Girls, Do you like it when other women's men give you attention?

[Anonymous]

Many women are competitive and see other women as rivals, my question is: how does it feel when another woman's man makes you feel attractive or even more attractive than his girlfriend/wife? Do you like it?

Answer anonymously, I know no woman would be honest about it.

[Ninania]

I'm not competing with other women, and I hold men accountable for their actions. If they'd lie and cheat in a relationship with someone else, that's a reflection on their character and I find that utterly disgusting.
I like it when men with integrity show me interest. If they're in an open or polyam relationship I sometimes do like the attention, but that also depends on my relationship with their partner and how they treat each other. Honesty is hot. Accountability is hot. Treating your partner with love and care is hot.

[DishLady]

It’s a bit odd to me (unless we’re all bff for a long time). A friend I grew up with is married and his wife and I are now also close. He obvi cares if I’m sick or stressed and they’re both lovely people in my life. But generally the hubby of my gal friends I keep my distance aside from reasonable things like a greeting or parting hug to welcome them as the spouse of my friend.

[Rei13]

I want them to like me as a person but honestly would be weird if they’re more attracted to me than their partner especially if they acted on it. It’d be such a poor reflection of his character. If it was my friend’s significant other I’d tell them since they’d deserve better than that

[Anonymous]

No. I actually hate it, because it shows they are unfaithful. A man wouldn’t be able to make me feel attractive if he was with another woman. Because to me an unfaithful man, is a worthless man. A worthless man’s flirtation or comments are trash just like him.

[PeachyPie93]

No not really.. especially if its someone I knows man.
Sure, I don't mind flirting with a dude who's chick I don't know if I like him, but I'd never take it seriously or want that guy since he's showing he has no loyalty lol.

[beenherebefore]

It does absolutely nothing to me but if a married man or any man in a relationship talks to me in a inappropriate way I'll be quick to finish that conversation ASAP.

[heruncommonsense]

Quit projecting, girlie. I refuse to lose my virginity and I do not interact with males. I'm not too unusual of a case, hence the male h0rniness epidemic

[Nikki1989]

I am neutral to it. I don't like it; I don't hate it either. Not only that, but I would rather receive a compliment from another woman over a man regardless.

[AliceGregory]

I hate disloyalty to one's partner and women seeing other women as competition so no I don't like it.

[avery58]

I dislike seeing people disrespecting their partners (if it's on purpose), cause I put myself in their shoes.

[dustybiker2]

No. It shows his character. If he did it with you what makes you think he wouldn't do it to you? Honest enough for you?

[Anonymous]

No, they make my blood boil. They disgust me in every possible way. 😡 It also makes me sad to think how horrible these wives must feel. Men are awful. It’s awful. 😔

[Noredcarpet]

No, creeps me out. I look at his woman as a sister and him like a creep.

[chrissykerdock]

it's pretty dull when i wear a miniskirt all men look so what's the point

[Account]

I despise it. I loathe it. It is amongst the things that make me lose hope in humanity.

[Kelly6]

No it doesn't make me feel attractive, but I'm glad that he feels happy to chat with me and trust me and feels comfortable

[Anonymous]

what makes you think he won't stare at other women while he's out on a date with you?

[Opinion Owner]

if he is gonna stare at you while he is with his girl.

just wait till he looks at other hotter girls while he is around you.

you're not an exception. there will always be girls hotter than you. you just need to wait for it.

[Asker]

Wow, calm down. I'm not saying I enjoy it, I actually find cheating men disgusting. I am considered very beautiful by many men and I often receive that kind of attention from married men, both online and in real life, the other day I was contacted by a man who had his wife and his child in his profile picture and texted me ''I loved your YouTube video, especially your face.'', but I never take pleasure in knowing they find me more attractive, I genuinely feel sorry for their women, but some women fall in love with cheating men and do want to ''steal'' them. I'm clearly not the problem or the type of woman I'm talking about.

[Opinion Owner]

@Asker

I can tell you are very young. Your naivete is so obvious. Lust is not love. A man can marry a woman, call him the love of his life, but yet keep you as a sex slave for him. He would never tell you that you're his sex slave or that he is just using you though. He will try his best to lie to you that you are the love of his life, but YET, NEVER LEAVE HIS WIFE.

Just cuz a married man shows you attention, it does not necessarily mean he loves you.

[Opinion Owner]

If you demand he leave his wife, he would leave you instead. A few months later, you will find him with another beautiful girl on his arm.

I have seen a lot of women fall for this through the years. Some women get used for YEARS as side chicks or side pieces.

[Opinion Owner]

If a man cheats on his wife, and does end up leaving her for a beautiful girl. (Just for her looks only). You should be VERY WORRIED that he will dump you once you lose your looks. It happens all the time. This is why you should never ever marry a man who is obsessed with looks. Once you lose your looks, he will be looking for another beautiful girl (often times as much as 15-20 years younger than you)

[Opinion Owner]

Over my many years of experience, I have seen plenty of old men in their 40s-50s leave their (once very attractive wives), for much younger women. I have seen 45 yr olds trying to date 19 yr olds. Its very perverted. Never ever marry a man who looks down on older women or is obsessed with beauty. If a man talks shit about older women all the time that they're soo unattractive, lowly, and disgusting, He will likely see you the same way once you get old. Sure, most of us aren't attracted to old people. But the condescending attitude really isn't necessary.

[PrettyCrumblBb]

You have jezebel in your heart. Rebuke her, in the name of Jesus Christ!

[Lex_all27]

No I don’t. I never want to be in the middle of someone’s relationship.

[itsannalee]

Nah , that’s disgusting

[Anonymous]

I don’t really care.

[Allmenrsick]

Marilyn Manson loves it

[Markella7]

If it’s his sister, mom, aunt cousin.

[Anonymous]

Yes I do!