Guys, do you like it when other men stare at your girlfriend/wife?

[Anonymous]

Yes/I'm fine with it

No

[kmg9150]

They could look all they want. Doesn’t bother me one bit. Tell her she hot or whatever compliment, why should she be shielded from hearing it. You want to ask her on a date, through a pick up line, take it while you got it. I’ll just look back and laugh. We’re all taught that we should react different in that type of situation, like stand up and protect, get aggressive , sorry not for me.


For one protect from what admiration, a compliment … dudes get mad like it’s an insult to undress someones lady in their mind but will masturbate to some pornstar behind closed doors and that’s not an insult. I don’t own her, she’s free to go anytime she wants, nothing will ever change that. Sure I’ll stand up if there’s anything of the physical nature or harassing nature. It see it as protecting the person, not what’s mine. Women may act like it may bother them but it dont, unless there is an immoral sense about it. Everyone wants to be wanted, likes attention. I also look at women when I’m out with my girl. If I have to hide or act different than I would when I’m by myself than it’s just that, I’d be hiding something.

[BareTruth]

They can admire all they want, I have no issue with that. The second they decide to put their hands on her is where I draw the line

[White_Widow]

I guess this question is directed at the men on here. But if I would turn the tables and ask myself if I would mind women ogling my man, the answer is, no I wouldn't mind.

And I can tell exactly why not.

I would be proud of the man I'm with, I mean, that's MY guy! Or else I wouldn't be with him.

And therefor they can look all they want and I know my guy will probably look at them, maybe even have a certain lust for them. I mean come on. We can all pretend that's not true, but we also all know it is.

But at the end of the day, he's coming home with or to me! He'll be waking up next to me! I am the one getting his love and everything else which makes me feel like I'm on the top of the world!

So look all you want, he's mine 😋 and I'll be damn proud to be his.

[Anonymous]

My husband used to be uncomfortable with any attention on us or me because it made him feel scrutinized himself, like he also had to be worthy. But finally he decided not to feel that way anymore, and now he actually likes it and takes it as a compliment that someone likes his woman.

[TurboKid]

No. Stop that. Look at your own GFs and wives. I don't mind as much though unless they are all up in our space and trying to pick her up. Then my brain does a thing where it's very confusing and I'm seeing like The Matrix. Because I like fighting very much. But I had an ex break up with me for that very reason. So I'm kinda confused about what to do except just stand in front of the guy and say she's mine. But I wanna get in a fight but I don't know what I'm supposed to do anymore because it's like the things that I think you're supposed to do here and illegal now and some girls don't like it.

[ladsin]

Not in a relationship right now, but hell no. It’s an extension of mate guarding behaviors in other mammalian species. Women (human) have hidden estrous and a father can never be certain of his paternity of his progeny, therefore feelings of jealousy and other such systems are an extension of mate guarding to ensure you’re not incurring the costs of raising a child that’s not yours.
It’s something we may try to fight against, but it’s natural. This can be offset somewhat by our desire to show off our woman to garner higher status among our male peers, but it’s a fine line to walk.

[nawtee_me]

If I am with a girl I find attractive then why shouldn't other guys find her attractive too? If I am with her and she is with me then what difference does it make if someone else is looking at her? Getting mad about it just show insecurity on your part. Same if it were a girl looking at a guy that another girl was with. If she got mad it would just show her insecurity. Getting upset over such things means we need to look at ourselves to see where the problem lies. It is not with the other person...

[Xyglo27]

Do I like it when people stare at my girlfriend/wife?

No! Why the fuck would I like that?

I don't mind it but I certainly don't like that. My girlfriend/wife is mine & having people stare at her beauty will definitely make me a little bit jealous.

[jmr2191]

I'm more protective than not. A guy staring is a message of desire and possible intent to make a movie that is not wanted by my girlfriend or I- especially if he notices our interactions. If he doesn't approach, I will leave it alone. It's not worth the fight. If he does approach, it is another matter entirely.

[TruthBringer]

Men will look regardless. You can't stop a man from looking. That's out of one's control.

My girl is good looking and dresses appriopriately. Even then she gets guys looking at her. It doesn't bother me. Men look anyway. What matters the most is that she doesn't entertain other men directly or indirectly and doesn't do stupid things behind my back that would bring our relationship in jepordy. If all of that is good, I couldn't give a rat's ass if they look. It's out of my control anyway.

[BeMuse]

Nope. People are going to look at whatever they’re going to look at, but in general you shouldn’t just ogle someone that is clearly in a relationship with someone else. There has to be some boundaries and some decency. If someone checks out a girlfriend in passing it’s not a big deal, but I’d prefer to not have the attention and just be able to enjoy my private life with those I care about. There is no pleasure gained from it. You’d have to be some sort of narcissistic to enjoy that.

[HawkPerception]

Free to look. Free to talk. Free to hug. Anything more is off the table.

My ex was damn attractive. When she was in a dress, every guy would eye her whenever we were walking. I didn't care. I didn't like it or dislike it. I would tell her every time I noticed her getting checked out, because I knew it was flattering to her.

[Shaggy_KW]

I don't like it but I won't address it unless it goes too far. Like if you're staring and I catch eyes with you and you look down that's fine but if I keep looking at you and you've been staring that's kinda creepy but I'll try and stay chill. If my girlfriend mentions it, the problem has escalated and if you are straight up just staring at her cleavage or butt you're going to be threatened because that's gross

[Mossberg500]

Not at all, I'm a very jealous person, but I'm learning to deal with it. If she makes it too painfully obvious we may be having words later. I've been in this situation before I don't care much for it. Sadly it seems women get 'more flirtatious' and often more undesirable with every passing generation. Or at least that's the way it feels to me.

[God_of_Thunder]

I neither like, nor dislike it.

As long as they are at least respectful about it, then I don't care, at all. Their approval/disapproval means nothing to me.

If they leer at her, or are creepy in some other way, then it will upset me.

[yourbabygirl921]

I wouldn't want anyone staring or checking out my man but I can't control people

[dsgaboy]

Men stare at women for sexually purposes only, women don't do this when they are staring at another woman's man. It's a bit more defensive for men vs women

[Biancam13]

I would not really like it if other girls were constantly staring at my boyfriend. I mean, strangers on the street is ok, but flirty glances? No thanks.

[NamerOfStars]

I don't LIKE it, but it doesn't bother me; presumably, if I find her attractive, so will others. If it's not making her uncomfortable, I don't have a problem with it.

[mk200195]

Staring might be uncomfortable but it doesn't hurt anyone so i let it go and move on. I don’t actually intervene so long as the guy is not yet aware I am her boyfriend and he is not getting pushy.

[BillHe1]

I'm fine, it reminds me just how good looking my wife is, to have guys staring at her in lust.

But sh'e all mine, and that night I'll show her just how much I love her.

[lovedejj_xo]

No although before Covid I had one girl attempt to flirt with my boyfriend at the club right in front of me and she wanted to fight when I laughed at her with my boyfriend... we just walked away and her friend grabbed her

[soe11]

Absolutely I don't mind, but I like to see positive and appreciate way.
Every one got right to se as they like.
You know what, that occasion we passionate kiss each other and laugh eachother, then stopped staring.

[The_Maphio]

As long as they watch and not touch. Protective is good, but overly attached is a bummer for her, too.