What is a secret you will never even tell your own parents?

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Anonymous · Accepted Answer

That I basically raised my little brother.

My upbringing was a little messy and my parents like to act like I'm the one with no morals and I'm selfish and all these terrible other things, but my brother is the opposite.

Part of that is my own fault. I used to take the blame for all sorts of things he did. I was already on such a dark path in life, I didn't mind much if it meant my brother could have some semblance of a normal life. Which I wanted for him very badly.

Because of the divorce, my parents weren't overly concerned with disciplining my little bro or confronting him about his faults.

My goal was to plant things into his head at a very young age that would guide him well, no matter what his world view turned out to be.

It was the most bittersweet feeling that started to come years later when my dad would tell me he was proud of him because of something he said, and it would be almost word for word what I was telling him when we were little kids.

The only part that sucks is now that he's hit his 20's he forgot where it all came from and he thinks he's figured it all out on his own. I guess this is similar to what it would feel like to be a parent.

Sometimes I feel bad because he'll tell me about things that pop into his head and he doesn't know why, and I can see how I caused them unintentionally.

Most of them are good, but some have fed into undesirable avenues.

I still have a great relationship with him and he knows that I suffered a lot so he didn't have to and thats more than I really deserve to ask for.

I just hope as we get older it all ends up being a net positive.

Chazmatazz269 · Accepted Answer

This is a strangely worded question. Since our parents are usually the FIRST people we keep secrets from, and many of us kept many secrets from our parents, how does that qualify a secret?
I suspect that unless you’re a particularly deceitful person, your parents will be the people that most people keep more secrets from than anyone else in their entire life. If for no other reason than you’ve known them the longest and that’s where it all starts. Not to mention, most people don’t behave exactly as their parents raised them to behave, so their lives will be full of silly little secrets that everyone except their parents actually knows. Ell oh ell!

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

That I’ve been with a Black Guy and f-ked him, cause my parents are severely racist.
They would disown me by default. Automatically disown me.

My Dad when was 15 he did a Black Girl. So it’s not like he can point the finger.

But I’ll take me with a Black Guy to the grave cause on a woman it looks worse.

mandyfire98 · Accepted Answer

There's lots of stuff I wouldn't tell my parents just because it would be inappropriate to discuss.

JacobJordan · Answer

My parents still don't know that I destroyed someone's life so bad that they require round the clock care. They know everything else aside from job related stuff as we haven't spoken in over a decade

Booklover_90 · Answer

When I was 17, I was talking with a 32 year old coworker. He wanted to date me when I became legal (turned 18). Thankfully, I saw the red flags and chose not to go through with it. Either way, my parents will  never  know. 😅

Nikki1989 · Answer

I haven't seen them in 18 years, so my entire life is a secret at this point.

TheRealPepperPotts · Answer

That my mom makes terrible salads and my dad's car smells like a homeless person, LOL.

FunkyMonkee · Answer

I don't care how much you torture me, I will NEVER EVER tell ANYONE that I like to wear women's underwear!! I just won't!!

susie22 · Answer

The first time I had sex, how it happened and who it was with.

BobbieBoy666 · Answer

Both my parents are in heaven now. But they never knew that I was sexual with another male Nude. 💕💕

Purpleronnie · Answer

If I wouldn’t tell a secret , then why would I on here? 😝

Account · Answer

Do you really think if I had any secret I would share it here? Lol not even anonymously.

NathanDavis · Answer

if I ain't telling my parents... I'm not telling you, lol

Princesspd · Answer

My husband is not the biological father of our 13 years old d-aughter, but he raises her for 13 years and going.

SeriouslyNotSerious · Answer

Uh-oh. Sharing it here is not a risk I'm willing to take.. 🫢

Twalli · Answer

My sister knows, her mom might know, but I'm pretty sure my parents are unaware that my girlfriend and I frequently have anal. To be fair, I'm not sure if my sister knows how frequently and I know her mom doesn't know how frequently, if she knows.

Anonymous · Answer

That my mother’s boyfriend and the father of my youngest brother tried getting with me once…and I shot down his advances. Tbh even if I did tell her she wouldn’t want to believe me anyway.

Dargil · Answer

Starting at age 11, I spent afternoons after school playing naked with a galpal. Lots of exploration and nonsexual fiddling.

SugarSugarplum · Answer

Like I would blab something like that to the internet.

Simslover92 · Answer

Probably that I got high several times via edibles with my boyfriend

TheSpaceGnome · Answer

That I'm actually a sentient bucket of crayfish, and everything they see me do is just a hologram run by a complex series of tubes.

andreasderjuengere · Answer

You won't know that secret, either. Heh heh

genericname85 · Answer

honestly i don't have such deep dark secrets xD

SotiCoto · Answer

You think I'd tell a stranger on the Internet what I can't tell my own mother?

thisAppIsGarbage · Answer

My parents are dead. I never told my Dad that I killed his little brother for molesting my little sister and I never told my mother anything because she bounced when I was 5.

DrPepper12 · Answer

Gotta think about that one. They know it all basically.

tfan1 · Answer

That I masturbate on the toilet and that’s why I stay in the bathroom so long.

mrkdvsn · Answer

The things that we kids and some neighbor kids did right in their own back yard at night. And one time, right INSIDE the HOUSE

Anonymous · Answer

I tried to commit suicide by hanging when i was unable to get a girl to date me. Im not unnatractive i just seem scary ig. They always ghost me last minute.

HurremSultan · Answer

That I payed for some my work at uni cause I couldn't do it

MatureMan40 · Answer

I like being called "daddy" by girls specially my girlfriend when I a had. I think they didn't need to know already.

Anonymous · Answer

I've let every guy I've ever dated put it in my butt... dad's never going to learn that

bananathunder · Answer

can't really tell them anything if you don't have parents to tell...

dolemite58 · Answer

I always wished they had gotten divorced ever since I was little

Anonymous · Answer

That I made a woman pregnant during the pandemic , she had a miscarriage at 6 weeks.

Morgan_L · Answer

My real body count 🤫

2_beHappy · Answer

I watch porn😂

electromagnetic · Answer

But I’m suppose to spill the beans on gag😆

bobalife · Answer

Well, it’s a secret is a secret after all😂

avery58 · Answer

I smoked weed two times

Bricealan · Answer

I haven't seen them in 10 years

exitseven · Answer

I cannot talk about it.

DishLady · Answer

I don’t have one…

Iron_Man · Answer

No secrets

Jay0102 · Answer

Body count

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