Do nen Start Affairs with women they find only average or semi attractive?

[Anonymous]

If so, why?

Yes

No

[caring__1]

People rarely start affairs based on looks. They're generally based on filling a void in their relationship. That could be communication, validation, playfulness, escapes, etc. People tend to be drawn to those who meet that need. Stop assuming only men have affairs or most men have affairs. Most affairs include both males and females, and both generally know what is going on. If you don't want your partner to have an affair, keep the communication clear, open and honest, so any potential issues or voids can be addressed before problems occur.

[Asker]

Well I know someone who has an affair with a woman who is physically not attractive and I’m more his type but he doesn’t flirt with me

[caring__1]

So you're jealous because you want to be part of this affair? Women seem to constantly complain about guys having affairs, yet there are always plenty of women who want to jump in bed with them. I'm sure he knows his type better than you. If he wanted you, he would have chosen you.

[Asker]

LOL he doesn’t have a chance with me that’s why he doesn’t bother with me

[caring__1]

It's amazing how many people believe they know better than others what's going on in the heads of those others. Maybe he doesn't care if he has a chance with you, as he isn't interested in you. Don't assume everyone is dying to get in your pants.