Do you ever wish there was a way to go back in time?

[Anonymous]

Like turn the clock back and start life over from whatever year in the past that you want to start it from.

[wiltingrosepetal]

Nah, if people had that choice then no one would grow from their actions. They'd just go back and erase them from ever happening. If you commit a crime, there's no going back. Same as cheating, getting hated for something you said, or just making a bad joke. It would leave people too fixated on the past to live in the present

[Asker]

For me I would go back and tell my mum I loved her. Her passing happened suddenly. I would have also made sure my sisters never got involved with the funeral arrangements because they went completely against mum's wishes even though mum had the moneh to cover her funeral cost. She made it known for many years she wanted to be buried and they cremated her.

I see what you mean though and it makes sense

[FunkyMonkee]

Yes and, supposedly, there is! They just won't let us have it.

[Asker]

Oh really? They are A holes than. I wish I could turn the clock back

[FunkyMonkee]

Yes, they are!
So do I! I'd go back at least 19 years and warn my parents of the shit my ex-sisters were gonna pull 4 years ago!!

[Asker]

I'd go back 4 years ago as that was the last year I got to spend with my mum before she passed. I'm so sorry to hear that your ex sisters haven't been loving people. I hope you are okay

[FunkyMonkee]

Mine died 7 years ago and I lost the house 4 years ago.
Thanks! Now, I have my ex-cousins to contend with!! After I lost my house, my aunt took me in here at grandma's house and, when my aunt died 4 years ago (as of Jan. 5th), she SAID she was leaving the house to me but, there's no Will saying so (not that Will's are worth the paper they're written on, nearest I can tell from past experience!) so, now, my cousins wanna take THIS house away from me!! Apparently, I'm not ALLOWED to have a god damned life!!

[Asker]

I somewhat know how you feel. When mum died my sisters who had absolutely nothing to do with mum came along and took over the funeral arrangements and they cremated her against her wishes despite mum having saved the money to pay for her burial. My sister even stole mum's nightgown. Than when I fell pregnant all I dealt with was nothing but drama and them ruining my daughter's birth photos and they laughed about the entire thing. They than went and hated on my baby and they tried to have her taken off me with false accusations. They even tried to have us kicked out of the house onto the streets. These Same sisters are legit out there doing everything to make life hell and have people turn against me. I already know when Dad dies they will be fighting me for access to his car which dad has made known will be going to me. I already know they are taking steps to ban me from attending his funeral and one of them is even trying to agin access to his money so she can spend the money on herself.

[Asker]

This sister has been out there telling people I've Been stealing Dad money but the money has actually been going into a funeral fund for him. She tells people I've bene stealing it because this is her attempts at trying to gain access to money because she was fired from her Jon at the hospital.

Hang in there. I find in many cases people are straight up a holes but one day karma will serve them when they least expect

[FunkyMonkee]

When mom first went into the hospital because of the stroke, my oldest sister went back to the house to take all of mom's checking things so she could take over mom's checking account and pay her bills for her until she got better. She said she was only going to do this until she was able to write her own checks, again. Mom lost the use of her right arm for a while and had to learn to write lefty. About a year later, mom asked for her checks back but my sister refused to give them to her!! Mom asked her several times over the phone, most of the time I was sitting right there next to mom when she asked and could hear her refusing the give them back! Finally, after at least 2 years of fighting with her over this, she gave them back and claimed that mom never asked for them or she would've given them right back! Mom got monthly checks of about $4000 and my sister would take the money!! If my youngest sister would cash mom's checks, she'd run right to the store and use mom's money to buy over $100 of groceries FOR HERSELF!! She NEVER asked!! She just TOOK!! If my aunt (mom's sister) got mom's checks cashed, she made sure mom got EVERY PENNY!! When mom got the money, she'd give it to me so I could divide it into equal amounts, put each stack into a banking envelope and hide them all over the house so the girls couldn't find them!! At this point, I had plenty of my own money so, I'd use my money to buy the groceries for her & I to eat. But, she would always INSIST that I take a $20 from her purse to help pay for it! Just to keep from arguing with her about it, I'd get the $20 and go to the store and use MY money to pay for everything! The next time I'd take her to the bathroom, I'd put the $20 back into her purse! I probably used that same $20 several times, unless my nephew took it from her! That asshole would come up every fucking day asking her if he could BORROW $20 to "buy gas"! He has NO IDEA what the word, "borrow" means!!

[FunkyMonkee]

This was back when a $20 could fill your tank! Every day, he'd ask her for another $20! Eventually, we found out he was using the money to buy heroine!!
When mom died, she gave ME control of the funeral arrangements but, after just one day, the funeral director started taking orders from those two cunts!!
I was supposed to go get mom's money out of her bank but, when I got there, they told me I couldn't get it `til the manager came in on Monday but said she had over $37,000 in her account! I went back Monday and they said I couldn't touch it because she had a joint account with my sisters!! So, THEY got the whole load and I never saw a dime!!
At the funeral, one sister started picking a fight with a life-long family friend RIGHT THERE AT MOM'S CASKET!! The other one threatened to have the cops come and arrest mom's sister for being at the funeral!!
When I lost the house 4 years ago, I got as much of my stuff as I had time for and even spent three days in a row with no sleep!! I asked the guy that was in charge of the estate if I could come back later and get the rest of my stuff and he said I could. 3 months later, I find out he's hired guys to come and clear out everything from the house so, I lost all the rest of my stuff, probably a few million dollars worth of stuff that can never be replaced! I was told that he decided NOT to let me back in to get my stuff because he figured that, once I got back in, I'd never come back out!! The best I could do was sit there and watch these guys throw my entire life away!!

[Anonymous]

Sure, to correct wrongs I have committed.

[Asker]

That would be awesome.

[Opinion Owner]

Thanks.

[LavLavLuv]

Ya..