I’m F23 and currently working as a student employee for a company. I have a coworker (M late 40’s to early 50’s) within the department who likes to come around to my office everyday. I enjoy talking to my coworkers and learning about their jobs but this particular one tends to be a little inappropriate when we talk.
For example, I made the error of talking about going to an event with my sorority, while talking to another coworker in the lunch room. He overheard this and immediately asked if it was a bikini car wash. When I told him it was not he told me to plan one and he’d come on by. I decided not to think much into it because it can be a stereotype about sororities.
When he comes to my office he tends to just walk in without knocking and wants to talk. Usually the conversation starts with how he’s surprised to see I’m actually working. Then proceeds to go into how my time would be better sent creating content for Only Fans, since I’d make a-lot more (I’d like to add I would consider myself as being average in the looks department).
He also likes to talk about his life (which is fine) but I find it tends to have sexual undertones to it. For example, he mentioned his love of wearing latex (he didn’t get too much into detail so I could just be thinking about it the wrong way). He told me, I should try it and to use baby powder because it is easier to wear.
In addition, he overheard me mention that my younger sister (18) does baton twirling. I guess he does photography on the side and thought a twirler would be a great compliment to the photos he takes. He wants me to ask her to pose for him and have me be her chaperone. I might be reading into it the wrong way but I don’t feel comfortable having my sister around him for this.
He also comes into my office to do random tasks, the other day he walked in to tape up a parcel he was sending.
I’m not sure if this is red flag behaviour or innocent comments that he fails to realize come across badly.
For example, I made the error of talking about going to an event with my sorority, while talking to another coworker in the lunch room. He overheard this and immediately asked if it was a bikini car wash. When I told him it was not he told me to plan one and he’d come on by. I decided not to think much into it because it can be a stereotype about sororities.
When he comes to my office he tends to just walk in without knocking and wants to talk. Usually the conversation starts with how he’s surprised to see I’m actually working. Then proceeds to go into how my time would be better sent creating content for Only Fans, since I’d make a-lot more (I’d like to add I would consider myself as being average in the looks department).
He also likes to talk about his life (which is fine) but I find it tends to have sexual undertones to it. For example, he mentioned his love of wearing latex (he didn’t get too much into detail so I could just be thinking about it the wrong way). He told me, I should try it and to use baby powder because it is easier to wear.
In addition, he overheard me mention that my younger sister (18) does baton twirling. I guess he does photography on the side and thought a twirler would be a great compliment to the photos he takes. He wants me to ask her to pose for him and have me be her chaperone. I might be reading into it the wrong way but I don’t feel comfortable having my sister around him for this.
He also comes into my office to do random tasks, the other day he walked in to tape up a parcel he was sending.
I’m not sure if this is red flag behaviour or innocent comments that he fails to realize come across badly.
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Well, she's 18, she's allowed to make her own decisions. However, that doesn't mean you have to introduce her to him, if you feel like you shouldn't. Keep in mind though that it'd be a job for her, and easy money. Plus you'd be there to watch to make sure nothing skivvy is going on.
However, yes, I do agree it's a little much to be doing all this in a work setting
I do agree though, onlyfans could make you MUCH more money. Haven't you noticed that more and more girls are leaving their day jobs, for ONLYFANS. Mandy Rose, tripled her income after being fired from WWE, just because she was using the site, but, the firing backfired on WWE, and she's very wealthy now, because she's on it
Damn, he gave me the heeby jeebies just talking about his behavior. Well, he has already started sexually harassing you. How are you going to respond?
Red 🚩flags aplenty with that creep.