How to cope with family members causes trauma and unnecessary stress to your life while also watching your every move as an autistic young adult?

[jaycool26]

MENTAL HEALTH

[BoopBoopBeep]

First off, it upsets you, it doesn't cause trauma unless they're lopping off appendages or selling you on the dark web as a sex slave to druggies. The overuse of that word just makes you look like a snowflake that doesn't understand what true trauma is, and if you are THAT fragile then this is WHY they are watching your every move, because you find everything "traumatic."

Moving right along, and assuming you merely misspoke, save up, move out, support yourself fully and then it's nobody else's business. If you cannot do that, then sorry, people are going to mettle when it's their money on the line.

[jaycool26]

How do I accomplish that

[BoopBoopBeep]

Which part? Getting a job and moving out? The same way everyone else does. If you can't afford to live there move where you can afford to live, same as billions of people before you have done. I'm not trying to be flippant, but you haven't said you're crippled or chronically infirm or anything, so not sure what part is the stumbling block. You're 25. Go split a place with a bunch of other broke 25 year olds. Move out of the major metropolitan areas. Get a gig job on the side. I don't know, man, what do you think is holding you back?

[jaycool26]

I also have chronic back pain and don't know where to look for a job or place rn tbh

[BoopBoopBeep]

I got blown up and three of my vertebrae were crushed, so yeah, I know about chronic back pain. You're 25 years old and you don't know how to look for a job? Jesus this country is doomed. Try a temp agency.

[The-Stud]

Get a job and move out and stay away from them

[jaycool26]

How do I do that if no job I applied for is hiring me

[Nikki1989]

Therapy is your only way out of this.

[jaycool26]

Ok I'll consider tht

[jahaims]

Cut them off

[In_Trance]

seek therapy