Polls: Guy's Behavior

So as mentioned before my coworker said I talk about you so my son wants to meet you take you to lunch. He likes to know people who are in my life can I give him your number? It's just lunch nothing else. Anyways , I initially said ," cool it's football season it would be cool to have a guy friend tag along and bar hop." After she had already given my number she says," no he doesn't want to watch football with you he wants to have lunch with you. He's going back to college and he has a good job he's just below a lawyer. Do you like husky guys?" That put me off because that sounds like she's trying to play matchmaker. I'm not interested in a coworker son and he doesn't sound appealing at all. I told her I'm not interested in that right now. Anyways the son text me. Once I figured out what they were up to such as matchmaker I ignored. Then he message again.

Would it be weird to ask for a hug? Sounds a bit stupid to be asking this but as a girl I have never come across a man that initiates hugs or anything affectionate other than sex. Do they prefer us to initiate a hug instead? Do you guys find it awkward?

Connected with a guy through a friend - I suspect he is an Aspie (formal choice of words, miscommunications, not understanding metaphors (taking things literally) and general awkwardness all around).

Thing is, we were supposed to meet for the first time about a month ago but I had to reschedule twice a while back as sth urgent at work came up and 2nd time I was really sick from the vaccine. That's when things got a bit strange

1) We attempted to rescheduled a third time. I offered 2 days - said day X could work but day Y would be best. He didn't respond for 4 days so I was kinda disappointed thought I was being ignored - on day Y, he assumed we were on and reached out to confirm plans but I'd already made plans but offered to meet for a quick drink that night before my later plans

He didn't respond to that. I was bewildered at this point.. I thought about it and then the asperger hit me. Someone also later told me that offering to meet for a drink before actual plans sounds like I see him as an afterthought so I gave the benefit of the doubt and assumed miscommunication. I messaged the next day saying I'm not sure what happened but would still like to meet

2) He replied 2 days later asking when I was free. We agreed to a day and on the day of i didn't hear from him (he has always texted the past few time) so i asked if we were still on. He then asked if we could reschedule to a week night as he wasn't feeling the best from a hangover on but said he could still make it. I was bummed out and told him no problem and feel better soon.

He then texted back that his:
- Schedule is open all5 days for the week
- apologised sincerely (albeit really formal) and thought his hangover would pass by now
- Later added that he could still make it but just would not be his usual chirper self

How would you find this? Does this sound like he got cold feet? He could have told me he was feeling hungover earlier in the day before I texted.

Wondering how many guys are actually willing to do this