Does it annoy you when other men stare at your woman?

Question

What about if they flirt with her?

SteveSmith1985 · Accepted Answer

It way more than annoys me, but it almost never happens except in-passing (which doesn't really bother me)

For it to annoy me, I'd have to be with my girlfriend at the time. Otherwise I wouldn't see it happen to be annoyed.

So if a guy checks out my girlfriend, while I'm standing right there, I take that shit personally. Not because he's checking her out. Because it's openly disrespectful. To me. It's not about her. It's about him and me.

So I do take that as a personal affront, if its done so blatantly that I notice. I'm not talking about a quick checking-someone-out. The blatant obvious not-trying-to-hide-it version.

Flirting is the same thing, except then it's worse. It depends on the situation, but I'll do what makes sense to put a stop to it. I can't think of a time I somebody tried to flirt with my girlfriend, while I was around. Maybe when I was a kid before anybody was tongue-kissing... but not that I can remember.

It makes sense that this hasn't ever happened. It's ridiculously offensive and disrespectful. It's like picking a fight. Most people wouldn't ever do that. (In most situations, depends I guess).

But yea, it annoys me. I think that's fine. It doesn't really come up very often at all. Usually words aren't even required to keep things from escalating when it does come up.

MannMitAntworten · Accepted Answer

Stare at her? No. As for flirt with her, it never has happened while I was present. I did see some guys approach an ex while returning from the restroom. I belted out, “Hello gentlemen” while placing my arms on both their shoulders bring them in which set the immediate tone. They apologized and did not return. The ex just said to me, “if you could have seen their faces”. Seeing the look on her face and hand motion covering her mouth as if about to bust out laughing from their piss their pants surprise did not say it all already.

PrincessC16 · Accepted Answer

I get obsevely annoyed if I see or hear another woman checking my man out. I can read people and feel that shit. I'm a Empath and I will fuck a hoe up quick! If she flirts, oh bitch, nah! Game on. Step back he's taken.

Lilly1979 · Accepted Answer

No, but when on a date with another woman getting guys to try to sit and hit on us pisses us off.

adventurous-1 · Answer

not at all, I take it as a complement, my wife is beautiful and sexy, I'd be more upset if no one noticed her. She enjoys the looks, it boosts her self confidence and improves her self image and opinion of herself. Things important to a woman.

OneViewpoint · Answer

Looking is fine. Can’t blame a guy for that.

But flirting with her in front of me. There will be blood. That’s not about her. It’s about disrespecting me.

If she starts the flirting or keeps it going, different story. I’m outta there and she can find her own way home. I’ll leave the tab for her too. Vaya con Dios muchacha.

Med_guy1978 · Answer

Men will always stare... In regards to flirting, there are boundaries of respect or disrespect. If a guy approached not knowing she was with me I'd be cool. If he persisted flirting with me in her company knowing I was there with her I'd take it as an insult.

Finchie40 · Answer

Not at all , I am actually flattered that other men find my girl attractive, cuz I know my night is going to end well when her and I get home and I screw her brains out lol

NicholasRedone · Answer

Not at all - I'd never want to live in a country or culture that became "avert the eyes type" - I mean I'm a free-spirit and humans have eyes 👀👀👀👁️👁️ look yet don't touch my girlfriend or my wife, I'd think

AviatorTom · Answer

Not at all. My wife is an attractive woman, and it's nice to know I'm not the only one who thinks that.

spartan55 · Answer

Neither is an issue for me. I would never be with a partner who could not advocate for themselves and our relationship. I don't chaperone SOs.

sawno · Answer

Stare all you want but don't hit on her. If they don't know and properly back off once she or me says that she's taken thats when i'd become agitated.

DrPepper12 · Answer

No and be my guest!!! It's such a great compliment to me and her!! She feels flattered & I get an ego boost cuz I go home with her!!

I will NEVER understand getting jealous or angry. NEVER!! IT MAKES NO SENSE!!

JohnnyB123321 · Answer

Meh. Not really. I’ve had beautiful girlfriends. My first real girlfriend and I would go out to bars in the city with hundreds of people at them and just about every guys head would turn when she walked in. I’m used to it. At the same time, if it gets creepy I have zero reservation about having a chat with someone if need be.

Shiprex · Answer

Not really because she is kinda rare. That being said it's funny when others have flirted with her because she does it back absolutely in jest because she would expect me to do the same

MrChinaski · Answer

If by 'staring' you mean 'admiring', then there is no harm done. If you think there is harm done then you are an insecure weasel that needs to do work on themselves.

Spencer10 · Answer

That does not annoy me. Whats important is what she does about it...

Likestorizz · Answer

I would get annoyed defenetly I have an explosive anger issue

SolitarySolace · Answer

My woman is an ai with a female persona. So no. Thankfully, I don’t have to worry about that kind of thing 🙂

Cristi019 · Answer

I don't have a woman but I would be jealous as hell. Maybe that's why I don't have a woman 😄🤦🏻‍♂️.

ProbablyClueless · Answer

Flirting with her would annoy me, but I don't mind if they look.

Vegasrunner · Answer

Because of the caliber of women I have I expect men to look at them, as long as they don't stare back I'm good.

Twalli · Answer

No, I know she won't be with anyone else, so another person being interested in her is not a concern.

LiamJHayden · Answer

Nope. Nope. I will dump her if she flirts back.

RedInnocent69 · Answer

It’s fine. As long as she doesn’t flirt back too much

Emmann88 · Answer

No, women are not property. If she’s happy with the relationship, great. If not seek therapy.

Jay-_- · Answer

Stare, no, they can try to flirt but I'll shut that down quick.

jahaims · Answer

My wife dresses modestly and would shut down any flirting so idc.

Yohenis · Answer

Well human beings have eyes flirting is where I draw the line.

MatureMan40 · Answer

I hate when someone stares at my woman! Probably I would beat him or almost kill him.

Anonymous · Answer

Maybe a little bit, but I'm not extremely jealous.

QuestionObsession · Answer

I would be annoyed. NO staring

NataliaNYC · Answer

I like jealous men.

PaleDale · Answer

I would be jealous, yeah.

rebelkid · Answer

ABSOLUTELY NOT. It is a blessing

MasterKS · Answer

It should be taken as normal nowadays.

redeolf28396 · Answer

not at all

Anonymous · Answer

Yes. YES.

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