Polls: Guy's Behavior

😭Okay so this guy I have very deep feelings for is being really weird, so before he's made it obvious that he feels the same way but then his friend told me something that made me upset because apparently he said he didn't want me being around him anymore so i started ignoring him but all of a sudden he keeps staring at me and either looking very sad or very mad and sometimes he looks very happy to see me but it all depends on what happens the day before he sees me, and for some reason his friends keep calling me his girlfriend and some of them even said that he said me and him are dating, on valentines day I was walking by and then all of a sudden his friends started to shout at me to get my attention but I acted like I couldn't hear because I wasn't in the mood I was already having a bad day at that time also, but ever since that happened everyday has been straight animosity between me and him, a lot of his friends that i didn't even know were his friends know about me and now all of them are in my business seeing what I am up to and then telling him everything, even a few I have found out follow me on social accounts and I didn't even realize Intel I really looked at the accounts and saw that they were all connected to him, so at this point I really dont know what is going on.😭😭😭😭

I am no where in the position of being in a situation where I get the joy of picking out rings. However ever since my brush with death in my dual truck accident I been reconsidering life. The things I've done and what I want. I also have been plagued with pain nightmares and mini nervous breakdown or panic attacks.

During a recent panic I pulled my car over to relax. I looked up and it happened to be in front of a mall I had bought my engagement ring. Feeling nostalgic needing to relax I went in to the store. There were many memories which washed over me. Good and bad.

I stopped at the ring styles I always wanted. During my first engagement He would have bought it for me had I asked but I didn't dare to. He even implied "that's the one you want isn't it"

I horrifyingly shook my head no in shock. A lie yes but I was very apprehensive at the idea of asking for something so costly with not contributing anything to it. It would have eaten at my conscience. We picked a set which ran significantly less.

Staring at the certain rings I realized I still want what those rings stands for... A forever and happily ever after. A partner whos my equal. I want someone who we balance each others and equally contribute to one anothers needs.

I also realized I'm not the same girl as then. I'm wiser at putting cash a side and I'm more confident. This time I can turn to a man I love and confidently say to him that's the one I want and I'll help pay for it.

My previous husband would have been offended by this. Though he was much older than me and from a different custom.

Do people considered it rude to A pick out one's own ring?

B would it be rude to offer to help pay especially because their requesting a certain ring which may run a bit steep?

As for me I've made up my mind lol that's the ring I want... I don't have the man to go with it yet but I'm hoping to find him! 🤣... And he doesn't have to worry I'll buy it if he can't afford it and then his as well!

When a married man is friendly with a woman, is he just being friendly or does he wish to be more than friends?

I mean you have just had the most intimate moment together. What is a handshake for?

Or would you never be able to be her friend in the same way because you’d question every action?

My boyfriend said his ex attacked him

His mom used to hit him, he was beaten by bullies and got into lots of fights

I've never been in fights... i dont know how to fight.. I've never slapped anyone or hit anyone

I dont have a slap or hitting as a responce to something

He thinks its normal to be slapped? he lived 20 years with her... how is it posible? how this can be explained?

Im confused and shocked when he tells me all the posible ways she attacked him with totally normal face as its smth normal

Apparently, it comes from Tik Tok (I personally don't use this social media but this time I feel like they are onto something).

Red Nail Theory means that: "Men are especially attracted to women wearing red nail polish, and that attraction exists because men remember seeing their mothers and teachers wear red nail polish when they were children"

Do you agree with it?

I personally think that if a guy approaches you or comments on your red nails it's because red is simply a gorgeous rich color and a color of passion, sex. That's why many men like red lipstick on women and/or red dress, red anything.

boyfriend and I been together 4 years. Good guy a honest one from what I’ve known. He’s not big on social media and Instagram caused some problems so he’s off of it for a year or two now. Anyways he watches YouTube shorts so I noticed on his phone he had tik tok downloaded, but wasn’t logged in it was at the main screen for when you first open the app. I asked him about it and he said he downloaded it and said it was the same and said whatever. I said you had it before and he said no I didn’t, (I think he had it years ago but I don’t remember clearly) anyways yeah is that weird?

So For an ice breaker about how I’ll act in zombie apocalypse, I answered that I’ll fight and not run away and that’s because I come from a warrior clan of my home country.

To this, someone on my team said that “it’s in her blood - fighting”

As an over thinker that I am, I am wondering if there was something wrong with my answer. Or was I just being made fun of coz I’m the youngest on the team.

any insights will be helpful

This happened to me during my working day today. Still trying to process 😂😂😬😵‍💫

boyfriend of four years for as long as we been together always took his phone with him to the bathroom and slept with it. I always thought it meant he was hiding something but for four years he always let me go through it whenever, he gets annoyed but lets me. Even when I’m not around he sleeps with it and takes it to the bathroom. I know it sounds weird but I haven’t known him to be unfaithful this far in our relationship. Is this odd?