Polls: Guy's Behavior

In class today this guy (who usually messes around) was randomly like ___(my name)__ you me after class today? And his friend was like "yea he's had a crush on you for more than a year now." Then he was like "yea that's true. wanna go on a date tonight?" And I only smiled because I'm pretty sure they're just joking, but is there any chance they're not?

p. s they usually mess around and he's usually quite mean to me

my boyfriend has told me he wants to declaw his cat because he "is sick of dealing with it" and that he knows a vet who will do the procedure
I've explained to him that I do not want this to happen, I've told him to stop, it's cruel and inhumane... He literally will not listen to me :( he tells me it's none of my business and that it's his possessions - so he chooses to do what he wants.

I've told him so many different options and suggestions instead of declawing. It hasn't changed anything

I hate that there is a vet hospital who accepts this sort of thing !!! I can't imagine what the procedure will look like and the painful after process :( I feel really bad about the whole thing

its been constant fighting - I don't know what to do anymore

I have already asked this question, but had very few responses so am trying it as a poll instead.

I'm fairly average weight wise - about 8st 9 (55kg) - so there's not too much squidgy stomach anyway, but whenever we sit or lay together my boyfriend will often instantly put his hand on my stomach and rub it.
Other times he will poke at my stomach and comment on it being squidgy and soft, and that he likes how squidgy it is.

I was curious as to whether this was something most guys do, is there a reason for it or is he just a bit odd?

I've left it open to girls and guys, so girls can answer from their own experiences too.

I have a crush on this guy who is a year senior to me but of my age. When I started in the school few months back we used to have a lot of eye contact. It still happens but it's a bit different. After we became friendly , we joke around a lot with each other. He teases me a lot and I never miss an opportunity too. But I am the only girl he gets angry with. In the sense he gets in some serious fights with over small issues. Like even over a comment I make. It's not like I really really like him or something but I need a clear cut indication that should I keep crushing or see him as a friend because girls, he is damn cute!!
I don't understand!

--> Guys: Do you consider yourself Masculine?
--> Girls: Do you want to be with a Masculine man?
I personally believe in the concept of Masculinity, but I believe it lays much more in the personality/Behavior than the looks. For me a masculine man is a man who makes me feel feminine.
I don't agree with all the criteria that are used to define a manly man in our mainstream society. For example a manly man in my definition is wise and calm, so if he's aggressive it makes him more childish than manly. But aggressiveness seems to be highly correlated to masculinity in the media.

I see so many guys complain about girls and their time spent on make up, hair, etc and how they basically dislike their femininity which is required to attract you.. it seems like guys like girls without make up and nice clothes yet the only girls who seem to attract the most guys are ones who are very feminine, dress up, do make up, etc. Do guys just like girls who are very feminine because they're (sometimes) self-absorbed and have princess-like attitudes? Is it just the personality of a "feminine" girl that turns most guys off?

WHY GOD WHY

I saw a guy looking at me then whispered "she's energetic, I like that" to he's friend then they both looked at me but when I looked over they both looked away.
The next day the same guy said my name, I was surprised so I snapped my head over and he said "hey you don't have to glare I'm just being friendly". I wasn't trying to glare, I just have a resting b*tch face and I am usually smiling so that makes it worse. But then I got called to do something so I didn't get to reply.
Later that day I saw him keep looking at me, but would always look away when I looked at him. Then later when I was leaving he shouted my name. And so I stopped and turned around and he said bye.

When I got I was thanking that he was acting weird. And then I was like wait a minute dose he like me?
So what do you think dose he like me or was he just being friendly?

my nails are a bit longer than this

I went over to a friends house. And I ended up staying the night, it was a social gathering for about 5 people. So we started watching a movie. Everyone fell asleep but us. I ended up leaning my head on this guys shoulder bc I thought he was cute and he didn't mind, bc its just his arm haha. Then his hand reached for mine and we started holding hands. I was fine with that, I was comfortable with him, bc I liked him and I thought he was attractive. He started to breath a lot lol. I was breathing normal. Why did he start breathing so much lol? Not to mention I just met this guy all in one night. But I got tired. I was like "Im tired" he said go to sleep. It was direct too it seemed like. But I asked him like 2 other stupid questions so it wouldn't be so awkward I guess to ease the tense for him or something like for an example "how are you not tired" and stuff like that bc it was like 1:30am. I ended up getting sleepy so I sorta fell asleep I wasn't in a deep sleep. He stopped holding my hand and he covered his hand with mine I felt that we weren't interlocking anymore. He just had his entire hand over mine. Like Why would u put ur entire hand on mine? I wanted to stay interlocking why do guys do that? But then I felt his hand go to my inner thigh like literally my inner like near my private like it felt like he was on the crease between my thigh and private. Like I don't know. It was a weird feeling, I know you have nerve endings there. I think in the moment it scared me bc I sorta just met this guy. But I can't stop touching where he touched me which is my inner thigh sometimes now. He's in the military lol he was really cute. Im 20, and I think he was 21. But is this normal? I mean I was sleeping I just felt everything bc I wasn't in a DEEP sleep. If it is assault does he know it is? But thanks y'all for reading this and for ur informative advice! And please answer all my questions with question marks in the paragraph