When did you cry in front of other person?

[Hazelstar99]

I don't usually do that. I do everything in private. But, I remember it was 2017 when I was sitting in metro train. I was really stressed about my career. I was worried and feeling hopeless. Everyone was doing their work. I don't know what came into my mind. I covered my face and started crying. That was embarrassing but it happened.

[Jjpayne]

I think one of the last times, I was talking about my dad that passed away and I was remembering him, in had a brief moment where I broke down for a couple of seconds with tears. That was last year... I have cried a bit with some movies but my dad cry was a pretty significant one

[Hazelstar99]

I couldn't imagine pain you've been to. I didn't lost my dad till now. But, the thought is really scary and sad.

[Jjpayne]

It's been a little while sense then and it does come in waves. But not nearly as emotional as it was then but thank you 😞

[Hazelstar99]

Thank God! You're healing from it and your very welcome ❣

[Jjpayne]

Thank you for the MHO 😊

[BobbyC65]

Before and after my mom passed away from lung cancer. August 20, 1943, to January 5, 2017

[Hazelstar99]

I'm sorry to hear that. I'm sorry you had to go through this. It's heartbreaking.

[BobbyC65]

Thank you. 💞
I took my mom's passing hard to where I had to see a therapist to help me get over the loss.

[Hazelstar99]

Keep smiling and your mother would love to see you smiling always❣

[BobbyC65]

LOL.

[Sevenpointfive]

i think someone hurt my feelings on here and i went live with a friend so she saw me but she was really nice

[Hazelstar99]

It's nice to have people whom you can feel vulnerable with. You're lucky!!

[Don-_-Don]

I got drunk at a Halloween party recently and I cried in front of everyone there.

[Hazelstar99]

What you were crying about?

[Don-_-Don]

A lot of things that I keep pent up on the inside. Years worth of shit, being drunk caused it all to come out to the surface.

[Don-_-Don]

I don't let myself cry often, let alone vent.

[Hazelstar99]

It's good that you vent alone. But, don't let your feelings pile up. You may talk to someone who you trust or maybe go for therapy. But, just free your feelings.🙃

[msc545]

It's ok. People cry in private and public. I hope you are feeling better now.

[Hazelstar99]

Yeah I'm fine. But, it still looks embarrassing 😅

[msc545]

Don't be embarrassed - we all cry - its normal

[Hazelstar99]

Yeah but I don't want booger coming out. It looks nasty. I'm a ugly crier 🤣

[msc545]

Use kleenex.

[Hazelstar99]

Thank you! I didn't know that. Now, I'm going to be a beautiful crier I hope 🤣

[msc545]

I know that you will be. tears can be beautiful, and yours will be!

[Hazelstar99]

I don't if I should be sad hearing by that or happy 🤣

[mrgspoter]

When I can't remember right now I was young, or stoned or both lol

[Hazelstar99]

Who remembers bad moments? 🤣🤣

[mrgspoter]

Me lol

[mrgspoter]

Maybe they are the honest ones?

[Hazelstar99]

I am on the same page as well... 🤣

[Hazelstar99]

Never thought of that 🤔 why do you say that?

[mrgspoter]

I'm dark sometimes 😂

[Hazelstar99]

Oh I'd like to shed light on it sometimes 🤣

[mrgspoter]

Oh really well it might cost you something else LoL

[Hazelstar99]

If that is something monetary. I'm already broke 🤣

[mrgspoter]

Only little prices of your soul maybe 🤪

[Hazelstar99]

You're not going to kill me. Are you?😨

[mrgspoter]

No be daft 🧐💨

[Hazelstar99]

😂 I mean... it 😂

[mrgspoter]

What if I say no but act like maybe if you int good

[Hazelstar99]

Again what do you mean by little price of my soul?😅

[mrgspoter]

Oh well it's nothing much don't you worry now you

[Anonymous]

Once I cried in front of a girl who saw me fully naked for the first time.

[Hazelstar99]

Is that because you were feeling finally secure with someone or PTSD?

[Opinion Owner]

What's PTSD?
It was because I had so much body hair all over my body and hers was bare smooth body
I felt animal

[Hazelstar99]

Post traumatic stress disorder. It happens when you've gotten out from some stressful situation. It can be due to war, rape, domestic violence, etc.

Hey don't hate your body. There will be someone who is going to love and gladly you've one.

[Opinion Owner]

Why would someone ( a girl) who herself has so bare skinned body like my hairy beastly body... she'd be so superior to me

[Hazelstar99]

Well there are 7 billion people in the world. The thing that you don't like about yourself might be the thing someone could fall in love with. She loves you and she accepts everything that comes along with you. Lucky guy!!😂

[Opinion Owner]

As a female do you think that's even possible to happen?

[Hazelstar99]

Yes I dated someone who was disabled. He had a rod inside his leg and also didn't had nice teeth because of an accident.

[Opinion Owner]

You dated him despite knowing all this?

[Opinion Owner]

And that's a bit another issue while having animalistic hairy body is another story

[Hazelstar99]

Yes because I was in love with him.

[Hazelstar99]

Well, we're not mean to others as we are mean to ourselves. Someone is always going to fall in love with who you are.

[Giggltr0nn]

Last time would have been 4 years ago I think

[Hazelstar99]

It's okay... do you do in private?

[Giggltr0nn]

Not really no, it's not some kind of "men can't cry" thing; I just rarely ever see the need to do it

[Hazelstar99]

Well I hope you smile always😊

[UP2U2020]

Last Thursday My Great Dane passed on

[Hazelstar99]

I'm so sorry to know that. I hope you stay okay!

[msc545]

I am so very sorry. :(

[gandolph3]

Sometimes we get overwhelmed

[Hazelstar99]

Yeah things can be overwhelming

[Agape93]

A few weeks ago

[Hazelstar99]

Is that because of Corona?

[Agape93]

Nope, that would have been a few months ago. This was just stress overwhelming me

[Hazelstar99]

I don't know what is it you're going through but you'll get over it soon. 😊 This too shall pass is the quote I can think for you. ❣

[Agape93]

Thanks :) it comes and goes but not for too long

[Hazelstar99]

Your very welcome ❣🙃

[OceanMelon]

When I was a baby

[Hazelstar99]

Well! You can do it in private.

[bklynbadboy1]

I never do

[Hazelstar99]

That's cool!

[bklynbadboy1]

I don't know if its good or bad

[Hazelstar99]

It's okay... I hope you smile everyday❣

[bklynbadboy1]

@Hazelstar99 Aww your so sweet

[Hazelstar99]

The pleasure is mine!

[andy530]

I try not to

[Hazelstar99]

Yeah I do get that. But, is it because of embarrassment or you don't want to look weak? Both of the reasons apply to me.

[andy530]

Id say it’s a mixture of both. Culturally “men don’t cry” which I know is bullshit but when it comes down to it I fall pray to it just like many others

[Hazelstar99]

Hey! It's okay to feel your feelings. Pain demands to be felt before it goes away. Just acknowledge it. If that means crying in public or in shower. Just do it. ❣

[andy530]

I completely agree it’s just easier said than done in my experience

[Hazelstar99]

Try to do it and you're going to put wallow alarm clock one day! I did and it helped me.