"Give up on women. You're never going to go beyond 180 cm. Thus, there are no future girlfriends or wife out there for you. Don't waste your entire twenties on something that is impossible. Learn martial arts (MMA, specifically) instead.
And learn how to stop giving a fuck about the 'average' people wasting resources on this planet with their existence. The hardest part is doing martial arts knowing your body will forever be broken, defective, and utterly useless. So here's the secret key to that: Channel your anger into your fists and legs. And become the fucking BEST at that.
Yes, the world isn't going to ever get any better and your height disability is stuck forever where it is, limiting you to all of your hopes and dreams and making your future life literally pointless... But at the very least, you can kick some ass before the dystopia of the 2020s ends itself."
- Sincerely, 36 year old you
As a young teen: Be more confident with girls.
As a slightly older teen: Don't leave college.
But, while this is an awesome thought exercise and a great question, if I did either of those changes, I wouldn't have met my wife and had my kids and that would be sad.
I would tell myself to move out and go to therapy for being molested.
I went down a dark spiral after all of that came to surface, and lost complete control of my life, and nobody really knew how to help me.
I didn't understand why I was doing what I was doing. All I knew was I was insatiable for sex (I'm a Christian who believes in waiting for sex until marriage), and I had nightmares at home. My sex offender visited my house every day, and I couldn't do anything about it.
If I'd moved out, and gone to therapy, maybe I could have been spared of that whole episode and been stable.
The main thing I would want to tell myself at age 15 would be super weird and awkward, details about relationships and sex life, I had three v. bad relationships that were all different in what made them bad, I am not sure exactly what I would say "don't date anybody until you are 20" might not work too well!! I guess I would try to explain what types of relationships to seek or avoid and I might name specific people to avoid. But maybe I would just end up making different mistakes that would be just as bad or worse?
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Dear younger self focus on establishing your business nothing else matters in life than a successful career if you want those expensive things and luxuries in life keep working hard for it stop wasting time on dating love stories only exist is movies and never think of getting married they just want a slave for free
I made some really dumb decisions driving, getting in a bad wreck (twice) where I should have done something different and I lost my awesome Honda Accord. I also got involved with a couple of women I shouldn't have. I just would have told myself to trust my gut more.
Keep your head up, take all opportunities even if they don't seem very beneficial at first, research narcissists and stay away from them (especially one in particular), say "No" more often, keep doing what you know is right and true, and always respect yourself even when you're the only one that does.
I would go back with a list. Do this earlier don’t do that at all. And not just for myself but a list for my best friend too. But mostly I’d tell myself to go into health care immediately instead of waiting as long as I did
Don’t cheat on my first boyfriend who didn’t deserve it. My biggest regret ever. Not saying I wish we were still together, I mean we might have been. But either way. I wish that didn’t happen and I wasn’t a asshole.
I'd go back in time to 06 NOV 2022 and say to myself "Play these numbers for tomorrow's Powerball lottery: 10 33 41 47 56 with Powerball number as 10."
Either, "Kill your sisters before they get the chance to fuck you and mom over!" or, "Tell mom not to give your sisters a transfusion! Let them die because they're gonna fuck the both of you over in 55 years!!"
Continue to seriously hone your body through discipline.
A lot of women are a waste of time. There are plenty who are dead serious.
Everytime your gut was telling you something about someone, it was right.
I probably wouldn't do it, but if I did, I would convince my younger self to have sex at an age younger than when I did.
I would tell myself to stop whining about things and not give a shit about other people's opinions
I would tell me to maintain good posture and to lose weight.
Don't do drugs too much. Little bit okay but not *that* much.
I would tell him to look up red pill videos on the internet.
I'd tell myself to go through with suicide, there's nothing to live for
It would be all financial, to the point that I'd get called in by the SEC on suspicion of insider trading.
Don’t take what I did in university. Invest in Netflix, Apple & Google when they started up
I’d tell her, don’t ever let people walk on u, don’t listen to negative things they say about you. You look just fine, you look great, you’re gold.. Keep going
Don't be scared of your desire and who you truly are
To get more involved with things. To play sports. To actually meet and talk to people and not do things for attention.
Don't marry her. We are divorced now but she basically ruined my life. If I could go back and change that, I would in a heartbeat.
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