Men, do you like your cute female friend swooning over other men?

[Anonymous]

Like, women do like to discuss other guy's cuteness with her best guy friend sometimes

[DaveJord]

Honestly, what do you think? No we really do not like women swooning over other men.

[Asker]

Guys talk about other girls too with their girl besties

[DaveJord]

Oh besties, not girlfriends not with people you're dating I missed that part.

For me as a guy, I am only friends with a girl I want or would hope to grow into having a romantic relationship with... so once she started doing that with me I would bail on the friendship because I would not be getting what I would hope to get from the relationship.

But if he is doing it with you about other women then I would assume its fine.

But in general I would recommend that you don't if you value the relationship, because people and especially guys who have besties and not girlfriends get jealous easier than dudes that can attract and date the type of women they want to attracted and be with.

[Asker]

Oh ok

[DaveJord]

Surprisingly, all these guys below... reading through the comments are giving you good advice.

Self respecting men honestly do not hang out in friendships with girls that are not romantically interested in them. You're still pretty young so some guys your age might not of figured that out by now. But if you're like 18 years old, don't trust a guy if he says he's okay with only being your friend because I am about 99.99% certain if you wanted to have sex with him he would jump on it in a Second. Once he figures out that there is zero possibility of that ever happening he will lose interest in being friends with you.

Young men just have this idea that they have to be friends with a girl first before dating and that is so not true... once you get a girl thinking of you as just friends it pretty much is a death sentence if you ever hope to get laid.

So if you are interested in this guy, you probably need to step up and say something, and if your not interested then do whatever you want, say whatever you want, but deep down this guy is probably and insecure individual if he hangs around.

[Asker]

Men and women can't be friends, is that what you're saying?

[DaveJord]

Not unless there is zero chance that you or him would be equally unattractive romantically to the each other, but still enjoy each others company.

So for me no, never has happened. If she is unattractive to me I don't enjoy being around her no matter how nice she is. If she is attractive and she does not want to date me, then I move on quick because I have no time for that type of thing. I would want to invest my time in more fruitful ventures.

Most the guys that say the are okay with just being friends are lying.

[Asker]

That's really messed up

[DaveJord]

Yeah, but its honest.

[Asker]

I can't believe if I wasn't cute, my guy friends won't care about me 😐

[DaveJord]

Just remember what I said and what these other grown men are saying and be careful. Best of luck to you.

[Ghostlypanda]

If your my friend and im into you amd you know it. Im gonna assume your not into me or you're trying to make me jealous. Either way im gonna start looking for someone else. If its strictly platonic then i couldnt care less

[Asker]

No, I dunno if my guy friends like me that way

[Sam_The_Savage]

Nothing like or dislike in that...
My girl buddy always do that I take it as a normal conversation.

[Anonymous]

It's fine. I have a female friend and I'm totally okay with the fact that she has a boyfriend. I'm just glad enough to be her friend.

[Iron_Man]

I’ve never really had a female friend only 1 older lady

[Anonymous]

Who the fuck has female friends?

[Asker]

Don't you have friends of opposite gender?

[Opinion Owner]

Nah sis. Even females don't have female friends

[Asker]

Uh okay