Polls: Guy's Behavior

He’s not my type at all so definitely not interested. Anyway he suggested that we take our 2 year olds to the park to play. Here’s the thing he’s married with 2 kids and I’m a single mom. His wife would be at work while his teen is home and it would just be me and my kid and him his kid (his youngest kid) and I’m trying to figure out why he wants me to go to the park with him? He’s been taking his kid to that park by himself for a few weeks now.

We’re just friends with benefits. We fucked the first night we met, don’t judge. And he hasn’t contacted me since we fucked 4 days ago. When he left my house he didn’t say bye or look at me. So I’m wondering wtf is going on and should I contact him or not?

He does have a girlfriend but he did when he did that too.

Did he decide I was ugly or is this just what guys do?

Like if a girl says she has lots of options some guys will try to put her down and say that every woman has tons of options and she’s nothing special. Super cringe. Many women have little options in the dating world and many men have more options than women in the dating world. Nothing to do with gender. All about being attractive and standards. It’s not our problem y’all are easier. But stop being delusional saying every woman has tons of options. That must make you type of guys feel better when comparing yourselves to us? When seeing how much more you struggle/are not as wanted. But it’s delusional and false lmao. And super cringe.

So guys, do you like it when a girl wraps her arms around you and embraces you? If she was a friend, how would you feel? If she was someone that you like/were attracted to, would you mind? What if you didn’t like/have feelings for her? How would you react if a girl hugs you?

I’ve had this crush on a guy for over 2 months now. We’ve been messaging each other and he’s aware that I have feelings for him and he’s told me he likes me. We haven’t gone out yet. He even agreed with someone else that I was beautiful, which actually surprised me, considering he’s kind of to himself. Yesterday, for the first time, I walked him to his car, and we talked for about 5 minutes. Before he got in his car, I stretched my arms out and wrapped my arms over his shoulder around his neck. He hugged me back but with one arm. I didn’t think he was expecting me to hug him, so that’s why he reacted that way. He did smile though. I still felt him after the hug. Today, I hugged him before he left campus. I hugged him with both arms, but this time, it was around his shoulders. He hugged back with arms around my back, although it lasted like 2 seconds tops.

A lot of “relationship experts” and dating coaches say that while women are more attracted to a man if she knows that other women are interested in him, the opposite is the case for men. Is this true, are men really less attracted to a woman if he knows other men are interested in a woman, more attracted to her, or does it even matter?

When I walked into the bar he was looking at me, then when I walked up to the bar I turned back and seen him looking at my body/bum.

He moved himself further away but I could see him much better there.

But then he never approached me etc.

He could have a girlfriend or something but why look at me at all, did he decide I was ugly? If he did why the full body look?