He is 27 and I’m 30. We work together in a small team and have worked together for just over two years now. I believe we have a flirty relationship. He is nice to everyone and always jokes/has a laugh with everyone, so it would be difficult to know whether he was into me. Examples of his flirting include:
- We have a lot of eye contact. Sometimes I will catch him staring at me or the eye contact will be very prolonged. Haven’t noticed the pupil dilation at all.
- He does silly things just to get my attention. He will grab my hair clip, press something on my keyboard or touch my chair.
- On a night out, someone thought he was my husband for some reason, and he said “I should be so lucky”
- Outside of work he is very “huggy” but won’t touch me at work
- He laughs at silly things I do and calls me “daftie” occasionally
- I was stressing about an upcoming event because I was having my hair and makeup done. He asked me why I was having someone else do it and I said “because I want to look beautiful”, to which he said “why don’t you just do it yourself”
- sometimes I will see him look at my boobs
- he sometimes gets a little jealous I think. When another man gave me a lift into work, he called me a “wimp” and when I asked for help on something, he said “why don’t you get “other guy” to help you”
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