Do women like male attention?

[Anonymous]

It seems like women always complain about men giving them attention.

Yes

No

Only if they're extremely hot

[Finchie40]

Understanding women is something us men can never grasp , women are wired differently , i was with a girl that if i gave her attention and told her my feelings it was a hit. or miss whether she was accepting of it or not , come. to find out she was turned on when i didn't. give her attention played hard. to get like a game of cat and mouse. Girls will always leave a question Mark on your head , most of them act like we are mind. readers and should automatically know how they are. feeling. As men we basically run off a 1 track mind where we are more laid back and it doesn't take us much to be happy satisfied , if we are upset all the girl has to do is bring us a beer and Whisper in our ear I want you, For a girl to be Satisfied the list goes on and on on what she wants and needs done. It comes down to Power of. the Hoof , us men will out up with a lot of shit from her Just for that hoof lol So Girls have more sex with your men if you need shit done around the house lol

[gxxr1130]

If you can't grasp it, it's because you are either too young, stupid, or Blue Pilled.

[JSmuve]

Yes they do, with the caveats of it being attention from the right guy, in the right way, at the right time, and the right location. But because we're not mind readers, we're not privy to knowing if we're the right guy or giving it at the right time, etc. So women will often be like "this guy I totally wasn't interested in approached me while I was out. Super gross."

[Estaroze]

Oh my God this question is exactly what I've wanted to ask to the perverts in my country!
Fuck off! Do you really think some woman who doesn't even know you want your gross attention? For me, I don't care how you look at me. I don't want to look pretty or cute or smart!! I just don't care about you or your disgusting friends' thoughts, and you have no right to rate others, perverts.
Women want some guys attention, but it is not difficult to discern if I am one of the some guys or not, because they will do every thing to do tell you that they want your attention!!!

[Estaroze]

I never want to be rated on the street by some stupids I don't know.
I don't want to be sexual object or woman. I just want to be respected as another human being who has her own way of living. I never want to care about your attention when my life is full of adorable people who I really must care.
I want to savor the freedom that I can gain as a stranger.
People don't think the same way nor live the same way.
So, don't think my way of thingking would be same as yours, retarded.

[Estaroze]

Of course I need some attention sometimes from the ones who I think interesting. (No, Not from the retarded ones but interesting ones who I want to care. )
However, in those cases, I approach to them and tell them I think they are interesting and I want their attention, Pretty clearly.
There's no mixed message nor weird twists

[smg99]

That’s a way of saying the exact opposite, to establish how much they love attention and in some cases used to elicit envy and competition. Guys say it to girls too so it goes both ways. Power dynamics.

[Asker]

So they are lying when they say they don't?

[smg99]

Absolutely!!!

[Asker]

That's interesting. Thanks for sharing

[HOAAH]

I mean, unwanted attention the girl will call him a "creep" but wanted attention then she would say that he was "cute". Look up a video on youtube by wongfu, about the creep and the cute guy what is the difference.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=g0vwo_TvFPQ

So yes, if he was looking at me and asking me out, and wanting to come to my house to have sex with me, and following me around giving me attention that I didn't really WANT from him because I was not attracted to him or I was already taken etc, then NO. No I do NOT want that male attention.
But if it was my husband doing that, telling me I was beautiful and that I looked great and he is so lucky to have me, that he wants to spend all day with me... then yes :) Yes I want that attention.

[saru-san]

Everything has a place and time. Almost everyone likes receiving positive attention (man, woman, dogs) and I'm emphasizing on "positive". If you come off as rude, cringy or something along those lines, nobody will feel comfortable. Also, women are not objects that should only be admired all the time. Some are shy and have social anxiety or some are simply not in the mood. So it's all about timing, attitude (from both parties) and the person you're dealing with.

[sageevalentine]

Yes girls like attention. Girls will often lie and say that they don't find it flattering, but that's exactly the same as "no you don't have to get me anything..." total lie. But obviously the right kind of attention, creepy behaviour, and being overly sexual too soon is most unwanted.

[MissOptimistic]

Yes! I, myself, do not. But there are quite a few people I know who strive off of attention and compliments. Hell, this one woman who is 30 with a 10 year old craves it from all of the guys in my workplace. She throws herself so much out there for the attention it's gross. She more-so craves a taken man's attention. I guess it makes her feel better about her ratchet self.

[wankiam]

people like interacting with other people so on that basis many women like attention in the same way us guys do but if you come accross as only interested in them because of their appearance then you are just a horn dog and most women will be put of even talking to you

[Anonymous]

It depends on the attention. There tons of subcategories of attention between good and bad. As far as good attention sexual advances without a steady introduction are not appreciated. If a man I already found attractive say offered me his umbrella or simply had a friendly conversation And I saw he didn’t just do this with me but was a good person all around I would be pretty stoked

[CT_CD]

Only if he's tall and attractive. Otherwise it's sexual harassment

[samy_deadpool]

Ha... nailed it

[MrNameless]

Of course. It's flattering to have attention from the sex you are attracted to from afar. Of course they don' want to be harassed and they selectively like and choose the ones they are only attracte dto.

[Colton_J_Hopkins]

I feel like even if they say its annoying, deep down they enjoy it. I personally am flattered if I get attention like that from women. But that rarely ever happens. So that might be why. To each is their own I guess.

[Anonymous]

Personally I love getting attention from males because it makes me feel good and kinda gives a confidence-boost, and it’s just a big plus if it’s a really good looking guy or even a guy I already like. However, I hate attention from men that are more than 7-10 years older than me. That’s just a no. I don’t know why, and also if I’ve shown that I’m not interested I don’t like if I still get attention from that guy. Kinda creeps me out.

[PrincessGrail]

Depends on what kind of attention. I like it when a guy pays me a compliment IF he’s being sincere and not just trying to get laid.

[xyz94]

Precisely this!

[turnmypainintopower1]

I like attention from my boyfriend... but it is nasty when men double my age tell me to ride there D*ck on the side of the street... not fun

[ForteExe]

That's weirdly specific How often does that happen to you?

[turnmypainintopower1]

@ForteExe like everytime I walk to school come home from school go downtown or go to the movies

[ForteExe]

The fuck? Sorry but I find that really hard to believe. I don't doubt that it'd happen every now and then, but you're talking at least 10 times a week every week. I could understand if it was the same guys over and over...

[turnmypainintopower1]

@ForteExe No it is random guys... i would be the point of lying about this and ya your right when i walk to school it is the same guys... but the other guys it is random

[ForteExe]

I didn't mean to suggest you're lying. It's just hard for me to grasp the idea that there's hordes of dudes in their 30s going around telling underaged girls to ride their dicks and they're not in jail. It's not something I could hope to get away with (not that I'd want to do it in the first place) so I'm not really sure what's going on where you live that these guys get away with it.

[turnmypainintopower1]

@ForteExe Ya me either... but they do

[ForteExe]

Who have you told about this? Your parents? Teachers? Police?

[turnmypainintopower1]

@ForteExe... um nobody it legit happens to like every girl

[ForteExe]

Okay. Don't just endure this because it's common. Complain to anyone and everyone who'll listen. Anyone with a shred of authority needs to know about it right now. I'd start with your immediate family.

[brennanhuff]

I'm sorry you and other girls have to deal with that. Do you live in a big city? Not only is that creepy for any woman to have to deal with. But considering your age and their age, that's a lot of fu**ing pedophiles you pass by, jesus. That's a sex crime and there should be a way to see if you can find out or identify who those guys are as I'm sure they are regulars who do it to every woman passing by or underage girls like yourself. I'm sorry you're surrounded by so many sex offenders basically.

[ragequeen]

Girls like attention if they find the person attractive or if they are left alone after potential rejection. We don't like creepy guys with stalkerish motives.

[betaTester]

ah shit :(

[AaronKrieger]

Anyone likes attention unless someone is being creepy or persistent about it or you're annoying to that person because of them being in a bad mood.

[Logorithim]

If the attention is unwanted, they don't like it. If the guy makes a good impression, they usually do.

[Riggers]

Ofcourse they do, Instinctual attention whores, But, Only if he's hot though, Otherwise he should turn around and take his attention elsewhere.

[PinkChampagne]

I won't complain if my boyfriend give me his attention, I will like it... Who would ever complain?

[capncool]

Depends on the woman and the kind of male attention she's getting, in general most women like some degree of male attention.

[us3rn4m3x]

I don't like attention from people in general. So most of the time I don't like getting attention from males.

[witherwing]

Pretty much only if the guy is attractive. Otherwise it just feels awkward.