, she really is. or B she isnt, but doesn't want to let you know she is alone. its a mind thing women have to tell theirselves. if you can flirt with a girl without making her feel like you want to take her home, she will most likely enjoy the non-intent and wonder why your not trying to bring her home. she will start wondering...why doesn't this guy like me like that? am I not attractive enough? she will then start to initiate more flirting...sometimes just to see if she can get you to bite, sometimes genuinelly (spelling lol) either way, if your game is tight enough, and you can let her know your interested without putting her in defense mode...(this guy is def hitting on me...i could have him if I want) you will get the number every time. the trick is to let them know that they will benefit from you, not that you will benefit from them. your not looking to buy anything your selling. and if she isn't interested, there are a ton of other girls out there better than her that are. ITS NOT A BIG DEAL EITHER WAY. once you convince yourself that, you can't lose. even if she shuts you down. no big deal, nice to meet you, and your out... One line I've used in the past is "i figured youhad a boyfriend...so how does it feel to be in a perfect relationship?" they will start to tell you that its not perfect and whatnot, which in turn makes them feel like they need change. Trust me. Happy hunting : )
Does it matter? If she has a boyfriend/seeing someone than she's either committed to that person and if she isn't committed but still with them than obviously she's not worthwhile because she's willing to be unfaithful. Either way, seems like a case I'd go "ya, not gonna bother with her" then because it's either she really is with someone and so she's really not interested or even if she was than she can't be trusted cause who knows when she'll stop being interested in me for someone new. Women, tbh, seem to be just as bad as the stereotypical guy when it comes to getting bored and wanting something new frequently.
I would just take it at that and leave her alone. Why should you keep hounding her? If she said that, it's clear she is not interested. And therefore you shouldn't start bugging her about it every time you see her, bugging her won't make her want to date you any more.
It just means she's not interested.
Would you please answer mine?
The title is: 'What would you do in my shoes'?
If she's not actually seeing someone, then most likely A.
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I don't think it really matters. Whatever the case, the outcome will be the same. Lose money.
very seriously. it means she's not interested in you, so move on
I'd say B :D
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