If men only approach me when I‘m dressed cute does it mean my face is not pretty?

[Anonymous]

Almost every man at work ignores me and doesn’t even look at me when walking past me and greeting me. It’s like I don’t even exist and when I talk to them they try to keep conversation short.
However when I dress a little bit more feminine everyone tries to make excuses to talk to me, one coworker always tries to flirt in front of his friends with me even though he dislikes me or thinks I’m boring.
These men are just as nice to other women regardless of their style. Does it mean these men don’t find my face pretty if I have to dress up just to be visible and treated like every other female coworker?

Yes, your face is not pretty

No

[Summeroflove]

Everyone has good days and bad days as far as looks go. But hey, if you wanna go out not looking as good to see what guys are into you for you that’s fine.


I do my best to look, smell, and act presentable. But I do expect someone to accept me for who I am behind closed doors, and I can do the same thing.


I try to have respect for those around me. Some people unfortunately don’t have that. Wearing super revealing clothing that can make some uncomfortable, not brushing their teeth, using deodorant, etc. But I’m sure you look fine and you’re being too hard on yourself.