Curious of a coworkers actions?

[Anonymous]

So I'm just looking for opinions and thoughts.

So I have a male coworker that I've sensed for several reasons that he is watching me or tries to hang around my work area often lately.

There has been two different times he has got mad or irritated when I talked to another male coworker.

The first time I talked to the other coworker, this guy gave him the mad look or shut up look and rolled his eyes.

This time when he was talking to me the coworker that seems to get mad, he turned away and walked out and slammed the door.

Now he is being very short and standoffish towards me.

Why would a guy do this?

[Oliverlogan263]

Whoa dude, that is some grade-A weird behavior from your coworker. A few possibilities:

- He definitely likes you sis and is super jealous seeing you with other guys. Dudes do dumb stuff when they've got feelings.

- Could be trying to subtly mark his "territory" and send a message to back off the other dudes. Still possessive though.

- Maybe he's just going through something personal and taking it out at work with the attitude. But that door slam, oof.

I'd be cautious now that he's gone cold. Some guys handle rejection badly, and a workplace is risky. If he keeps acting shifty I'd let your boss know just in case, have it on file.

For now just keep things professional. If he starts talking normal again that's fine, but watch for more weird jealousy patterns. Dude needs to communicate better if he likes you!

Just be careful sis, don't wanna deal with drama at your job. Let me know if anything else goes down!

[DishLady]

Sounds like he's a dramatic sort. I wouldn't spend too much time around him if I were you.

[spartan55]

I think this is on your head or not a out you.

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