People initially say im a nice person to talk to then stop talking?

[Anonymous]

Why do people do this? i even tell them this ALWAYS happens and then they prove me right...

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+1 y

I had this ubder gags community cos that's what its about :/

[talka20]

Boys mostly or girls?

[Asker]

Both, i dont share pics

[talka20]

1. Are u open to talk bout anything?

2. Are you more like a replier or the person who only answers questions? Or do u say more from your side and actually put some effort?

[Asker]

I do try but i dont havs a lot of experience so i dont feel the right person to give advice. But i can't see any rral reason why they suddenly stop talking

[talka20]

Its not about advice but it can be just bout short replies (if u do that)

Or slow replies (only if u do that)

Do u say no for many things during chat?

[Asker]

No very rarely. I just dont share personal info or pics

[talka20]

Well... it can be pics maybe cuz at some point its like we dont even know whom we are talkin to

Or some other things outta all this... but still can't say anything for sure tho

[Asker]

I just feel its too personal, and as soon as id share it theyd probably stop talking to me anyway

[talka20]

Well im sorry but I don't know what possibly it could be cuz there are so many reasons yk... are u mostly negative and not appreciative?

[Asker]

Its not that it bothers me that they stop talking, i tell them they probably will yet they come out with really nice stuff about me to begin with and its so fake they barely know me

[talka20]

I see... welp💁🏽‍♂️

[gag37627]

How do you respond to them

[Asker]

Same as i do on public

[gag37627]

Do you initiate conversation or do they do that

[Asker]

As i said im the same here on public

[gag37627]

Perhaps it's your age group. Guys tend to talk less with girls your age

[Asker]

They tend to message me first

[Asker]

Im not looking to flirt on here by the way lol just general chat

[gag37627]

And do you initiate later on?

[gag37627]

Exactly, that's what I said. They leave you for that reason. They don't do general chat if there is nothing to gain

[Asker]

They didn't start messaging to do that though, theyre giving me advice. I wasn't aware this was a dating site?

[Asker]

Im Not giving away pics to strangers lol

[gag37627]

This is not a dating site. I meant people don't continue talking unless there is interest about the girl or guy

[gag37627]

Did people ask your pics?

[Asker]

But thats not y they initially message me about

[Asker]

Yeah

[gag37627]

See? That's what I told you. They had interest towards you and you showed them you don't want it. So they left.

[gag37627]

Go to my profile and check my question

[Asker]

I shouldgnt b forced to share pics with strangers n if thats the case this isn't a safe site. They re not flirting with me

[gag37627]

They were flirting with you

[Asker]

They weren't flirting just giving me advice how can a stranger show interest in a few words online lol

[Asker]

No they weren't this isn't a dating site lol

[gag37627]

Why would anyone ask pics of a stranger

[Asker]

I've got pretty strong feeling s for a guy irl they know about be4 msging me

[Asker]

Cos theyre curious?

[gag37627]

Check the question I asked you will get