Is it a red flag if a man actively avoids/ignores children?

[Anonymous]

I'm not rude to them and will respond to them but I try my hardest not to be around them because I think they're annoying and not like them

Red flag

Not red flag

[Xoxocutekitty]

Not a red flag, not a green flag. It probably means he's not ready right now, and of course I'd have to have that 'if ever' conversation if we were dating.

If a kid comes up to him and interacts with him, I'd be more interested to see his reaction. Is he awkwardly wondering where this kids parents are? A relativelly good sign as it means he knows SOMEBODY should be responsible. If he's throwing stuff at them or calls them curse words when they leave, that's a red flag.

[EmmaMary]

For me personally that would signal a huge Red Flag... I absolutely adore and cherish children, and actually have two of my own.

[EmmaMary]

Thank you for the MHO.

[FreyaRed]

Some men are afraid of children because lot of kids outperform them in emotional intelligence. Of course it's a huge red flag

[Dede162000]

Some people just don’t like kids. I know lots of men and women who avoid kids. It’s not a red flag just bc they don’t want to be around them.

[TacosRAwesome]

Yeah, since I'm planning to have children if / when I find my partner.

[Agape93]

Nope. I ignore kids until they become annoying brats.

[happyfoetus]

I hate kids as well and finds a man attractive who hates children

[Nikki1989]

It is often a sign he hasn't matured himself.

[Sour-rose]

I avoid kids too because hell no.

[Quackthulu2]

That’s a green flag. Kids suck.

[Kathie93]

It’s unattractive for sure