What question (s) are you tired of being asked?

[talka20]

[dustybiker]

I have a moment to ramble, so will indulge myself.
irl I get asked a lot, when walking through a store in half my gear, if I have a motorcycle. It’s a normal thing people ask to break ice or be friendly. I usually reply “I hope so.” We laugh and part.
A couple months ago I heard a voice behind me ask this, I turned and see a good-looking man in a wheelchair.
It took my thoughts right out of my head. I instantly felt angry I could ride and he couldn’t. He had passion for it you could see it all over his face.
I wondered if he had ridden, if possible for him, in the past. He could tell by my hesitation I was thinking about his being in a chair and the light begin to fade from his smile.
So I flashed a big grin and said “Yes.” His smile came back bright and his eyes lost focus. I wanted to ask him. He did bring it up. But didn’t. I regret that. He nodded and told me to be safe out there. I said “Thanks.” And we both went back to grabbing bread.
After that it made me realize it doesn’t matter how many times you are asked something each situation is different. It means something or they wouldn’t ask.
On GaG. People ask about package size a lot. Some people can be creative in their wording. Those will usually get my reply.

[talka20]

So its how they chose to start talkin to u haha iss still fine i guess

[talka20]

Whatyu mean by package size here?

[dustybiker]

“Is my penis size ok?” = package size.

[talka20]

Oh u mean they ask u their penis size after sending u now i get that... i thought they asked yours i was like whattttt😂 thats why i asked if there is something called package in girls too😂

[dustybiker]

Oh, no. Not here anyway. My DMs are locked. People just ask it here. Probably the most frequently asked GaG Q. One of many.

[muscularbumblebee]

A lot of them tbh. Most of them though are:


1) why do you spend so much time at the gym? Don’t you have a life outside? - like yeah I have a comp and it kind of is my life.. you got a problem then tell that to all my other gym mates who are also serious about competing


2) did you tattoos hurt? What do they mean?- like nahhh they felt great also not every tattoo has a meaning? Some of them do and some don’t.. simple as that


3) why don’t you speak to your mum anymore?- that my personal business. Mind your damn own…

[talka20]

I completely get all of those... ik it can be frustrating at some point

[crossdressingrihno]

Are you ready for the questions that are the bane of my existence

You know those questions where people ask you what something means when someone says something but then they provide absolutely no context to the situation at all

Like for example

"What does it mean if a guy I'm friends with asks me if I have plans tomorrow"
And provides absolutely nothing else

It could mean that the guy wants to hang out it could mean the guy wants to ask you a favor it could mean the guy wants to nail you it could mean any of those things because we have no clue as to what he means because we have no context

[DeeRocc]

What do you do?
The last thing I want to talk about is work, yet that's the first thing most people talk about. DO YOU NOT HAVE ANYTHING ELSE GOING ON IN YOUR LIFE?

[talka20]

I feel ya man it really seems stressful for someone who dont feel like talkin bout work

[kiki18]

a lot of questions;
-where is your dad?
(In prison, my entire live, for murder)
-why dont you smoke weed anymore?
(Bc i dont like being addicted and waste my life)
-can you speak Spanish of Papiamento?
(No, my venezuela dad is in jail so i had nobody to teach me)
-why are you so skinny?
(Ask my mother bc i can't get any bigger)
-did it hurt? When you feel from heaven?
(Really fool, really?)
-why Do you smoke?
(to stay calm and not aggressive)
-why Do you have those scars?
(Non of you're damn business, you shouldn't even be looking there "i get that question when i go swimming")
And i have a lot more questions that i HATE

[talka20]

Bruh they do sound like those that keep reminding u of certain things that happened in past... iss bad yes is bad ngl... i feel bad for people who get intentionally or unintentionally tortured or frustrated but suchh stuff

[kiki18]

thanks not many people understand it

[talka20]

I wish u dont face em more... but whatyu think that this has become more or less over time?

[kiki18]

If you mean these, then more.

[talka20]

Oh mannn that sucks really

[talka20]

Are those kinda new people or those whom u know for long time now? Im askin in a sense that can u cut em off?

[kiki18]

I can cut them off but they dont mean it in a bad way and people that i dont really know ask me some of these kind of questions

[talka20]

I see i see i get that

[Aerissa_Jade]

Does Penis size matter, and how many sex partners have you had. Those are two I'm tired of being asked over and over on GAG at least. No one really asks that in RL.

In RL, when we going to get together, haven't seen you in ages? well any time you want but then they are often always too busy.

[Sour-rose]

"Why don't you take a real picture? People wanna see your face!"
"Why do you want to change yourself?"

I'm tired

[Account]

"Don't you eventually want to create your own family?"

I just look at them with an exhausted expression. I can no longer answer that question. They never understand.

[talka20]

Oh yea sometimes they just won't stop saying same stuff

[AviatorTom]

Here on G@G, I'm tired of being asked how big my penis is and how many women I've slept with.

[mobiusforniner]

From women- "do you want to go to lunch with me, go for a walk, or get coffee together?" Dammit NO! I'm married!

I get these questions often from multiple women.

Yet, when I was single, never once was asked this. Not ONCE.

[talka20]

What do u think changed after marriage that now u get this asked often?

[mobiusforniner]

there's no simple answer to that. I think its a combination of things. For one, when i was single, i was horny and sex was my end game. I dont care for it as much anymore and my relationships with women in general feel more authentic. Also, my perspectives are different. Im feel more patient and a better listener willing to tolerate more shit than normal. Kids do that to me. I have much more life experience than before too. Can fix anything from a lawn mower engine to a grand piano. Also women who ask me are in their mid to late 30s. Theyre likely over the immaturity and wanting to settle. I've had married women give me their phone numbers and ask me out...

[grapefruit11]

"Why are you so quiet?" The people who ask are always people who don't know me and who didn't make an effort to talk to me either. It's like they just expect me to start saying things and entertain them.

[cryscrys1]

“Why are you going to get married? “
I say never they think it’s a joke

[docster]

"How can I tell my SO I want to try ________ in bed?"

You're having sex with this person and you can't have a conversation with them?
Really?

[Leko14]

what does "SO" mean?

[docster]

@Leko14 Significant Other. Short for "girlfriend/boyfriend/wife/husband".

[Amy10223]

How do you pronounce your last name? And they say it wrong anyway.

[talka20]

Iss funny n frustrating at same time haha

[Amy10223]

Lol. I don’t get upset, it’s a foreign name so I can’t blame them.

[talka20]

Yea fair

[Horror_lover92]

" is there a reason, why you're still a virgin?"
" is it because a traumatic past?"
" religious beliefs? "

[talka20]

Do u give em any answer?

[Horror_lover92]

At first I did, now I usually just say I don't really know, it's just a choice.

[whirled_up_girl]

IRL "do you have a family" on GAG , I don't know I guess I haven't been tired of them yet because I still hang out here, lol.

[talka20]

Oh hahaah yes makes sense u still here so

[Dragonstarterplus]

"She look at me then she look away. WhAt DoEs It MeAn?"

[Anonymous]

Am I real?
People keep thinking I’m a catfish and although I understand, I don't know how many times I have to prove it to people

[queenkilldozer]

I'm tired of hearing oh you only have one child when are you going to have another. I'm not Karen! I did it right the first time. LOL

[whereismyjohnny]

I can't think of any, really. I think there is no question that annoys me 😅

[talka20]

I think then u are lucky... cuz many people have one question goin on in their life or particular phase of life that keep getting asked... like when are u gonna have job... when are u marrying... when are u having kids... why do u dress like that etc etc

[whereismyjohnny]

Yeah, I understand that. People can be really annoying sometimes and so noisy.

Honestly, I don't have one question that I keep getting asked, but there is a statement that I had to listen to my whole life (that I find annoying) and that is ''You are too sensitive.''. I heard it so often it makes me sick and I'm so tired of it. A lot of people used it to gaslight me and for a long time, I felt like there is something wrong with me, but now I learned how to deal with comments like that.

[talka20]

Yea i get it... n even if someone is sensitive iss still completely fine

[TexasRed95]

When will I get a girlfriend. I'm a horribly awkward and shy person with no time to date and no money for a car. Dating just isn't something I can do right now or something I feel comfortable with.

[talka20]

Fair fair... who asks u? Your friends?

[TexasRed95]

Family and friends.

[talka20]

I see i see... assumed so too

[UniquelyBasic]

Why am I so cool? Gets annoying because they already know lol

[talka20]

Hahah funny

[Anonymous]

Hi, Where are from? I used to work in CVS in 98% white neighborhood and everyday customer asked my origin and I left my job.

[8Bit_LYNX]

“Do you have a big dick?”
I’m over saying yes! 😒

[Guardian45]

ANYTHING masturbation; D sizes, shapes & superlatives; and HDIL? s!!!😬😵‍💫😴😴😴😴

[Anonymous]

On GAG I'm tired of being asked how big my penis is, or if I'm circumcised or uncircumcised. In real life, I could do without constantly being asked "why don't you talk? Do you have a problem with me?"

[talka20]

Cuz ure a quite or introvert kinda person?

[melisaaa]

why do you workout so much?
how did you grow your ass?

[talka20]

Tell em u grew it by watering it every morning like plants

[melisaaa]

hahahahahha lol

[talka20]

I was bout to say put seed in it but i was like no that can go in complete different direction if i used the word seed😂

[melisaaa]

hahahahhahahhaahhahaha, no way

[talka20]

Yes wayyyy😂 oh i see your plant😆

[melisaaa]

it is a nice plant huh? :)

[talka20]

Yesss but needs to be fixed... cuz it has crack😂

[melisaaa]

hahahahah

[talka20]

U prolly got someone to put some "glue" on it xD

[Walamagicc]

“Why don’t you smoke?”

[talka20]

Great that u dont by the way

[Walamagicc]

Right! I do take thc Delta 8 edibles sometimes but smoking weed, I just hate how much it hurts my lungs. I don’t see why people like smoking, it doesn’t feel good

[YourToy69]

Why if your name is Robson you pronouce it "Hobson" in your country?

[talka20]

I mean yes that seems like something to be curious bout im ngl

[Anonymous]

"When are you getting married"

"Do you have a boyfriend"

[talka20]

By whom mostly?

[Opinion Owner]

Family

[talka20]

As mostly w most people

[HawkPerception]

What do you do? (Work)

[Tedster420]

Any question starting with "do you have a..."

[Starla1234]

Why don’t you drink? 🙄

[talka20]

Well id say iss good that u dont

[gabby100]

Thats what we come on here for , isn't it..

[Selena1987]

How much my salary is

[DragonDraggin]

Do you have a girlfriend

Do you have kids

[boobliker]

how to get sex out of a girl.

[Iron_Man]

Why does he stare at me

[Fuentes]

If im mixed with something

[CallmeTheKnight]

1. Is that your real hair?
2. Do you workout?

[talka20]

Im not tired of this but i get asked bout my beard hair too... if I've done something... got it coloured or what... is it like that naturally

[CallmeTheKnight]

I've always heard that happens to guys with beards.

[omnivert]

How old are you?
According to my body Size

[talka20]

Cuz u look bigger? or smaller?

[omnivert]

Thinner, less facial hairs

[talka20]

Oh okay i see

[TwoToTooTutu2]

Anything about my name. Sick of answering

[talka20]

Thats strange to me

[Blinditem]

Are you having kids?
Why don't you want kids?

[Creampiekarl420]

Are you a girl? No I’m not

[ColtonLG]

“How’s it going?”

[KrakenAttackin]

"Did you kill all these people"?

[Waldoe]

The Stupid one... like this one for example

[Apulu_3]

Why do you exist?

[talka20]

U get asked this so much that ure tired of it? Who asks u that?

[Apulu_3]

Some classmates.

[Apulu_3]

I'm not hurted by it or something. Just annoyed by how many times they use the same thing whenever I enter or exit the classroom.

[talka20]

Ohh teenage things yess now i get it

[Anonymous]

Why i haven't big dick lol

[talka20]

Ure a guy or girl?

[Opinion Owner]

I'm girl

[talka20]

Then why do they even ask u that😂 wait wait... do they ask you bout you or do they ask u bout themselves

[Opinion Owner]

for themselves

[talka20]

Oh gotchu

[Joker_]

how are you

[Joker_]

I'm literally shitting rn