Polls: Guy's Behavior

E. g.
- tied up top and leggings that shows my stomach
&
- top that shows my cleavage

He would say to me:
"Why are you wearing this?"
"Who you trying to impress in the mall or street?"
"We are just grocery shopping, so why you dressed up like this? We are not clubbing/partying"
"Please respect yourself"
"I like you better with normal clothes"

Why do i watch everyone?
Im a girl. These guys at ny job who are my pals i guess lol well we joke around but they say i watch them. Lol. They individually say it and also they say u watch everyone 😂

I dont wana annoy them or anyone

So just some background information, I’m 22 now and my dad is around 65-68. He also had stokes around 5 years ago thats left him somewhat dependent on us to take care of him among other health issues. Before the strokes though, when I was a teenager, there were times were he did stare at my body a little too intensely along with a family friend that was there as well. That was partially because I was wearing a tight fitted shirt but I wasn’t expecting them to be there. Growing up as well as now, he comments on my weight and mostly says I’m too fat. Only a couple of times when I did lose some weight, he said I’ve gotten skinner which I didn’t really care for.

Recently though, I noticed that he stares at my chest longer than normal for when I’m trying to help him get up from his wheelchair even though I’m not wearing a low cut/tight shirt. At first I disregarded it but now it’s happening almost every time I help. He also stares at the rest of my body sometimes when I’m walking by but doesn’t say anything. Today though, he was trying to look through the crack of my wardrobe door to stare at me while I was changing. I’m not sure if he knew I was changing then or what (I wasn’t naked then either, I still had my clothes on), but it made me really uncomfortable that he still glanced that way regardless besides keep on walking. I’m not sure who to really talk to about this and afraid that I’m assuming incorrectly about his character once I do tell someone. What do you guys think?

Me and my boyfriend been together for 3 years
He has mentioned he wants kids in general

We were just cuddling in bed today
Then he said to me: "I love you so much you know that?"
And I replied "me too"

And then he startled me by saying
"I want you to be the mother of my kids. Im serious. Im 30, Im stable enough to provide for a family now. I will be happy if you get pregnant"

We do groceries shopping together
& we go out to dinner & lunch
Etc...
Most of the time, he pays

So there is this guy that goes to a few of my classes and we are both majoring in the same program. I will be honest there was a part of me that knew he was gay based on how he talks, his mannerisms, and so on. Anyway since last semester I started to question why he acts so strange around me. He would act like he is terrified to death of me (keep in mind I am an alternative girl), sometimes he avoids me, he will feel comfortable talking with other people except me (in fact he will often grow quite with me), when I try to be friendly with him during a few exercises in my acting classes, sometimes he acts like a cat got his tongue when I try to talk to him (do keep in mind I am a shy and introverted person so even I am like wtf), one time at the end of an acting exercise I did with him, he gave me a thumbs up (I am not sure what that means but I assume that was his way of being approved of something), he said my name wrong a few times on accident, whenever we do lock eyes with each other he will look at me with relaxed eyes, he fixes his hair when he sees me from a distance, he came up and tried to strike a conversation with me once, he will say bye to me sometimes especially when it is just the two of us around and nobody else, one time his face lite up when he said bye to me, when I did acknowledge his existence and said hi to him he would give this prolonged eye contact, and in the beginning of the second semester we bumped into each other and he acted surprised saying “oh it’s you... good morning”. Those are just the few examples. Anyway, I am not sure what the reason is for his behavior around me... is he secretly attracted to me? Does he have a straight crush on me? Is he repulsed by me? Is it because he knows that I like him and trying to keep his distance? Does he want to be my friend but doesn’t know what to say to me? I don’t know what his deal is maybe I am over reading his actions when it turns out to be nothing? Someone please send help, lol.

I put on shit like this to impress him:

and get this reaction:

Only to wear this one day:

and I get this reaction:

My guy friends at work say im unintentionally funny?
My guy friends at work say im unintentionally funny?

Im a girl. Is that good and ok?

One of them used to hit on me a lot but he has a girlfriend. I dont want him im just saying. He said im the most awkward girl he ever met but that it is attractive to guys.

Today he was doubled over laughing at me being unintentionally funny

There was a guy that I briefly dated
But we went out separate ways for few years
We got back in touch again
And he asked if I would like to go out for dinner with him
And I agreed

Todays our dinner date
He texted me:
"Hey you excited to see me today? Haha"

Why did he ask me that?
Is it because he's the one thats excited?

I am asking because I realize that some famous instagram stars (kylie, demi rose... well but i don't think anyone would call them "really beautiful" but they're popular) who everyone knows love plastic surgery have fans. On the other side, Bella Hadid and Eiza Gonzalez lose some popularity for their beauty because people say "she's pretty but plastic" or they will always bring it up.
So what is your opinion in regard to plastic surgery?