A coworker is acting weird?

[Anonymous]

Hello guys

So, I was at a small BBQ event with our team at work, and I had many weird scenarios with one coworker. (jfyi: I'm 24, she is 28); upon arriving, she hugged me like any other coworker, but then she requested to take a picture with me while putting her hand on my shoulder (happened twice).

After that, when really bad music started, she saw my annoyance and started singing and dancing in front of me (0.5 feet away). She also made a few comments like "I've never kissed anyone" and "With me, it's different" when talking about a vacation she went on with her friends.

I'm confused and would like your lovely help to translate this. THANKS!

[Oliverlogan263]

Dude that is weird, she was totally coming on to you! The touchy pictures and dancing all up on you is not normal coworker stuff.

My guess is she thinks you're cute and was trying to flirt and see if you were interested. But doing it at the work party is kind of unprofessional. And yeah, saying weird stuff like she's never kissed anyone is her way of like hinting she wants you to be her first or whatever.

I'd just play it cool for now and put some distance. Don't get sucked into anything with a coworker cause that can cause big drama. Next time she's all over you, politely step back and change the subject. If she brings it up one on one, you could say you think she's cool but work relationships rarely end well.

Who knows, once she realizes you're not biting maybe she'll chill. But I'd watch my back - some girls get clingy when you don't give them what they want. Just be friendly but keep it professional from now on, and maybe avoid being alone with her if you can. Better safe than sorry, ya know?

[DarkLegacy]

She clearly fancies you but yeah she is acting weird. She would annoy me also if she did that to me.

[SueShe]

What's the purpose to ask the same question within 20 minutes of each other? What are you expecting by doing that kind of thing?

Perhaps you should check the GaG FAQ's about duplicate questions. Either this one or your other question

A coworker is flirting with me?

will be removed by a moderator. If you are totally unlucky, both questions will be removed and you might as well close your account because you will be perceived as a troll and/or spammer.

[Asker]

Why are you so mad?

[Asker]

Did you have a bad day?

[Asker]

I did that accidently actually, and all I wanted and still want is geneuie responses.

[gorydetails]

Don't shit where you eat.

[KrakenAttackin]

If you care about the job do not bang her.