Would you kick a guy in the balls for self-defense? Did you do it before?

[Anonymous]

I kicked a drunk guy in the balls and I feel bad about it 😔

[insatiable_curiosity]

Hmm, I’m curious to know what girls have been taught through their lives about hitting a guy in the testicles? I’m not one to advocate unnecessary violence (especially if not performed in a safe, sane, and voluntary manner between consenting individuals), but I’d imagine that there’d be utility in using such a weakness against a guy if necessary.

TBH, I don’t truly know what it’d be like or what effect it might actually have. I played soccer for 11 years and took many (mostly indirect) hits by feet, knees, legs, and soccer balls between my legs, but they hardly phased me in the moment given the situation/adrenaline/endorphins involved. This said, although I have my faults, I’m not generally seen as a jerk/A-hole such that one might deliberately attempt a direct hit upon me there. I’ve seen guys get dropped on TV and in movies, but I don’t have the personal experience upon which I may base any assumptions. I don’t know if the guys get dropped because of the surprise involved, not expecting to be hit there, or because it actually hurts that badly?

Now I’m curious to know what it’d truly be/feel like to be deliberately hit directly in the balls by a girl. I can’t say that this is something that has come up in conversation, and I wouldn’t know how to bring up exploring such an experiment with a willing female friend. I definitely wouldn’t want it done out of anger, since a girl might be off with her aim, so if I was going to try this, it’d have to involve a mutually agreed upon experiment (between an interested/willing female friend and me) to explore the actual effects caused by deliberate, direct hits to my balls. I feel strange for being curious about this now... thoughts?

[Dongtai]

The only reason you should feel bad is if you didn’t turn your foot after you landed the kick. Really get up in there.

Also if it was completely unwarranted. Like he said something you didn’t like. If he didn’t put his hands on you or corner you, basically you had no other choice but to defend yourself-yes. Feel bad.

But if it was truly self-defense, only feel bad if you didn’t turn that foot. Make him think twice about doing whatever he did again. I’m teaching my daughters that move as soon as they’re toddlers. There’s nothing wrong with self-defense.

But it absolutely must be self-defense. Always walk away if it’s an option. If it’s not, plant the foot you’re supporting your weight with firmly in front of you as if you’re taking a step, bring your kicking foot back as far as it can go without you losing your balance, and kick with everything you got. When your toes make contact, turn your foot as swiftly as you can. While he’s hunched over gasping for air, push his shoulders forward with both hands.

The RUN!!

[Annchi]

Lol your daughters must be lucky I ne er heard someone with balls teaching others how to make it hurt worse

[Dongtai]

Hopefully they’ll use it the way I teach them and I don’t get a call from school saying “Your daughters have been going around kicking boys in their private areas. We need you to come to the school.” 😂😭😭

But oh yes. I’m absolutely teaching my daughters self defense and early too. There are way too many women out here who are afraid to verbally and physically defend themselves from men who end up becoming victims. My girls won’t be part of that crowd. I’m teaching them confidence and independence very early.

[standardguy]

Do you have a video? I did not understand it. First you kick normally with the instep and second you pull the foot back pressing above.

[Dongtai]

@standardguy. Nah. Hold your foot out and rotate your toes in a circular motion inward. Stop about 45 degrees inward. That’s the move. (Yeah this is better if you see it).

Basically you do the kick then that inward toe rotation swiftly. Your kicking the balls and then your adding extra damage by jerking them away from his body.

[TheDude735]

I guarantee you this won’t work against a stronger guy who’s actually trying to harm you.

[AuroraRoseat]

If he's trying to do something to me, yes I would. It's the easiest way to hinder him. I've done it accidentally rough-playing and felt horribly about it.

But if it's a drunk guy copping a feel when I don't want to, I wouldn't do it. It depends on the severity of his actions.

[Anonymous]

Yes, I was at a party and he didn't take no for an answer. He was a lot bigger and stronger than me, so I played along for a while before taking him by surprise with a knee. He was a friend's friend and I found out later he had to have one removed at the hospital.

[Asker]

Wow😮 you didn't regret it?

[Shnagmagra]

Did he grope you?

[Opinion Owner]

I regret having his blood on my hands, or rather, knee. But I do not regret defending myself. Yes, he did. And when his girlfriend found out how he got injured, she dumped him.

[Mcarlier84]

Been there :(

[jgokgotit]

Ladies, if your life is in danger, do whatever the heck you have to do and never feel bad for it. However, hitting the balls is not always the most effective way to stop a man and might make some men all the more determined to hurt you. It will stop most, but some men CAN resist that pain, especially if they have any formal training that increases their mental fortitude to make them ignore pain or if they are on drugs. Some better tactics are to punch his Adam's apple, gouge the eyes, kick the back of the leg hard to make his knee bend the way it normally would so he falls or smack the back of his head (where the small part of the spine ends and connects the neck and head) HARD.

[Holy_Ghost_Fire]

Yes and I've done it before when I was 19. He tried knocking me off a trampoline when I was about to come eat supper. My neck was literally 3 inches from being poked by a sharp tree limb that could have killed me.

I don't play that stuff. If a man try attacking me, I'm aiming for the aims. No excuse for a college pal to horseplay like that and kept messing with me when I said to stop. I was 5'3.5" 109 lbs at time and he was 5'11" 185 lbs. It was my only defense when he tried bullying me because he was jealous of a woman I was seeing because it was his sister.

[markscott]

If you kicked him in self defense, there is not reason to feel bad about it, except that you feel bad for having to do it. if you kicked him just to kick him, and you could get away with it because he was drunk, then you should feel bad, as you committed a crime and unnecessarily hurt a person.

[MyLastRemnant]

I will accidentally have my ankle slip and gently tap my balls and that will hurt to where it feels like I want to throw up for a straight minute. So kicking a guy in the balls should only be done if it's something really bad, if he really is a scumbag go ahead.

[ChronicThinker]

I have when some guy at a bar literally tried to drag me into the men's washroom a few months ago. I kicked him really hard and I don't think he's having kids.

[markscott]

That's a legit time to kick his balls.

[jak0b]

Would you like to find out his balls doesn't work anymore?

[Shnagmagra]

What makes you think that?

[GhettoGirl]

Think I've crotch clocked three fools didn't expect me to open with that. God it sounds horrible that umpph not unlike a thud, I can't imagine what that feels like but its obvious they dont like it..

[Shnagmagra]

What do you mean, to "open" with that? You're saying that like you were having a fight, when you actually just assaulted them.

[Mcarlier84]

Its is horrible, I had an incident with a smaller girl when imwws a frat boy, she used a back kick up between my legs followed by a back hand chop into one of mine, I was in the fetal position in seconds and had to go to the ER that night!

[GuyWannaHelp]

As a guy, I don't think I'll get in the situation where this will be necessary, but I think you did nothing wrong.

If that drunk guy was a threat to you and he wouldn't stop after you told him too, kicking him in the balls is justified in my book.

[MajesticTwelve]

If it was legitimate self defense, I'd use anything and everything I could. Ball kicks, eye gouging, gunfire, whatever.

[Anonymous]

I’ll do it and more. I’ve stabbed people before and shot at one before.
Do what you must to protect yourself

[ImagineSketchy]

Nope. I aim for the throat. Why? Because if they decided to fight me, they were prepared to fight for their life. Animal kingdom rules. Don't start anything, and there won't be anything.

[Wade12345]

Every woman should practice a good groin kick and a good throat jab. Those are the two most important strikes in woman's self defense vs a man.

[Daniel3035]

I mean unless your in danger danger I wouldn’t advise it. It’s painful but also not very nice if a guy is just trying to persuade you. If you were being raped it’s better to not provoke him into hurting you.

[MissDawn7961]

I know how to but have not needed to do it yet ! Thanks

[bimmy5000]

If he was harassing you then don't feel bad. Some guys don't no for an answer so need something with more impact to get the message.

[Neeceeb7]

I can't remember ever doing it. If I was in a position that for safety I needed to I would

[HungLikeAHorsefly]

If I felt like I was actually in a lot of danger, then yes. In a regular fight, no.

[ghostbunnywhite]

You don't need feel bad about it, it was self defense..
It's ok.. So cheers and move on..

[Beta_Wolf]

It hurts more than a women giving birth, yes this is proven.

[MikeInHawaii]

I think a punch to the Adam’s Apple may actually be more effective. The solar plexus is a good spot, too, but you have to hit it just right.

[Staximus]

If you did it out of self defense or because he put his hands on you, then it's ok for you to kick him in the sack. Don't feel bad.

[IIGrifterSixII]

I've gotten kicked in the nuts a lot in sparring. If theyr not too amped its effective but if theyre game forget it, it won't phase them

[Anonymous]

On the receiving end its some thing like this.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Y_cfgDk3848&has_verified=1

[Swat_]

I'd rather get shot in the leg then getting kicked in the nuts. The pain is temporary but seriously fucked.

[OhmIsTyping]

If he was harrasing you, good job ! It's a very common thing to kick people in the balls so I would say don't be sad, raise a drink

[WTFever]

No, there are better ways to put a guy down without resorting to that.

[Asker]

Like?

[WTFever]

Breaking a collar bone, pulling his ear off, pulling any jewelry out of his nose or ears. All 3 of those things are insanely easy to do.

[Beta_Wolf]

U could just full force uppercut your handpalm on his nose?

[WTFever]

@Beta_Wolf I know, but that has a high probability of permanent brain damage or death. And I really don't want to go to prison.

[Beta_Wolf]

Aah yes but in belgium the system is broken lol with a sentense under 3 years you don't have to go to prison

[WTFever]

@Beta_Wolf Well, I live in Africa, and prison is the very last place I ever want to visit here.

[Beta_Wolf]

That i can believe

[chillboii]

If it was self defense, you shouldn't feel too bad about it. In a self defense situation it wouldn't be my first target but if I have few options, I'd kick a guy in the balls.

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

Why feel bad about kicking a guy in balls? I support you 100% , knock his cock stiff :) <3 <3 <3

[NorthwestRider]

My fiancée kicked guys in their balls before. I think it is badass when women can handle their own battles

[Anonymous]

Don't feel bad about it nuts kick is the best way to protect yourself, and it's an eazy move just one kick bitween his leg and he's at your feet

[IMainHanzo]

If you are in immediate danger. Yes its acceptable. If you are doing it for kicks. May god have mercy on your soul.

[Trojan35]

Damn you closed an era for him, he won't be able to have kids now lol.

[13IsALuckyNumber]

Yeah do it. Just not for no reason because that hurts bad.

[Anonymous]

By self defense I imagined an extreme scenario of being kidnapped or something. Yes, of course I would. I would kill to defend myself, kicking a guy in the balls is a much less drastic option

[Anonymous]

Well don't feel bad. If he gave you reason to defend yourself it's one of the best ways to get him away, the other being a bloody nose.

[standardguy]

Wow, I am sorry! :-(. Why did you feel bad for it? You did the right thing!

[Rocket99]

My friend has the "kick in the balls" fetishism. That's insane, I feel bad for her boyfriend

[Anonymous]

A football player was gonna rape me at a frat party, i waited until he was naked and then grabbed his big hairy nuts and punched them a few times really hard! He groaned and rolled over in pure agony. I made my escape!

[Anthony2342]

You don't know how much pain we feel when we get kicked there, you don't have the right to kick someone in the balls in any case

[Agape93]

In any case?

[Anthony2342]

@Agape93 there's no good reason to make a guy feel such a pain

[Agape93]

So if a guy is trying to rape her, she should still avoid kicking him in the nuts?

[Anthony2342]

@Agape93 he wasn't trying to rape her he just grabbed her arm and she kicked him 😕

[Agape93]

You said there is no good reason to kick a guy in the nuts. Answer the question.

[Anthony2342]

@Agape93 I got kicked before so yes even in that case you shouldn't do it

[Agape93]

Then congratulations, you’re more ok with a girl being raped than a guy being hit in the nuts. :)
Or am I mistaken?

[Anthony2342]

@Agape93 I'm just trying to make you anderstand how much pain it feels

[Agape93]

I understand it hurts. But you seem to not care about a girl being raped, but more about the rapist if he was kicked in the balls.
Please, tell me why I should care about ball pain when you don’t care about the victims pain?

[Anthony2342]

@Agape93 you're right, I apologize, a girl getting raped is way worse than a rapist getting his balls kicked

[Agape93]

Glad to hear you agree

[Holy_Ghost_Fire]

@Agape93
I'd kick a man or woman in their privates that tried raping me. Rapists deserve being kicked and don't deserve their genitals: man or woman

[Agape93]

^^^^^^^
Exactly!

[Anonymous]

Fuck the dude code kick that asshole in the balls all you want
Pain excites me

[harvest]

Did he try to hurt you in any way?

[Asker]

He grabbed my arm and didn't want to let me go

[harvest]

Did you ask him to let you go?

[Asker]

I did

[harvest]

Then, as an official member of society of dicks, I hereby give you a pardon! ;)
No, srsly, you didn't do anything wrong. The dude was a jerk and he deserved what was coming to him.

[loveslongnails]

If I had to, why not?

[Browneye57]

Sure you had good reason, no?

[Surely]

But, did he deserve it?

[GreenGold1992]

Yes I would, though I've never done that before

[CoffeeWC]

Only if i had no other way to defend myself

[call_me_scar]

Sure why not

[Jmmmfi4]

You should feel bad