Guys, thigh gap or no thigh gap?

[Anonymous]

I've been working out lately and I'm wondering if I should work towards getting a thigh gap to become more attractive to men.

These are thigh gaps:
https://www.thestudentroom.co.uk/attachment.php?attachmentid=238728&d=1376928404

thigh gap

no gap

[koprol]

You are so insecure that you skip over all the guys who basically say "thigh gaps are not interesting" "thigh gaps are unimportant" "thigh gaps suck", and when one or two men say the right girl is hot (bcause of her booty, not her gap) you pick that one comment to say "she has a thigh gap..." and make yourself feel bad. Why do you have such a self-destructive scheme?

Stop being sorry for yourself and start reading the vast majority of comments that could make you feel better. You can't change your body shape, you can't change bone structure. The thigh gap is some weird fashion thing (and it's over by the time I posted this). You can lose weight bij losing fat, and then 6 months later this weight has returned and you are back to feeling miserable. Change your lifestyle slowly for better health and more acceptance of yourself. Stop being hard on yourself.

by the way I think it's extremely unhealthy or juvenile when men (boys) focus on strange little things on women, like a gap or not, the width of your shoulders, if you have evolution toes or not, your skull shape, if you have small areolas and so on. These are real examples I encountered and I laughed at of these men for calling anything devient "gross" or "ugly". There was something wrong with these men, sexually or emotionally. Healthy happy normal men go like "yay boobs" "yay booty" or "yay a woman I can possibly have sex with" and if she's big or small, fat, round, long, skinny, brown, white, has a big ass, has a small ass, is weird shaped or a goddess: as long as they like her it's fine. And men like girls much quiker than you might think ;)

And longer legs have nothing to do with a thigh gap, my girlfriend is 6 feet tal and slim (although she keeps saying she's too fat, utter bullshit ofcourse), with long legs and a BMI of 24, and she has no thigh gap, and I love every inch of her, especially her curvy legs :D

[Asker]

Tldr. I picked the MHO on this question and it saus to not worry about thigh gaps. Eff off. Thanks.

[TadCurious]

You REALLY don't need to worry about thigh gaps. Whether a girl has them or doesn't have them doesn't matter. It's just the latest thing in the media to make girls feel bad about their bodies. Guys don't care about them.

[Jim_F]

I think a thigh gap can be very attractive. Especially on a woman with bigger bones.
But a person with good fitness in general is the most attractive, gap or not.
So don't worry about a gap. Just stay fit. Your body will thank you every day for the rest of your life.

[DrKran]

Either is fine, I don't see how women are so worked up over their natural body shapes.

If you surgically change your appearence, you don't look as attractive anymore.
- There's bound to be a guy that doesn't like 1 othe the other, but those guys would be picky.

[Dandeus]

You can't get one. It depends on your bone structure.

And there are very few things guys give less of a shit about than thigh gaps. The thigh gap fad was invented by women to torment themselves. Before last year nobody even knew the term "thigh gap".

[Anonymous]

I really don't care wether a girl has thigh gaps or not. Buttt, since most people who are obsessed with following the media, want thigh gaps, they intentionally make themselves stickthin in order to get thigh gaps. Since i have associated the idea of "thigh gaps" with being stick thin, I'm gonna have to say that i would rather a girl not have thigh gaps.

[JoeyTheITalian]

it doesn't matter but all the guys who say no thigh gap what the fuck is wrong with you! tell me this doesn't look hot!
static.fjcdn.com/.../...39a5adf0fe2c383328d15a.jpg

[Consultant]

the girl in the pic on the right has a thigh gap if she wasn't standing that way, y'all realize that right?

All a thigh gap means is that she isn't super-thicky/fat or whatever you want to call it. Let's not overcomplicate this.

[Asker]

No... it means she has a gap in between her thighs.

[Asker]

She's overlapping her legs in the pic and has a thigh gap so if she set them apart it would still be there.

[Consultant]

You are still over-complicating this lol

[Asker]

I'm saying it's a gap between your thighs. Simple.

[Dwiin]

this whole thigh gap thing was started by women to make others feel insecure... I do not think it really matters to a man who finds the rest of you attractive

[Anpu23]

Don't care! I DO NOT CARE! I DO NOT CARE! I DO NOT CARE! I don't get this whole thing, I don't get it, who cares if a chicks thighs meet? No guy is looking, why are the girls?

[Bowshots86]

If she has it naturally then ya im down with it. But working for it means practically starving yourself, i would prefer her to be healthy snd have some figure. I like to date people not sticks😅😅😅

[Asker]

The girl on the right isn't a stick and she has a thigh gap www.thestudentroom.co.uk/attachment.php

[Bowshots86]

She is also flexing as hard as possible to get there and has her panties halfway up her butt

[Asker]

How would you even know she's flexing?
She still has a thigh gap regardless of her underwear. She's not the only thick woman that has a thigh gap.

[Bowshots86]

You can tell when someone is flexing its not hard, and her panties are pulling her body into the shape of a thigh gap

[Asker]

Dude... no pulling up your underwear doesn't give you a thigh gap. And like i said that's not the only thicker woman woman with a thigh gap. It's natural.

[Words_and_Wisdom]

Thigh gaps are so hot. /sarcasm

birdeemag.com/.../spongebob-thigh-gap.jpg

[Redstang88]

Not something I really notice but preferably not. Thigh gap usually means little twig legs and I'm not a big fan of that look.

[Asker]

Not necessarily. www.thestudentroom.co.uk/attachment.php

These are both thigh gaps just on different body types.

[MrExplorer]

I don't think it's something you should TRY to get, but whether they are there or not is no big deal. I don't know if anyone would really care about that. Maybe I am wrong?

[Anonymous]

guys don't care about or pay attention to thigh gaps.

We check out your boobs, ass, hip to waist ratio and legs. not a gap between your legs.

The girl on the right in your pic looks way better than that bony ass girl on the left.

[Asker]

Well they both have thigh gaps...

[Opinion Owner]

I said the girl on the left looks better because she's more curvy and has a better ass. Notice how a thigh gap had nothing to do with that?

Guys don't pay attention to that and never have.

thigh gaps were created by girls as a measure of their legs being to big. guys can tell if a girls legs are to big just by looking at the legs not some silly gap between them.

Hip to waist ratio is WAY more important to a woman's figure.
en.wikipedia.org/.../Waist%E2%80%93hip_ratio
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this question has been asked countless times and always gets the same response from guys - we don't care about that.

[Opinion Owner]

* I mean the girl on the right looks better.

[Asker]

Not everyone can widen out their hips or narrow their waist to have the ideal hip to waist ratio. Especially me who has very small hips compared to my torso (apple shape) so I'm trying to find other things to make me my body more appealing.

[JSmuve]

The right one is a thigh gap. The left is anorexia.

[Asker]

Some people are naturally very thin. Why bash someone for something that's natural?

[JSmuve]

I'm just stating the 'gap' on the left isn't a gap that's attractive to men. I'd you're naturally that thin and you're not starving yourself then that's fine. You've reached your body image goal then. However, its not something you should strive for if you're not that thin right now.

[Anonymous]

No thigh gap. The one on the right in your pic is looking yummy as fuck!

[Asker]

She has a thigh gap.

[Opinion Owner]

Unless she's standing with her legs squeezed together, her thighs are most definitely touching. It's natural for people with not too much body fat to have that "gap" at the very top of their legs, because that's just how the legs are shaped. But when I think "thigh gap", I think of the girl on the left of that pic.

[Asker]

That's a thigh gap.

[Opinion Owner]

Well the colloquial term people use for "thigh gap" is not the girl on the right. She's got some nice full legs and her actual thighs are touching. The girl on the right looks like hers wouldn't touch even if she stood with her feet together. That's pretty gross

[Asker]

That's a thigh gap. She has a gap in between her thighs near her crotch. Not all girls have that.

[Opinion Owner]

Ok, whatever makes you happy dude lol

[akadatank44]

This is something with the new kids. Never heard this ever till recent. I could care less

[Neuromancer22689]

Makes zero difference and is probably the least important physical feature after skin color on a woman.

[Anonymous]

i don't mind about thigh gaps/no thigh gaps basically... minor issue!

[Anonymous]

The girl on the right wouldn't be known as a thigh gap, the girl on the left is though. Just means she's longer legs

[cellis805]

If you love a girl, it is of zero importance. That being said, it is amazingly sexy

[JackKerouac77]

FUCK THIGH GAPS AND FUCK SOCIETY

[sovetskii13]

Don't care and never did.

[maiez]

As long as you're healthy.

[albundyfan]

I don't have a thigh gap.