How to make my boyfriend want me more?

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Finchie40 · Accepted Answer

First question to ask yourself , is what is stopping
Your boyfriend from wanting you more? What are you doing to make him not want you more? Do you seek attention from other guys’? If so, stop , Do you criticize him or belittle him or compare him to other people? If so , stop Do you wear his shoes the same way you expect him to wear yours? If not? Stop. Do you make him feel wanted and valued by you? If not, Start , Do you initiate intimacy and affection to him and surprise him with wearing sexy lingerie and telling him to come here? If not? Start All those things , guys’ pretty much want from a girl that he gives his heart to , if you aren’t doing those things for him , he is going to feel you don’t truly value him or appreciate him or love him. Most importantly learn how to remove selfishness from yourself and make him your top priority , when a girl does that for her man, he will more than likely do the same for her

BetaBucks · Accepted Answer

The answers from most of the women here would do the opposite for me. Losing weight, being feminine, and doing foreplay stuff on him, will work better than anything possible. Mind games push healthy dudes away.

dustybiker2 · Accepted Answer

Men like clarity, it's where they feel safe. Don't be a woman who plays games. Be a woman with direct intentions. Even if sexual. Knocks their sox off. An easy fav is a short descriptive text of exactly what you want to do to them next time you see them. Three lines of adjectives can have them home early and with all of their attention on you.

SugarSugarplum · Accepted Answer

Not an expert - but... Support him, even when you think he's wrong. Bring peace, not conflict into his life. Never give up on your looks. Laugh at his jokes. Listen to him. Show him you actually *want* him. Compliment him. Complement him.

blunty · Answer

To make your boyfriend want you more, start by strengthening your emotional connection. Show real interest in his life—listen actively and have meaningful conversations. Keep your independence and pursue your own passions because confidence is attractive. Surprise him with little gestures that show you care, and plan exciting dates or spontaneous adventures to keep things fresh.

Talk openly and honestly about your feelings and address any issues respectfully. Share moments of laughter and joy together; a good sense of humor goes a long way. Pay attention to your appearance and take care of yourself—feeling good about yourself boosts your confidence and makes you more attractive. When you genuinely care for each other, he’ll naturally want to be closer to you

hahahmm · Answer

Be feminine. Now a lot of women ask me what that means but the answer stares you women right in the face if you look back in time & stop listening to feminists know it alls.

And if it doesn't work it just means he's not the right guy for you.

normalice · Answer

Hard to know without knowing both of you but in general you should know his kinks by now. Just start getting yourself to work up more enthusiasm for them.

DellBell · Answer

My advice is if you find yourself giving a lot then do less trust me

Apple1996 · Answer

Don't force it. If he wants you then he'll show it. If he doesn't then maybe it's time to move on. Love/desire shouldn't be forced

DishLady · Answer

This depends on who you are and the type of guy you’ve chosen for yourself. Don’t be fake just to appeal to him….

nawtee_me · Answer

Confidence…. Confidence is very sexy on a woman. Sexy is not a look it is an attitude. When he sees you he needs to see a confident woman that he wants to be around alway. The right attitude can do that to him….

Makeushiver · Answer

I think you're extremely attractive & very sexy. Unless he:s gay I can't imagine not wanting. I do from a 1" square Photo

Flora_is_here · Answer

You can't force people to want you more , if they really love you then you dont have to do anything.

Princesspd · Answer

Give him amazing head and he won’t leave you.

Anonymous · Answer

Say him honestly about your feelings instead of playing mind games and he will want you more. I'm telling you this out of experience, he will want you more

Unit1 · Answer

wow. Half the pinks suggesting neglecting him. I wonder how that works out for them. I'd be gone if i were on the receiving end of it.

Anonymous · Answer

This might sound risqué and vulgar, not romantic, but so true. Give him the best head he ever had in his life. Not saying that is the only way.

Anonymous · Answer

You’re going to have to cheat on him. So he notices something is up and has to be a better man

paledreams · Answer

The real question and Answer was spark or spark when first seeing each other literally 👀👀

Hh82yrw · Answer

Grab his hair and pull his head back and whisper softly in his ear that you are in control now

GawkVoidArisen · Answer

he doesn't give enough? do you give advice?

Anonymous · Answer

There are as many answers to this question as there are boyfriends.

Joshgag2000 · Answer

You can’t he has to put the effort in return

Anonymous · Answer

Blowjobs are enough. The more I get them, the more I want my girlfriend

MsProsperity · Answer

Stop being too available

DrPepper12 · Answer

Want him more! Hell follow!

DextroShade · Answer

Be as fit and feminine as possible.

Anonymous · Answer

Stop giving him sex.

KrakenAttackin · Answer

Just showing up isn't enough.

DreamLife7 · Answer

You can't stupid he doesn't like you. Are u slow?

moneymagnet24 · Answer

Don't give him your hole easily...

Anonymous · Answer

Be worthy of it.

Gabriel-Chicanito · Answer

Perhaps, dress up in skirt n heels!

femalenpc · Answer

Leave

BenSkinner1998 · Answer

Stop looking for attention from other guys

Anonymous · Answer

Give better head

butterly248 · Answer

Talk to him

jahaims · Answer

Be more appealing

Andrewsmye · Answer

Be more specific?

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