Polls: Guy's Behavior

If you met a girl on an online game and ended up talking to her on other platforms for almost 2 years. Talked about everything. Shared photos and voice messages. Sorta caught feelings. But you messed up and she just left would you miss her or think about her? Or no just forget about her entirely because you haven't met her irl?

I’m talking to two guys one is attractive while the other one is not.( I think the one that is unattractive is actually attractive to me but according to others he’s not that cute. )

the attractive one: he is the most attractive and successful guy I’ve ever been involved with. He brags about his looks too. He has his own place and car. He loves to bring up he is the most attractive guy I’ve ever been with and I would take such an L if I was to fuck that up for myself. We never really gone to any dates. He lets me stay at his house sometimes but won’t let me live there. Doesn’t spend much on me. I wouldn’t lose anything really because he hasn’t done anything for me besides look attractive. He knows that I’m seeing the unattractive guy and is confused because he thinks why am I talking to a guy like that when I have a guy as attractive.

Unattractive: Has his own job, own car, spends tons of money on me, takes me out.

I feel like because men aren't allowed to cry they channel this energy into "manly" aggression instead, whether physically, verbally, passively etc. I feel men are hurting more than they let on but no one would know because all they know to do is push you away, which I imagine only hurts themselves more as well as the people they care about most. I feel the world would be a much peaceful place if men were allowed to cry. So back to my question, do you wish u were allowed to cry & express ur feelings as and when they arise?

Like your hobbies/interest and not just your looks?

I watching this movie Anchorman with Will Ferrel. So funny. This line stuck out to me:

im going to take your mother to a nice seafood dinner and never call her back!

It showed me that men generally know what they are doing and what effect their even minor actions have on women they deal with.

I thought of this because I always see questions by ladies in here about why did he do this and then ignore me. Or some variation.

the interesting part of the quote is that it’s not even referring to sex. The man premeditated just simply impressing his enemy’s mum with a nice seafood dinner. Then simply disappearing off the face of the earth.

it reminds me that men generally know we are easily impressed! Heck… we fall for ROSES.

Need taken a class. But I’m half black. So I blame that lol for my natural dance skills. I just love dancing tbh but I think I can move easily and really well. I don't know. Hopefully I’m not delusional.

at first I thought it was something sweet he was doing, it is common for boyfriends to feed their girlfriends every once in a while, when my boyfriend did it too me I thought it was the sweetest thing ever he even read me bedtime stories to go to sleep ( he loves to read bedtime stories to everyone so that part isn’t weird it’s just something he likes doing” but it’s got to the point where he told me if I can sit on his lap so he can feed me I felt uncomfortable but told myself he just wanted to be nice and I didn’t want to rude so I said yeah of course! But while he was feeding me he made the airplane noises you know like the one parents do to their little kids to make them open their mouths. I started to get weirded out but again I told myself I was overreacting I then thanked him. Sometimes he does feed me at times and calls me his little girl ( because he’s 6’1 im 5’1 not sure if this is a kink of his or because he’s taller than me” am I overreacting? Is he weird?

So after me and my ex broke up about a few years later I slept with his cousin. (We shall call him Dean) I don’t regret it. Fast forward to a few years later. We live in different states and have continued to talk to each other as friends, we do send nudes and shit and we are there for each other when we’re having a bad day. I asked Dean if he feels bad that we still talk to each other even though I’m his cousin’s ex. He said no and that he guess his cousin had a chance to be a good man. We have tried to stop communicating but it doesn’t happen for long. The only excuse he gives me is that things won’t work out because of the distance and his son is in his state so he won’t leave. Does he like me or not? He also won’t say if he likes me or not.

I'm trying to get a feel of how many guys are okay with dating/have been interested in older women.

I'm talking +5 years older, specially when guys are in their 20s.

I know some women wouldn't go for younger guys, even if it's only a year or two, so what about you?

My friend got sick, like really sick. He usually still talks on the phone or texts us but he didn’t for like two days. I went to his place and he’s literally stuck in the bed and looked terrible. He had chill bumps but his skin was hot. So I had to ask his sister to get the thermometer and just like I thought he had a fever. I went back to my house and made soup and brought it back to him because he hadn’t eaten. Anyway he texted me later asking why did that for him. I said cus I’m ur friend duh. He didn’t answer back. Did I do too much? Isn’t that a good friend act? I don’t get why he even asked that.

I am not talking about your preference. But what you think most people think.