“Friendships Last Longer”?

[Anonymous]

WTF does that even mean? Did he just friendzone me?

[SueShe]

It looks like you have just been placed into this ill famed friendzone. Whatever the reason was, you have been downgraded.

This guy is aware that a relationship, mainly in my and your age group are not meant to last all too long and that friendships have a tendency to have a longer life expectancy.

That is not really a friendly way to tell you that you lost importance in his eyes and probably also an indicator that you have just been replaced. He may keep you as a potential substitute should his new relation not go as planned. Sorry for you.

[DaveJord]

So, as I got older... honestly once you start having sex with a woman it's like the timer on the relationship starts ticking. Just how it seems, to me. Once the passion over the physical relationship. starts to fade as the months go by, the clock starts to tick faster.

But then, for the women I meet and really like... longer we go without sex the faster the passion dies. But it's a lot less drama, emotional and finically investment.

Now let me be 100% honest here. For the girls I really liked and did not want to have sex with, is because I was not sexually attracted to them, but I was emotionally compatible with. So yup, friend zoned her. Eventually she finds another man, so if you are not willing to fuck then it is best to just move on.

[Anonymous]

A guy doesn't friend zone a woman. He was either never interested and she didn't ever catch that. Or she didn't put herself out there and he passed on her.

[Nikki1989]

Exactly. What the F does that mean?

[avery58]

Yes, he did

[Anonymous]

Sounds like it.