Are you the type of person that makes distraction's so things won't seem so bad, or do you like to think things through to get a solution?

[sage2021]

Someone I know is always distracting himself when something serious is happening. That way he doesn't have to think about it. He tells jokes, etc.
Me, I don't want to be distracted at all until I have thought everything through and come up with a solution.

[Lliam]

I'm kind of a linear thinker. So I tend to focus on the problem and talk it through. I also listen to their POV and seek understanding.

I don't like it when people walk away or change the subject. Although, there are times when it is good to put a discussion on hold and set a time to come back to it after we have both had time to cool down and process. Sometimes we get focused on defending our position or trying to get our message across when we are in the midst of a discussion. If we take a break, I often come back with a different perspective once I take time to think it through.

I do use humor at times to lighten things up without changing the subject.

[Lliam]

Thanks for the MHO, Sage.

[Sixgunsound]

Distractions are a waste of time that ultimately change nothing. Take the Obama bailouts for example. It distracted some people from the coming collapse but ultimately did nothing to speed it up or slow it down but made a lot of fellow traveler democrats richer.

[sheenagwapa]

i'm a very solution seeker kind of person. many many many moths ago i lower my oride abd for the first time in my life i beg someone to help me financially for my health issue but instead of helpinh me i eas put into hell and kerp being blocked and my older sister keep makinh a mess.


everyday i have foggy brain. i am stuck because of a fuclinh demon who wants a perfect wife. all the love i feel for this demon lover s all gone


my treadmill is even not working because i think he wanted me to run outside... i think he is the worst man one could marry

[NathanDavis]

sometimes I do both at the same time... lol

depends on what it is

[exitseven]

I never make distractions. I am pretty single minded and like ot concentrate on a problem.

[Likes2drive]

I only do that if I’m sad about something otherwise I solve it

[Fuentes]

I like to get a solution

[FunkyMonkee]

I can chew gum and walk at the same time.

[eagle1951]

always think them