I'm going to give you the REAL DEAL answer that most men and women are afraid to say both white, black, or whatever. It is TRUE white men ARE attracted to black women! BUT...MOST OF THE TIME ...White men will f*ck a black woman for an "experiment" AND its a 40% chance that a black woman could be the wife or girlfriend of a white man. It's sad too because many people are saying "oh, Yea, if the white guy likes your personality..." BS! You have to think...about the other factors ...will the White guy's family like you? How will you fit in...for holiday dinners, family trips? etc.
Personally-- I am African American AND I would love to date outside my race. I'm VERY attracted to White, Latinos, and even Asian men and the list goes on-- but you have to think, ladies...If this guy really wants to f you as a experiment? or if he's really worth it and wants to have a relationship?
So ladies, be cautious because you could get your feelings hurt when you find out "you were just a experiment". Let me know if I'm wrong...Most white men, would not have a Black female as a wife. Ok then...I made my point.
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well I can only give you my opinion. I am a black girl and I only date white men. I can't speak for all white men but some don't look at the race. they look at your inner self. its about personallity and character. if the person can make you laugh, be there for you when your sad, someone who you can be yourself with than regardless of color or race you and that guy will make it. white men as well as all men don't want to feel inferior or better yet shy so some have backed down, but I say honey forget that one and move to the next. :). good luck.
honestly to me if any black girls are virgins and if she have a pure mind and a pure heart then I find black girls attractive because I'm a virgin as well heck I'm only dating my outside of my race because I find them more attractive then my own race and so you know this about me I'm a white American guy I'm not racist and I never will be racist and no I don't think she will be intimidating me I will approach the black girl(s) if we like each other but if she is racist then I won't and also so you know I have different friends or different races to show I'm not racist I bet you are a beautiful black woman I hope this answer your question and I wish you best of luck to find yourself a white man that loves you for who you are and respects you for who you are
You'll find that most men find /any/ woman intimidating regardless of race or religion. :)
Stereotypically, yes, some guys will be intimidated by black women because many of them are quite assertive. Ditto for Latino women. They have a fire within them and if the guy has difficulty asking a white woman out then you can bet the farm on it that he'll be even more intimidated by a black woman.
Again this is assuming the atypical white guy who is still not quite comfortable with asking /any/ woman out. I doubt that a guy who is comfortable around women would really care if she is black, white, brown, yellow, purple, or even sports a trendy tartan on her skin.
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I think it's because a lot of people are uncomfortable dating inter-racially. It isn't meant to be a personal thing between the two people, but rather one or more of the interested parties can't cope with the other's culture or what they think their culture is going to be like.
There are still a lot of racial tensions in America (as seen on TV, hello Democrats), and some people don't want to risk being "eaten alive" by their boyfriend's or girlfriend's family and friends. Or maybe they don't think their own family will accept someone they are interested in. No one wants to feel like an outcast.
Your question is a little bit of a two-parter as well. I think plenty of white guys are sexually attracted to black women, but maybe they don't think dating is a possibility.first thing is forget wot that anonymous user said, white guys I no and me love black girls and you are very very attracted and beautiful. that guy is talking for himself. its just that most white guys think black girls don't like white guys.thinking that why would you approach someone you think does like you. but black girls are sexy and that's coming from a white guy.
Yes it could be the intimidation, and that's just how it is. Why they might be intimidated, I don't know.
But as long as they respond well when you approach them, that's all that matters. ;-)hi , I'm a white guy , and I dnt find black girls intimidating at all, in fact I'm really attracted to black girls , and I've always approached the girl first I've never had a black girl approach me before , I would love it if they did!
I'm a white guy, and truthfully, I find myself very attracted to black girls. I'm not sure exactly what it is. Just something about them. Some seem to have a bit of an exotic quality to them that attracts me, but even those who don't have that I still find attractive. Especially in recent years, I've just really become attracted to black girls. Provided she also had a good personality to go with the looks, I would love to date a black girl.
To be honest, where I'm from there aren't a lot of black women. So I haven't really gotten to know any very well.
Black girls when are hot there hot like id love to be black and hot but I'm not so I have to work with what I got but all the guys I know love black girls like
I don't think that they are intimidated. I think they are like most men and just fear rejection.
Straight up. In general, white men are not sexually attracted to most black girls. That might be offensive, but you asked.
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