Do guys like a bad girl as much as girls like a bad boy?

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ConspiracyTheorist · Accepted Answer

I don't think so but I don't know I can only speak for myself.
It seems to me that the few females I know that say they like the bad boy types are like naive sweet girls that buy into all the bulsshit they are fed from these bad boys, and what makes them bad boys is usually shit like he's been in prison and has tattoos and even gang banging thugs and/or a dude that gets into trouble a lot because he does a lot of stupid shit... well that's a lifestyle that most likely isn't going to change and has and will cheat on her and so on.
I have found that some of these females that tend to go for the bad boy type are narcissists anyway and actually go for this type like a game and she will do whatever necessary to go from the bad boy she says she loves while messaging his dealer behind his back until he finds out or she moves in with the dealer, from their she tries to snake her way up the ladder wanting the guy that most people know of and or talk about as a bad ass or basically whoever she thinks will make her known to the whole network of scumbags below them, she wants to be with the one that has power and fame amongst the nobody's... or she is a classy broad (on the outside) doing the same thing just on a much greater scale that involves politicians and Hollywood stars and such but just as broken on the inside as the shallow heartless one wanting her name to be know amongst the nobodies. But I suppose only some are like that and not all.
And for myself I've learned that most of these bad girls are pretty much described above and that's the last thing I want.
I just want a female that doesn't brag about how tough she is or how loyal upfront she claims to be I just want a chick that loves me as much as I love her and that her actions and her words say the same thing because people can say anything but they're actions will tell you all you need to know.

BullShark · Accepted Answer

No, we don't. Unlike how women are attracted to the bad boy archetype (emphasis on "archetype" and not actual assholes, so don't pull out your pitchforks just yet), we men don't always look for a bad girl when looking for a suitable partner.

Now, I won't go into the specifics of what you meant by "bad girl" here, as it could be anything, but I'm just gonna go on a whim and assume you mean a self-entitled "I don't need no man" woman who tries extra hard to look like the independent one. That sort of thing is just annoying to us, in all honesty, and I think I can speak for most men here when I say that we get turned off by that sort of behavior.

As a man, and I know this may sound cliche but it's true; that we like it when a woman instead, leans on us for support and that we're her source of strength and power. Yes, being independent and self sufficient is attractive to some degree, but women who deliberately reject their femininity to look more masculine and tough is a different thing. The same way as how most women aren't attracted to a guy who acts girly and/or feminine, the same way we as men don't find women who carry themselves this way. It's basic human biology that we're attracted to opposites. Otherwise we'd instead have eyes for our own guy friends.

starfoxxy64 · Accepted Answer

On all truth I might just delete this app altogether because many of these people really have been disrespectful towards few of my own questions and any way I don't understand how one simple question it's blown out of proportion and I become the victim out of my question that I asked so to answer this question about guys liking bad girls they just wanted to hopefully finding a freaky little sexual woman who can be something in behind the bedroom if they are into certain things like that but when it's outside in public they want to have a trophy wife that they can have be proud of which is pretty much sickening to me so everybody has your own mind set of what they might be into in a partner or relationship I guess.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

My male best friend specifically chased after toxic girls, aka “bad girls”. He enjoys the drama, it spices up his life as he likes to say. There are always going to be people in both gender groups who like bad guys or bad girls.

Makeushiver · Answer

Lenny Bruce, maybe the first stand up comedy figure said this before he died: Men want women to be sexually adventure oriented. Has different ideas that around BDSM. I don't particularl like this word but men want the women they arte with to be slutty with a manageable doe of nymphomania (sometimes)

Other times men want women to behave like a nun. I like sexually experienced lover once they bring so many fun things.

Do you prefer bad boys. I'd actually be very interested to hear characteristics about men or men's behavior that makes her want to fuck him

freewife · Answer

And who defines bad? There's so much BS attached to that for women, usually by men, often because of some religious crap. That's how things like FGM evolve. 'Innocence' means ownership in many cases sadly. I want someone with experience who knows what she wants, not necessarily someone who has fucked the world, but has lived and loved. So many young guys want an experience with middle aged women for this very reason, and so that they can learn from it. Both women and men benefit from that.

Sandeeppingping · Answer

Angelina jolie got away with because she's Angelina jolie, a 7/10 would die alone acting like that, ohhh wait Angelina herself has no one now jeez that's brutal, but back to the point, I emphasize on got away with it, if you have her looks then do whatever you want, if not no it isn't attractive, the polarity exists in the dude being the bad boy and you being the nice one, as aforementioned a 7/10 would either be treated like a hump and dump type of girl or a bro type of girl

pass_the_celery98 · Answer

I want to be with a good girl with good values. I guess girls pursue bad boys because it intrigues them, the bad boy leads the chase of her pursuing him not the other way around. I think there are girls out there who don't want anything serious and go after guys like that, but then there are girls who want a girl like that because he's mysterious, he's a challenge. Eventually, as girls become young women, they slowly realize this dude is not right for me.

maximumpower · Answer

"Good girls go to heaven but bad girls go everywhere else."
Guys only want the bad girls for the fun.
Gals want the bad boys bc they "excite" them, which they cannot differentiate from love. They also have the warped idea and concept that they can change them.
In the end - guys that have fun with the bad girls don't suffer nearly as much as the girls who chase after the bad boys.

Lynx122 · Answer

Some do, not my thing though. I'm on this discord server and the guys and the girls simp for the evil lady from resident evil 7. I don't get it but to each their own.

exitseven · Answer

I dated a girl who I guess was not like the girls I usually dated, It was fun for a while but afterwards I just realized that we were really not compatible and it was just a physical attraction that we had.

Sexiestjohnson · Answer

Personally, bad girls are bad. They can screw you without caring about you. I want soul not body. So they are bad for me. And their body count is way too high. Way too high.

Wisdom-Strength-Love · Answer

Man if she got good credit. The sky in the limit. If she has less of a social media presence, i might have an engagement ring.

HighValue · Answer

I like good girls. That is why I stay single since that is nearly impossible to find.

Berethor · Answer

Nope, because if a girl is a ho it's a dealbreaker to many guys.

Filthy_Immigrant · Answer

not really. there is nothing "good" about bad girls. only men who either hate themselves or have no standards go after someone who is willing to control, manipulate and abuse his ass.

macjets007 · Answer

It's a matter of confidence. Often the "bad bitch" or spicy girl comes with a lot of baggage and attitude. For dating, it's nice to have some normalcy. So it depends.

Methis · Answer

Not as much as you'd think. That's fun in high school because your more likely to get laid by a rebel girl but once you start thinking with your other head... they are more of a hassle

RavVid · Answer

Define like.  I certainly like nice girls. Bad girls get you into trouble.

888theGreat · Answer

bad girls are usually sluts , so no. Men don't want sluts to be the mother of their kids

Rockstarrrrr · Answer

Yeah but unlike girls.. They're smart about it and they just have fun with them and don't expect a lot

Staximus · Answer

I don't need to deal with all that stupidity, problems, drama, etc. Time for them to grow the fuck up and act like an adult

Ms_Facesitter · Answer

15 still voted yes. What's the appeal or what do you see as a bad girl?

Anonymous · Answer

Bad girl will suck my Dick out in a Parking lot In the car and will let me jerk off in her car while on the highway and will jerk me off while out in parking lot

cth96190 · Answer

Angela Jolie is/was not rebellious. She was and remains insane.

DrBanana · Answer

Nah I like girls who are more down to earth but also have a little tounge in cheek spark about them.

art84 · Answer

Bad girls sound terrible. Never been attractive to them as they seem like you couldn't tame them.

Zolly99999 · Answer

No... they are guaranteed to cheat on you. Been there done that..  Bad girls are only good for one thing only...

Jackblue · Answer

No men don't really value surprise and mystery in a lover like a lot of women seem to.

AimeeKyle · Answer

Sometimes…. it would depend on their compatibility with me…

d3n0939 · Answer

All I met bad girls. Only the outsides that were innocent

Anonymous · Answer

No. I mean young guys might like them a bit. But ANY guy with ANY measurable experience know that those women are more hassle then thier worth longterm.

anylolone · Answer

We wouldn't be in such a fuck up otherwise. Maybe it ain't most men, but at least the men that women value really like bad girls.

Ryfyle · Answer

I have never seen or have heard of a "Bad Girl" nothing they do can be qualified as "Bad". It's all try hard behavior.

Anonymous · Answer

For sex yes, for serious relationships not so much.

Jamie05rhs · Answer

Absolutely not. Men want a sane woman to be the mother of their children.

AndrésC64 · Answer

I'd say that the attraction is equal for guys as bad boys are for girls.

ODC2112 · Answer

No, I don't like never grown teenagers in an adult body.

Keepitreal007 · Answer

To a point. If it’s to much then it’s a huge turn off.

Nigjt · Answer

Yes but only in bed or when she is around me. God Bless

Anonymous · Answer

No girls who think that being a “bad bitch” is a good thing are complete morons. Guys me fuck an easy bitch but girls that have morals and dignity are way more attractive

Lunatic1 · Answer

I'm not sure if it's the same, but a lot of guys like a bad girl.

fred_durst · Answer

bad girl? like promiscuous girls? I LOVE THEM , they are my goddesses

Anonymous · Answer

If they are bad, they are probably sluts. I much prefer good girls.

Anonymous · Answer

More of a bad girl in sheets rather than bad girl in the streets

dolemite89 · Answer

no guys like hot girls, bad girls are shitty people

WhiteBoyChill · Answer

I can assure you most guys are not any bit attracted to thots that just want to hoe around

bubblegunnn · Answer

Bad girls for fun, and good girl for wife

Kaneki05 · Answer

I know I do...

Distorted · Answer

Honestly, innocence is all I want from a girl

spartan55 · Answer

What is a 'bad girl'?

fonduegirl · Answer

The ones I'm interested in are 💗😏

blissinanarchy1 · Answer

No because everyone in the town fucked her.

britishbby · Answer

Yes fuck me just jump my bones god there hot

Hairylegs222 · Answer

Hell no. I want a sweet good woman.

TheSpaceGnome · Answer

I like "overly" nice girls.

Guardian45 · Answer

Déjà Q. Read previous Qs.

SAMI_DABBAB · Answer

Guys love sluts, I'm guys

Stevefiveo · Answer

I'd run away as fast as I could.

Lincoln33 · Answer

Cause that character does not suit them

Wise4myage · Answer

Not particularly.

Luopio27 · Answer

I hate bad girls. They are so boring.

OddBeMe · Answer

Do bad people just wear leather jackets?

Zygum · Answer

Bad girls are for bad boys,

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