Polls: Guy's Behavior

Even if she was rather reclusive and not flirty

There's this guy who has a crush on me. The first time we texted, he was flirty and sweet and even said he loved me. However, now when I text him, he takes hours to respond, and his messages are dry; when I snap him, he leaves me open while his snap score goes up (I even asked for a pic of him to assign to his contact, and he told me that he doesn't like taking photos; then I check his snap score and it went up). I'm confused and don't understand why he's suddenly changed his behaviour.

There is a guy who used to have a crush on me and keeps staring at me. He knows I’m attracted to him too but apparently he recently got into a relationship with a girl he posts on insta. He keeps staring at me when he thinks I don’t notice, listens to conversations between me and my friends and every time he leaves the room he takes one last glance at me from afar. Why does he act like this if he is happy with his girlfriend.

He used to be normal round me but the last month or so, he’s gradually gotten more and MORE nervous around me… his hands shake and he scratches his arms as sort of a nervous tick and his voice goes higher pitched…. He’s much older than me, so I never thought he’d be interested in me.
Would he be nervous if he didn’t fancy me? I’m not sure, but he hugged me sort of loosely 3 times yesterday, can’t tell whether he’s interested or he knows I like him and it makes him uncomfortable?

What makes you miss/want her more, seeing happy posts and stories of her (seeming like she moved on) or seeing posts/stories that may indicate she misses you and didn't move on (lile sharing sad posts, not too many of them)? Which would make you more prone to message her of other circumstances were right? Would the "misses you" one look desperate in your eyes?

Ofc, I'm talking only about situations where the dynamic between you was healthy, and you're still considering being with her.

He used to have a crush on me and frequently glance over at me during lectures when he thought I wouldn’t notice and was always one of the first people to like my posts. However since last week he didn’t like my two posts and stopped glancing at me. He only looked at me once at the end of the lecture. Why?

A few of the songs of his romantic playlist:

- I wanna be yours (arctic monkeys)
- no 1 party anthem (arctic monkeys) - baby I’m yours (arctic monkeys). - stuck on the Puzzle (Alex Turner) - whistle for the choir (fratellis) - half drunk under a full moon (fratellis) - slow dancing in a burning room (John Mayer)

i think some of the songs are so cheesy that they are cringe worthy and I highly doubt that he feels like that about any woman let alone a girl he has spoken to once. Why would he make such a playlist for me? Do men really think we are that dumb?

As a dark skinned black woman, it's been my observation that only 10% of white men actually like black women. I get most people prefer they're own color but when I question and spoke to many people and they believe all these stereotypes despite having little to no interaction with black women. I see black men and women happily coupled and nobody complains. Most white women are not worried about judgement or the stereotypes of black men. I'm just curious.

For the girls, does you man ask for help when he needs it?

This can be for anything. Directions, help around the house, etc.