Guys, do you like it when other men stare at your girlfriend/wife?

[Anonymous]

Yes/I'm fine with it

No

[kmg9150]

They could look all they want. Doesn’t bother me one bit. Tell her she hot or whatever compliment, why should she be shielded from hearing it. You want to ask her on a date, through a pick up line, take it while you got it. I’ll just look back and laugh. We’re all taught that we should react different in that type of situation, like stand up and protect, get aggressive , sorry not for me.


For one protect from what admiration, a compliment … dudes get mad like it’s an insult to undress someones lady in their mind but will masturbate to some pornstar behind closed doors and that’s not an insult. I don’t own her, she’s free to go anytime she wants, nothing will ever change that. Sure I’ll stand up if there’s anything of the physical nature or harassing nature. It see it as protecting the person, not what’s mine. Women may act like it may bother them but it dont, unless there is an immoral sense about it. Everyone wants to be wanted, likes attention. I also look at women when I’m out with my girl. If I have to hide or act different than I would when I’m by myself than it’s just that, I’d be hiding something.

[BareTruth]

They can admire all they want, I have no issue with that. The second they decide to put their hands on her is where I draw the line

[White_Widow]

I guess this question is directed at the men on here. But if I would turn the tables and ask myself if I would mind women ogling my man, the answer is, no I wouldn't mind.

And I can tell exactly why not.

I would be proud of the man I'm with, I mean, that's MY guy! Or else I wouldn't be with him.

And therefor they can look all they want and I know my guy will probably look at them, maybe even have a certain lust for them. I mean come on. We can all pretend that's not true, but we also all know it is.

But at the end of the day, he's coming home with or to me! He'll be waking up next to me! I am the one getting his love and everything else which makes me feel like I'm on the top of the world!

So look all you want, he's mine 😋 and I'll be damn proud to be his.

[Anonymous]

My husband used to be uncomfortable with any attention on us or me because it made him feel scrutinized himself, like he also had to be worthy. But finally he decided not to feel that way anymore, and now he actually likes it and takes it as a compliment that someone likes his woman.

[TurboKid]

No. Stop that. Look at your own GFs and wives. I don't mind as much though unless they are all up in our space and trying to pick her up. Then my brain does a thing where it's very confusing and I'm seeing like The Matrix. Because I like fighting very much. But I had an ex break up with me for that very reason. So I'm kinda confused about what to do except just stand in front of the guy and say she's mine. But I wanna get in a fight but I don't know what I'm supposed to do anymore because it's like the things that I think you're supposed to do here and illegal now and some girls don't like it.

[ladsin]

Not in a relationship right now, but hell no. It’s an extension of mate guarding behaviors in other mammalian species. Women (human) have hidden estrous and a father can never be certain of his paternity of his progeny, therefore feelings of jealousy and other such systems are an extension of mate guarding to ensure you’re not incurring the costs of raising a child that’s not yours.
It’s something we may try to fight against, but it’s natural. This can be offset somewhat by our desire to show off our woman to garner higher status among our male peers, but it’s a fine line to walk.

[nawtee_me]

If I am with a girl I find attractive then why shouldn't other guys find her attractive too? If I am with her and she is with me then what difference does it make if someone else is looking at her? Getting mad about it just show insecurity on your part. Same if it were a girl looking at a guy that another girl was with. If she got mad it would just show her insecurity. Getting upset over such things means we need to look at ourselves to see where the problem lies. It is not with the other person...

[HawkPerception]

Free to look. Free to talk. Free to hug. Anything more is off the table.

My ex was damn attractive. When she was in a dress, every guy would eye her whenever we were walking. I didn't care. I didn't like it or dislike it. I would tell her every time I noticed her getting checked out, because I knew it was flattering to her.

[Xyglo27]

Do I like it when people stare at my girlfriend/wife?

No! Why the fuck would I like that?

I don't mind it but I certainly don't like that. My girlfriend/wife is mine & having people stare at her beauty will definitely make me a little bit jealous.

[jmr2191]

I'm more protective than not. A guy staring is a message of desire and possible intent to make a movie that is not wanted by my girlfriend or I- especially if he notices our interactions. If he doesn't approach, I will leave it alone. It's not worth the fight. If he does approach, it is another matter entirely.

[TruthBringer]

Men will look regardless. You can't stop a man from looking. That's out of one's control.

My girl is good looking and dresses appriopriately. Even then she gets guys looking at her. It doesn't bother me. Men look anyway. What matters the most is that she doesn't entertain other men directly or indirectly and doesn't do stupid things behind my back that would bring our relationship in jepordy. If all of that is good, I couldn't give a rat's ass if they look. It's out of my control anyway.

[BeMuse]

Nope. People are going to look at whatever they’re going to look at, but in general you shouldn’t just ogle someone that is clearly in a relationship with someone else. There has to be some boundaries and some decency. If someone checks out a girlfriend in passing it’s not a big deal, but I’d prefer to not have the attention and just be able to enjoy my private life with those I care about. There is no pleasure gained from it. You’d have to be some sort of narcissistic to enjoy that.

[Shaggy_KW]

I don't like it but I won't address it unless it goes too far. Like if you're staring and I catch eyes with you and you look down that's fine but if I keep looking at you and you've been staring that's kinda creepy but I'll try and stay chill. If my girlfriend mentions it, the problem has escalated and if you are straight up just staring at her cleavage or butt you're going to be threatened because that's gross

[Mossberg500]

Not at all, I'm a very jealous person, but I'm learning to deal with it. If she makes it too painfully obvious we may be having words later. I've been in this situation before I don't care much for it. Sadly it seems women get 'more flirtatious' and often more undesirable with every passing generation. Or at least that's the way it feels to me.

[God_of_Thunder]

I neither like, nor dislike it.

As long as they are at least respectful about it, then I don't care, at all. Their approval/disapproval means nothing to me.

If they leer at her, or are creepy in some other way, then it will upset me.

[yourbabygirl921]

I wouldn't want anyone staring or checking out my man but I can't control people

[dsgaboy]

Men stare at women for sexually purposes only, women don't do this when they are staring at another woman's man. It's a bit more defensive for men vs women

[Biancam13]

I would not really like it if other girls were constantly staring at my boyfriend. I mean, strangers on the street is ok, but flirty glances? No thanks.

[NamerOfStars]

I don't LIKE it, but it doesn't bother me; presumably, if I find her attractive, so will others. If it's not making her uncomfortable, I don't have a problem with it.

[mk200195]

Staring might be uncomfortable but it doesn't hurt anyone so i let it go and move on. I don’t actually intervene so long as the guy is not yet aware I am her boyfriend and he is not getting pushy.

[BillHe1]

I'm fine, it reminds me just how good looking my wife is, to have guys staring at her in lust.

But sh'e all mine, and that night I'll show her just how much I love her.

[lovedejj_xo]

No although before Covid I had one girl attempt to flirt with my boyfriend at the club right in front of me and she wanted to fight when I laughed at her with my boyfriend... we just walked away and her friend grabbed her

[soe11]

Absolutely I don't mind, but I like to see positive and appreciate way.
Every one got right to se as they like.
You know what, that occasion we passionate kiss each other and laugh eachother, then stopped staring.

[The_Maphio]

As long as they watch and not touch. Protective is good, but overly attached is a bummer for her, too.

[mortonc57]

I love when she wears a pair of tight hot pink Lululemon bootie shorts, a matching tank top and white sneakers.

[Ditto626]

I can see someone who's in to alternative lifestyles like cuckolding, hotwife, and the stag/vixen couples but it's not something I'd be in to myself.

[Anonymous]

You can't control other guys not to stare at one's girlfriend/wife. If someone stares at mine, I don't mind because she is beautiful.

[spartan55]

Doesn't bother me in the least. I consider it a compliment.

[Andres77]

I like that other men find her attractive. There's a way to do it and not be disrespectful.
My wife is respectful as well. She tells me if guys stare and flirt when she comes home each day.

[DiscomfortZone]

I'm against "staring" altogether, it's pathetic. But when someone pathetic stares at my wife I do in fact take it as a compliment. The rest of you insecure losers need to work on your marriage.

[Leavesbound]

Makes me proud to have such a gorgeous girl on my arm.

[DavidDong]

It's confidence, are you better, do you trust your wife etc

I'd say what you staring at ;) mild confront, I ain't no cuck

[Mangospacho]

Glaring. No. That is creepy. If someone checks out my wife’s cleavage though, I understand and I’m fine with it because she has huge boobs and I’m a guy too.

[BUNroaster]

Yup I'd let em. I'm one to provoke it. I think it means you're incredibly trusting in your relationship and shows your proud of your whole thing you got going

[Inexpensivefurniture]

I generally don't notice/care unless it's making her uncomfortable

[dpy87]

It is bothersome knowing another dude wants to fuck your girlfriend but its more of an ego boost.

I would only get mad if its constant or if the dude actually pursues. Otherwise thats all they can do is look.

[Pete671]

Depends, if she likes the attention, I'm ok with it, if she's not comfortable I'll deal with the guy nicely eg "can we help you at all?",,,

[CrypticViper]

Starings fine, but overstepping boundaries, by flirting in my presence or making her feel uneasy, I'm not okay with.

[Texasguy99]

I’m not a fan of it. But at the end of the day I’m sure she’s coming home with me.

[DevanRowland]

Whats kinda funny is that this should be a question for guys only, cuz a good part of the percent wasn't related to the question.

[Hanrej]

Wouldn't say I'm fine with it so much as I accept it and find it kinda hot.

[Ironic_Method]

My wife's hot, I can't blame them. And my friends with benefits dresses provocatively on purpose.

[RCLJT]

You get ONE look, on the house, anything else is staring, undressing with the eyes and rude, you will be invited outside for an ass whoopin.

[Anonymous]

No. I know there's some, by why would anyone want other guys perving or fantasying about their g/f?

[Hollysdad1989]

I generally don’t really notice unless she’s uncomfortable.

[apple_jack]

I stare at guys and usually I don't know their relationship status so. 🤷‍♀️

[JamieLoves]

If your secure in self and your relationship, it can be a real turn on.

[Shihab91]

Nope because I'm a man and i know what he is thinking, but my girl would be dressing modesty anyway.

[Zack378]

Yes, I like it since it makes me feel lucky to have an attractive girlfriend. When it happens, I French kiss her and I cop a feel from her body.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

I'm fine with it. Let's me know he admires my girl's beauty. Lol

[fred_durst]

i dont have girlfriend/wife , so i dont have to worry about this

[DevylasArsaukas76]

I'm not dating anyone, but if it happens it happens, as long as they didn't try to make a move

[imbeingmyself]

girls, if ur boyfriend or husband is comfortable with other men looking at you I don't think so they are interested or serious about u tbh.

[kevyhanma]

Then they stare at me and say

oh! She’s blind

[Siren777]

Here for the comments😂😂

[This_is_my_username]

Just checking to see the comment. Hahah

[Anonymous]

no and i'm sure she likes it and fantzise about it.

[Alexandrubaschet08]

Depend how and for how long.

[FilmGuy93]

Not especially, but I’m fine with it

[msc545]

I don't mind - it's sort of a compliment.

[dtweed1996]

Not really but I don't care

[Dragan]

No. I do not like that at all.

[Ripper_E]

No. That's rude.

[npiatanas]

Yes.

[Protein_mate]

Not ideal at all but what can I do about that.