If your best friend call u baby and babe is he trying to be friendly or does he like u?

[jaskin777]

We was talking last night on wanting to Meet.
He called me babe after I called him baby.

We hangout a lot before He had his girlfriend. We use to be coworkers he took care of me when I was sick. And he made sure I had a safe place to stay.
Once he had his girlfriend ya there were times we couldn't talk at all or she would get jealous mainly cuz I'm skinny then her. But he knew her longer then me. ..

( He said that they do nothing together at all not even sex cuddles or anything.. but yet they with each other.

She used him n drugged him and everything)


He even stood up for our friendship when she was talking shit about me. And telling him he gotta stay away from me.

Sooo.. I'm just wondering.
a lot

But does he like me or am I just his friends with benefits

Because he wants to cuddle Kiss and make love he wants to feel wanted.

Yes he likes u

No he just friends with benefits

[RespectfulGuy]

It's 2024. And the basic dating rule is: relationship is exclusive.

This means, he either choose you or her. Not both.

And if he chooses you, he's expected to break off with her.

Simple rule.

Since he's still with her (because they were together before you enters the picture), you're now everything but his girlfriend.

And yes, friends with benefits is a nice term. Otherwise in marriage context, you're the whore, the mistress, the... (Not wife) ... And in this context... Side chick, spare tire,... Everything but girlfriend.

Hence, my suggestion is ask him to make a choice (for you) or leave. You're not his girlfriend, yet.

[HollyK21]

That is all happening while he has a girlfriend?

[jaskin777]

I don't even think he liked her tbh because he completely depressed asf when he around her

[HollyK21]

Is he still with her?

[jaskin777]

I don't know tbh. 😐
I know she is a controlling abusing bitch though. I do know she has tried several times to hurt me and I do know she has drug him and etc.

[HollyK21]

You should confirm he is single. Doesn’t matter what you think of the woman, it’s wrong to call someone else’s boyfriend your baby, or carry on how you do. I’m sure you would not appreciate that if the tables were turned. Also, what’s stopping him from being with you? Sounds like you two are close enough.

[jaskin777]

True ik