What’s your thoughts on Dancing?

[Finchie40]

Me personally likes to dance and be silly at times for fun , but have you ever watched other people dancing or even yourself and think to yourself how retarded we look on the dance floor like we are these string puppets that are just wobbling around like idiots. Whether someone is good at dancing or not , it just looks like we are retarded as people , has that ever crossed your mind when watching videos of people dancing? . I know there are a lot of people that take dancing serious and go to dance school to learn , I do consider it a talent for sure but i don’t take it to seriously cuz we look like idiots lol What is your thoughts on dancing?

[RavVid]

I have medals in partner dancing - just to a good social dancing level; nothing beyond that, because it becomes painted on smiles and the fun is taken out of it at Dancing With The Stars level..

Where I am, a lot of venues run dance lessons. For a modest entry fee, you get to meet every girl there and you immediately have something in common with her. Its de rigueur that if you ask a girl to dance, then she says yes.

Guys if you are not already convinced, partner dancing is close up and personal. The lady pivots on your right hip and thigh and most dances are between partner. That is your leg is between their leg. It does actually happen that girls orgasm on the dance floor. Something to do with the rhythmic movement.

An odd thing is that it turns out we all have different kinesthetic senses. To the point that a girl you find it easy to dance with, other guys have difficulty dancing with. Bodes well in other activities.

For guys who find it difficult to interact with girls, it is the most benign environment to develop social skills that you will find. You already have a conversation topic.

I recommend Modern Jive (Le bop, Chiroc bop - various names) as it is more in the hands and you don't have to worry about your feet. Plus practicable on a crowed dance floor and you can lead with a girl who has never partner danced before. Girls love being twirled by the way.

Salsa is good but there is a hold in the steps so it is more difficult for guys.

[RebelinSteel]

I’ve been to some dance classes, quite a decent place to get up close and personal with a girl. Going to winter and summer balls, it’s handy being able to do some basics,

[RavVid]

Girls are quote respectful of strong leads.. What type of dancing have you done classes on?

Absolutely right on it being a good place to interact with girls.

[electromagnetic]

I love dancing. I’m not good with it as I have two left feet, but it’s fun and you can be as creative as you like. I remember there was an event where you put headphones on and dance to the music. It was quite funny to watch because you thought someone was being quite silly with the moves until you listened to the type of music they were listening to and it just made sense

[Finchie40]

LOL that would be funny to watch for sure, Again I do enjoy dancing and having a good time , even if I look silly and not considered the best dancer , I don’t dance for competition, I just dance to let loose and have a good time , I don’t dance as much as I use to compared to when I was younger , going to the clubs and bars with friends and mingling with people, but at times I still let loose and have a good time , but by me enjoying dancing and not really giving a crap about what others think or say about my dancing, has increased my chances of meeting girls’ once I had a few drinks in me of course lol , I would run up on the dance floor and start dancing to the music without a care in the world , I would usually run into other girls’ that were doing the same thing and eventually I would be grinding with some of them and making out or getting phone numbers etc. . Dancing has gotten me lucky with the ladies plenty of times lol Just goes to show most females love confidence in a guy , a guy that likes to have a good time that can let loose, I can’t speak for every girl , but based off of my experiences that’s usually the outcome of it all, I had guy friends’ that wouldn’t get on the dance floor that would just stand by the bar drinking their faces off that would get jealous seeing me with girls’ that were judgmental that I had girls that were interested in me and attracted to me , i would tell my friends the truth that they need to get their asses out on the dance floor , Girls aren’t going to be attracted to a guy just standing there drinking , she might, but a very slim chance , I would tell them your chances will increase if you actually do something. Just goes to show some people are just overly insecure about themselves and have a hard time letting loose. Some of my greatest memories was being in the clubs dancing and mingling with beautiful girls one of my favorite clubs was In Philadelphia, Club Maui , to me that was the best club ever , I have

[Finchie40]

So many great memories from that club , I was actually sad when I heard it closed down. It was a club that had like 7 different clubs in one , every room was a different atmosphere and different music and themes , Penny drinks for 2 hours , you couldn’t go wrong there , the club would be packed with people mingling and having a good time , I can’t recall any bad experiences there , everyone just seemed to get along with everyone. That to me is a great experience

[electromagnetic]

Then don’t stop dancing. It sounds like it’s something you very much enjoy.

[sage2021]

I get what you're saying, and if you give it some considerable thought, it down look kinda dumb.

Saturday Night Live, the movie had some good dancing, very purposeful moves.

I love to watch John Travolta dance in both movies - Grease and Saturday Night Live.

[Finchie40]

Saturday Night Fever is a classic movie I agree the dancing on that movie is awesome lol Grease is a classic as well but I choose Saturday Night Fever over Grease for sure lol

[sage2021]

@Finchie40
Ooops! I meant Saturday Night Fever.

Sorry, I had a brain fart 😎

[dustybiker2]

Closest thing would be a high speed trained mock taekwondo fight designed to entertain. I'm not into dancing.

[Laciejordan]

I love to dance! I’m not very good at it but it’s fun.

[Finchie40]

I enjoy dancing as well for fun , I don’t consider myself an amazing dancer but I know I can move my body to the rhythm of the music , whether I look silly or not I am just having fun , But have you ever watched a video of yourself dancing or other people you know dancing and think to yourself why are we dancing like that lol

[DizzyDesii]

Nah if you gor rhythm, It looks fun and sexy not “retarded”

[Finchie40]

It’s definitely fun , but it also looks silly at the same time especially if you watch a video of yourself dancing at a wedding etc. lol

[DizzyDesii]

You're right

[IslaTheWitch]

no... dancing is one of many forms of expressing ourselves. I'm not a professional dancer but still I like this harmony and closeness when dancing

[Anonymous]

The following are OK for heterosexual white guys: Cajun waltz, tap, tango, tipsy dancing at a wedding reception.

Young heterosexual white guys can dance at a club if they think it'll lead to getting laid.

Homosexuals and men of color can do pretty much anything without looking unmasculine

[NathanDavis]

no...

we're actually good at dancing around here...

[bobalife]

I love dancing, my body just moves to the music and it’s really fun hehe

[RebelinSteel]

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[RebelinSteel]

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[bobalife]

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[RebelinSteel]

@bobalife which one we doing

[bobalife]

Hmm the sexiest one…

[RebelinSteel]

@bobalife well with you that will be them all

[bobalife]

Hehehe I do like all of them, which one do you start?

[RebelinSteel]

Slow and sensual, slowly build up the passion

[RebelinSteel]

Or a fun Salsa with some fun and distance with a little bit of teasing

[bobalife]

Lolz ouh, maybe a little salsa with a little spice~

[RebelinSteel]

@bobalife well we do need to start with an appetiser

[bobalife]

Hmm what are you thinking for an appetizer?

[RebelinSteel]

@bobalife well a Salsa would get the party started

[chrissykerdock]

wish i could sounds like fun

[exitseven]

I cannot dance/

[LemiaOfThunder]

Its kinda fun