I would look at Fetlife,
Also in the UK we have Munches, basically meetings for those in to BDSM.
the best way to find a decent Dom is via subs.
There should be some forums with a sub corner.
A lot of it is by word of mouth.
It can be hard finding a Dom that actually is a lifestyle one and not a bedroom one.
then finding one that actually does it for the sub and not themselves, which is important.
https://fetlife.com
https://thecage.co/main.php
Chunk of links here.
https://www.metrotimes.com/detroit/10-best-bdsm-dating-sites-that-actually-work-2021-edition/Content?oid=26539366
If you were in the UK, I know some subs you could chat to.
Even as a Dom, I would defer to sub recommendations, nothing worse than recommending someone that turns out to be an arsehole.
we do try to actively filter out Psycho’s and sadists.
hope that helps
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What is a "real" Dom? It's all just for fun. A man who thinks it's not isn't a "real" Dom, he's dangerous.
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What do you think of a younger woman with an older man :-)
two grown adults is their business not anyone else.A skilled lifestyle Dom is hard to find. Have you tried Fet life?
I can be dom and rough but might be far from you guys :P
What is hotwife play? When you have sex with other friends or group of friends?
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