Polls: Guy's Behavior

As stated in the main question, the person chose not to read it... and the letter ends stating that if the person doesn't accept the olive branch I will walk away and don't want the person in my life. After months of time and space the person claimed to want a connection of some sort, but (1) without reading the letter or (2) accepting the request to be more mindful.

I'm sticking to my guns and walking away, however I'd like to know what y'all think... I don't know why the person would want to keep bugging me to maintain some sort of connection when clearly we're not morally on the same page.

We were texting about how our days were going and I told him what I was up to and how I was excited because it was nice out and I got to wear my new dress.

Then he told me that he wanted to see it. Is this something usual to ask a girl that you’re just friends with?

I hearted his goodnight… I know technically he was the last to text, am I expected to reach out or should I leave the ball in his court?

Do guys know when they want a future with someone in a short time period or does it take awhile to figure it out

A few of my guy friends as well as someone I’ve been connecting with tend to skim messages from their friends/relatives/etc.

How likely are you to read through something that’s a page or longer? So you just skim and consider the task complete?

He would compliment me in ways like saying I’m so hot. I’m banging and “big fat ass”. He’d never really compliment me in any other way and not often at all. He’d say i was pretty occasionally too

But with his other girlfriend would say she had perfect boobs. And bigged them up so much. I have no idea how often or if he said other compliments but he was able to say that off his own back. But with me he couldn’t.

I’ve read that narcissists will compliment people less the more attractive they are. His friends told me this girl wasn’t anywhere near as good looking as I am and my narcissistic ex himself said it too. Is that why?

He always said bitterly I know I’m good looking. I know I have a big bum. I know I’m good etc.

What is the reason he couldn’t compliment me but he could this girl?

I was chatting with my crush today and I may be reading too much into it, but I feel like he sort of inadvertently hinted that he finds me beautiful.

We were chatting about random stuff and we got onto the subject of makeup (random, I know). I was saying how I take makeup on holiday but I don’t really wear it that often. I then said (as a joke), “I like to think I’m naturally beautiful”

My crush then said, “exactly, exactly” but he avoided eye contact as he said it and he had a smile on his face.

There was a similar situation a month or so ago where he said he doesn’t like talking to other people because he can’t be bothered. I said, “I must be pretty awesome if you’re talking to me then” and he said “yes, absolutely, you passed the test with flying colours” and when he said this, he looked away smiling.

Does his reaction indicate that he thinks I’m beautiful?

Why is every girl surgically operated these days? They all have giant round turned up butts. And they all pretend they got it at the gym. You seen them doing ass workouts with their fake assess. And no this isn’t jealously, I just find it absurd they really think their fooling anyone since all of them do the same thing they all know they’re lying.

For example girl A is at the gym doing ass workouts with her fake ass.
she looks over and girl B is also doing some other ass workout with her also operated butt, this body shape is unmistakable, all who get surgery can tell right away where there’s another fake ass, so they both know they’re neither of them got that ass and small waist at the gym.

they both know they got fat sucked out of the fat stomach to make it small and inject the fat to the ass to make it large

so they both know they’re liars, don’t they feel ridiculous?

and so men really prefer these bodies? They didn’t actually do the work for it, they just paid and pretend they did it with gym work.

they all look the same. Just some Alger than others but the same body shape, do men really like this unnatural surgically formed figure?

if that’s the case then all the remaining women will have to get operated too if they don’t want to be single since that’s what men are preferring these days, the fake woman.

Age doesn’t matter from 18, 25, 30, 45, etc

they all start to look like this. It’s not the natural shape it’s an exaggerated artificial curve. And from the front there’s no hip dip that’s the clear part where it’s also evident it’s been surgically enhanced

men are overlooking natural woman because the prefer the fakes?

This guy has been sending me mixed signals and now he sent me a pic like this… flirty or friendly?

I had been seeing this guy for the last 6 months. He’s still carrying baggage from a divorce that occurred three years ago. His ex wife left him as he didn’t make enough money.

He’s been reluctant to take things to the next level with us as he says he needs to make a certain amount of money before he can feel like a man again. I’ve already told him his income is not what determines his manliness/attraction for me. He told me if my needs are not being met, he would like to be friends until he is closer to achieving his financial goals. So I walked away but it still hurt. Guys, would you give up a relationship if you weren’t there financially?

The backstory is a guy I met online over a year ago started acting different and friend zoned me some months after I found out his real identity.

I’m feeling hurt and I want him to know that but also open to talking through the issue if he wants to.

I came up with two different messages I’m thinking of sending. One is really long and the other is more to the point without excessive details.

We still talk regularly.

Which do you prefer?

A. Hey so there’s something that I’ve been wanting to share with you for quite awhile now.

I’m feeling confused and hurt knowing that you continued to engage in sexual conversations with me for so long when you were actually feeling wary of me. It really makes me wonder if you are being genuine with me at all.

As I said almost a year ago, I fully understand if you don’t want to talk now that I know who you are. But feeling like I need to pretend that I don’t know your name and having to wonder whether you’re talking to me just to avoid conflict makes me feel like the connection might not be natural anymore.

I know I can’t change your feelings, but I’m working on cultivating more self-love and that doesn’t negate mine. As much as I enjoy talking to you, unless we can talk this through and change our dynamic, I feel that I’m disrespecting myself by continuing to chat with you.

Looking forward to hearing your thoughts on this!

B. Hey so I wasn’t expecting you to reach out after I left (website where we met) and after some thought, I think I need to let this friendship go.

I’m working on cultivating more self-love, and as much as I enjoy talking to you, unless our dynamic changes, continuing to do so is hurting my self-esteem.

Open to talking about it but also don’t want to bore you with a long message.

Take care 😊

I met this guy online over a year ago now and found out that he told me a pseudonym instead of his real name. For a long time he just played it cool but a few months ago he told me that he wasn’t comfortable with me calling him by his real name and now he’s putting me in the friend-zone after he had told me that he wanted to meet me in real life. I honestly am feeling unwanted, humiliated and inferior although I can understand why he felt threatened by me finding this out.

Part of me wants to hold on and see if with time he is able to trust me again but I also feel so hurt that I’m wanting to let go. What should I do? Also do I say goodbye or ghost him?