Polls: Guy's Behavior

Most of the women using older men for money are young…but I have seen some older women using older men for money as well. I see men complain about gold diggers all the time but it’s hard for me to register it when you guys are willing to get used by them just because they are young. You know those women always end up leaving as soon as they get enough $. And of course they aren’t faithful as the more they are using the better

He knows I used to have a crush on him years ago but he still keeps glancing at me to see if I look at him. Are some men really that desperate for attention from women they are not attracted to?

I must say I am not sure how much drunk he actually was. He wasn't completely wasted but he definitely had some beers and maybe some other alcohol. I myself wasn't drunk, I only had two vodka shots.

What I'm wondering about is whether he did find me attractive prior to this party of ours where the kiss and touching happened? Or how else does the drunkeness work? Do "moderately drunk" guys kiss just ANY girl? There were other, also cute and pretty, girls around, why did he go after me instead of one of them? He complimented me, specifically my hair, here and there kept his arm around me and when I was saying goodbye I could just feel he was up to something with that cheeky grin of his so I had tried to just kiss his cheeks and then leave, but he swiftly pulled me to him and kissed me (no tongue, just a proper smooch but no tiny peck either).

Then he promised jokingly he's gonna wreck me in the gym once he comes back 😅

I'm not interested in him, he is married I think, he's cute even tho he's older (was quite handsome when younger not gonna lie).

I think he may like me or at least find me attractive because I just realized he kept teasing in his own special style pretty much every training session of his.

Curious to hear what men think and why.

For the sake of reducing arguments, I'm going to leave out going to the gym or working out, because women really need them at those times.

OR ARE YOU ACTUALLY MISERABLE, AND ITS WHY MANY DADS ACTUALLY CHEAT AND PURCHASE ESCORTS.

Age 30+, It seems like it.

Soo long story short
My best friend of 2 years now
We help each other out
He calls me baby and he called me babygirl today
We both make love to each other
He very caring and respectful
He stood up for our friendship towards his ex.
We can't get each other out of our mind

This guy & I got set up by his mom. We've been consistently talking, and suddenly, he ghosts my guts for 2 weeks- I deleted his number a week later- and then that happens:
What do you say guys? Should I add him back?
Is this genuine?