When my boyfriend wants to turn me on, then he has a few ways to do it immediately. He can put his hands on my hips and draw me back into his body so we're pressed tight together and wrap his arms around my waist. He can gently stroke up and down my back, focusing on the middle of my back. He can lightly touch my neck, either the back or the front, though the front at the hollow of my throat works best. And the other thing is my hair. He only needs to stroke and lightly pull his fingers through my hair to make me go bright red. My hair is probably my biggest turn on, and we incorporate it into sex through a lot of hair pulling.
Turn offs are too much pain. Right now, I have bruises on my breasts from experimenting with what's okay pain and what's too hard. If it hurts too much, then I'm turned off straight away and I need to be cuddled a little bit.16 Reply- +1 y
bruises on your breasts? how could that possibly happen?
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I am a weak 5'2 girl and he's a strong 6'0 guy. We were playing around (totally consensually), just to see how hard he could grip and how long I could bear it for. It happened pretty easily. He essentially just squeezed my breasts, gradually increasing the strength, and I bruise pretty easily but he also squeezed pretty hard. So I now have bruises in the shape of hand prints on my breasts. That happened two weeks ago and the bruises are still there.
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lol sorry about it
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you like aggressive sex, don't you?
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+1 yPhysical turn on- if they are close and kissing me and biting my neck working me up. Honestly I get turned on by the reactions I get out if them the most. If I feel like they want it really bad and are holding back I'll just keep playing with them and teasing until they just can't stand it anymore :)
Biggest turn off- leaving in the middle of it/interruptions that he pays attention more to that than me. If I'm horny I want him then there now and if you leave me hanging in the middle of it for too long, good luck with those blue balls later. >:(01 Reply- +1 y
hhhhhhh good luck with those blue balls. But there is no turnoffs for physical appearances?
Turn ons would be: A little scruff, good hair, muscular/athletic, taller (like at least 5'8), TAN, and this isn't physically but guys who joke around like give you a hard time a little are great, ABS, great arms
turn offs: skinnier or less muscular than me, shorter than me, overweight, not athletic at all12 Reply- +1 y
lol glad I'm not any of your turnoffs
603 opinions shared on Other topic. On: Toned body, dancers.
Off: Feminazis, fat, stupid (as in dull; uninterested).11 Reply- +1 y
feminazis loool
510 opinions shared on Other topic. Gotta love tiny bikinis that are untied.
Hate major body hair.17 Reply- +1 y
I'm actually opposite, bikinis don't turn me on
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i didn't fully comprehend what you mean major body haur
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i like hairy girls especially armpit lool it turns me on
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right everyone has his own taste
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+1 yMy biggest turn-ons: Blonde hair, blue eyes, scruff, tall (At least 5'8") and athletic (It's a definite plus). Lastly, intelligence, so I can actually carry on a conversation. I love ancient history and tend to babble about it, if someone actually listened to it I would be amazingly impressed.
Biggest turnoffs: Really overweight, and shorter than I am, and then clingy because I am in no way a big romantic.11 Reply- +1 y
Lol I ain't got no blonde hair no blue eyes. But at least I like history, more than 5'8'' and definitely athletic
Anonymous(25-29)+1 yI've got a couple of each!
Turn Ons: Deep voice, intelligent, nice hair, toned body, reasonably nice
Turn Offs: Severely overweight, certain shades of red hair that remind me of this guy who used to constantly hit on me, rude, smelly, too ripped, CLINGY AND DESPERATE13 Reply- +1 y
glad you the first one picked intelligence
Opinion Owner+1 yIt's very important to me that whoever I'm with is intelligent because they usually make better choices then the idiots who fail everything in school. So if a guy is smart then I'm almost certain to find him attractive to some degree!
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Good choice
1.1K opinions shared on Other topic. Guy don't turn me on by just standing there :(
But it's a turn off when they have nasty teeth and creepy eyes. fat people with pit stains or any type of stains on their clothes is pretty icky too14 Reply- +1 y
How they turn you on then
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So all kind of guys turn you on when they touch you
I am ridiculously attracted to male forearms... I know its weird! XD
I am turned of by lack of hygiene :)24 Reply- +1 y
forearms? what so special about forearms?
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llol it'a good to be different
Definitely guys with 5 o' clock shadows... They're just so sexy and manly ;)
My turn off is a guy with bad hygiene.15 Reply- +1 y
lol who doesn't like nick kisses?
+1 yOn: Tall, fit body, messy hair, veiny arms, deep or sleepy voices, down-to-earth.
Off: Fat, "nice guy" syndrome, misogyny, balding, polo shirts.15 Reply- +1 y
nice guy syndrome? hhh why polo shirts tho
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and misogynists hhhhhhh
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Guys who feel entitled to sex or a relationship from girls "in return" for being a friend to them.
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Polos are just ugly to me. I hate them lol.
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I think polos are classy and comfy :)
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+1 yon: pretty eyes, full face, sharp jawline, pouty lips, cute voice ♡
off: loud, bulky, hairy, smelly, huge facial features15 Reply- +1 y
huge facial features?
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Like big nose and big mouth?
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yeah like a wide mouth
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I find big eyes attractive tho
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eyes are the exception, that can be good
Anonymous(36-45)+1 yPhysical turn on = facial hair
Physical turn off = shaved legs/arms/armpits23 Reply- +1 y
Guess we got somethin in common.. Shaved armpit one of my biggest turnoffs lol
Opinion Owner+1 yYou like chicks with hairy armpits?
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trimmed not hairy and not shaved
834 opinions shared on Other topic. On: nice smile, nice hair, defined jawline, good skin, unique features
off: complete lack of fitness I guess10 Reply4.6K opinions shared on Other topic. turn on: attractive face :P, toned body with broad chest and shoulders, gentleness
turn off: poor hygiene, long hair10 Reply
+1 yTurn on - Big boobs, Ass, slim waist, High heels, blondies, whipped chicks.
Turn offs - Fat, Small boobs, Hairy legs. Not that picky so only em10 Reply
Anonymous(30-35)+1 yTurn on sexy bod and a dude with a beard
Turn off: bad hygeine , finding out the dude is younger than me10 Reply
+1 yNice arms turn on
Long nails...(scream) turn off!10 Reply
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