Polls: Guy's Behavior

They approach US for dating or sex, they ask US to marry them. GUYS are the one paying random girls online just for being attractive. Guys have even given random women money in person JUST for being pretty to them. You don’t even HAVE to be pretty for a guy to approach you, they approach EVERYONE. So why is the blatant lie that women are supposed to be or ARE the submissive ones still going? Are approval is needed for EVERYTHING they want to do with us.

for 6 months we were texting everyday and for the past month we’ve kinda fell off after hanging out twice. Now his responses were every few days and our texts have gotten much much much shorter like we used to talk about everything and now we don’t after hanging out. So I’ve made my responses every few days too since he has long gaps. I asked how he was and told him about my update at work cause he asked about it the last time. It’s been over a week since he’s texted and I sent the last text over a week ago too. On my fb stories I did recently post a guy but it was my cousins friend and they wanted the opinion of others and I posted it to my acc because I have more followers to answer the poll. I don’t show he viewed it but maybe he saw the thumbnail for it on fb? Or maybe he genuinely doesn’t want to talk anymore? I don’t want him to think I’m talking to another guy but at the same time, If he really wanted to, he would make the effort more or wouldn’t back down if he really wanted me. And I’m just not getting the chase from him

1. We watched a Instagram video of a girl who was overweight chasing a man inside a car throwing money. Eventually the woman lost weight from doing that. So then my boyfriend says " you should try doing that" and laughed. I asked him what he meant by that and if it has anything to do with my weight and he said it's nothing and I'm overthinking.

2. One day we were talking and I said when I get a break from my child who drives me nuts I want to use that time to meditate and relax. He suggested that I use that time to exercise with him.

3. We had another discussion. This was about vertigo attacks and what causes them. He said his mom got vertigo attacks too but probably because she's in the heat. When it came to me he said the vertigo attacks could be from poor eating.

From all of this I'm convinced he doesn't accept me or like me but I'm a few pounds overweight. But he doesn't want me to leave him which is crazy. 🥴

boyfriend of 4 years is a sweet guy never malicious is any way. I have chubby cheeks and my teeth stick out a bit in a front but not super crazy. He was squeezing my cheeks and I laughed and he smiled and said “ bunny pook with her front teeth” he calls me pook. Anyways I was like wow that’s rude and he was like no it’s cute you remind me of a cute little bunny. I love animals so that’s why I say it. Anyways he went on to reassure me it’s a good thing and that bunnies are cute. Am I overreacting?

My boyfriend is a welder and so he sometimes get burns on himself. I’ve seen his burns before and he has gotten some on his neck. But this one he says is a burn is sketchy. I was out of town and we were on the phone I asked how work was he said good then said I got burnt on my neck I’ll take a picture and show you. Which is weird he’s never done that nor did I ask to see it. It’s weird because that’s the only place this “burn” is and it doesn’t really look like a burn. I could be wrong I hope I am please help me figure out if he’s lying. This is the picture he sent me

And I better not see comments saying IT WORKS. Because it obviously doesn't WORK And IS JUST RUDE. Grown ass MEN don’t know how to be respectful and not YELL at someone when they walk past just because they look good? That’s EMBARRASSING. Why are so many men so rude and desperate? EMBARRASSING.

Just for backstory, me & this guy have been talking on dating app maybe a week. He’s so far respected the fact that I don’t want to share my number till I get to know him better, hence we’re supposed to videochat today but I don't know anymore. He seems nerdy, family oriented, implied he’d prefer something serious & is very responsive which are all pluses but he’s flirty & good looking which makes me suspicious. He’s also implied he hasn’t had much luck with the apps but this clearly isn’t his first rodeo & I haven’t answered back yet b/c it was unexpected & uncomfortable. This is a little snippet of our convo last night up to where he last msged, I’m the blue & he’s grey

https://imgur.com/a/Owvf0EK

Or is he just being nice?

There is this boy in my class who just seems to live to annoy me. There are many other girls in our class and he even dated some of them but he seems to only like to annoy me. I don't dislike him or anything but I don't like him either. Despite telling him multiple times why do you do this and you know how annoying that is he says he doesn't care and is bored. I am really confused and I just want to know why he does this?

Tbh even unarmed I would have at least picked a brick up myself or started recording so I could at least have his face on camera. I wouldn’t just stand and let him hit me with a brick though. But yeah men have been harming women for REJECTING THEM for years now I’m not even surprised. Not surprised at the MEN WHO STOOD THERE and did nothing either. This is why you DONT solely rely on men. You can’t.

Whether for your daughter, wife or girlfriend... if she asks you to grab her tampons or pads do ya do it without being embarrassed?

I know it sounds silly but there are guys out there that have a hangup about this like they are picking up radioactive waste.

For the girls, does your guy do this courtesy for ya?

So like he knew I liked him but never said anything about it , we started talking in instagram btu never in real life , he asks me about how my day went and one time i told him he have like a 2 years age gap and he said "so what" ? also his friend told me that he said that he was attracted to me

They never said ALL MEN are the problem. I don’t know why that keeps being said, most issues specifically the worse ones (rape, murder, robbery) are done by MEN. And that’s just a fact. No one said women are perfect but men sure aren’t.

The reason I ask this is because there are a lot of men that seem to be interested in such stories for their own purposes. Personally, hearing the details of those stories scares me and makes me deeply uncomfortable, but men ask about women who have been taken advantage of seemingly to hear their stories and add it to the spank bank.