When you ask a girl out and she says maybe/I'll see what does it really mean?

[That1tallguy]

Guys how do you handle this situation? Girls if your not intrested why dont you just say so? Every time I've gotten a I'll see response I say ok let me know. Of course it always ends up a flake should I just expect it to be a sugar coated no?

I was thinking next time to just say alright no worries we'll scedual for another time then or ok I can't leave my scedual open all week let me know tomarrow if you able to. if no response I'll take it as an obvious no and move on. I don't got time to put my life on hold and play the mind games bull shit no more.

She's genuinely not sure if she has time

She's not sure if she wants to yet 50/50

Not interest she really means no

[MartinMarinov]

She either need some push to show her that you are worth it or she is not interested. The most attractive girls will test you even if they like you a lot and an inexperienced guy will fuck up. I was chatting with one chick 10/10 very hot and i knew she liked me, but when i tried to schedule a date with her she said
-I'm not going to sleep with you.
Now you can see thats a shit test from mile away, most guys get frustrated and dont know what to answer and say shit like, yeah that's not my intentions, and boom they just failed. If she wasn't interested in the first place she wouldn't bring sex.
So what did i say?
- of course you must earn it first, don't be mad we'll get there, I think you'll do alright , but first let's go (place and time, activity) then she shit tests again
- maybe i'll come, but not so sure.
- I imagined that you were fun and adventures, im not sure I want to go out with you anymore
- i am
- doesn't seem so, but you're at least cute
- 🙈Okay i'll be there only to prove you wrong.
- sounds good to me, i would love to be wrong

[MartinMarinov]

You must be challenging and fun, logical answers will fail, cuz it doesn't show your personality and everyone is logical

[That1tallguy]

So what would you say if she said I'll see after you ask her out?

[KhabibNurgomedov]

Bro I had all three from one girl and looked it up didn't know what it meant till months later its a lazy answer for people who can't give a simple yes or no

[That1tallguy]

Not really a lazy answer they just don't have the balls to say no and try to spare they're own feelings

[That1tallguy]

So what do you do when you get a maybe

[KhabibNurgomedov]

well i move on to the next women and the next up until i had enough and dont bother no more

[KhabibNurgomedov]

yeah true but the girl i was meeting up with would only do it with friends around and then pull a face if i didn't but she would give me them answers when I asked her out I wanted something more now I got more experience with women but won't worth it because I just came out of a 2 year relationship

[witherwing]

It can go two ways. Either she is genuinely unsure at the moment or she means no, but doesn't want to say it. It feels really mean to say no to someone's face, even more so if the reason you say no is that you aren't interested in them in the slightest. Everyone doesn't always react to rejection very well, so it's a bit of a challenge to say no and at the same time try not to get insulted. But I think it's pretty obvious from her face if she is genuinely thinking it over or just trying to go around the word no.

[That1tallguy]

I agree its much better to ask her out irl but that's not always an option. I had to say no before it was kinda hard but I knew it had to be done. I think about it it's much better then be kept waiting and waiting just to either have your time wasted with multiple flakes till you give up or she just or she ends up having to straight up say no. If your not honest from the start your just stringing them along wasting their time cus you don't have the balls to be blunt.

[witherwing]

Oh right sorry, I assumed it was face-to-face for some reason. Saying no over a text or what ever is easy, so I don't see any point in saying maybe.

[That1tallguy]

Which would you rather get if in that position is he kept wondering or have a quike sting and be able to move

[That1tallguy]

You would think right

[Anonymous]

It means she is not that into you.