Is the route to financial success important?

[Anonymous]

Everyone wants to be successful but isn’t the route to get their more important.

Like some people are millionaires by contributing well to society, some make dumb videos on the internet, others do OF,

The route to success isn’t that important (just get rich)

The route you take to success is important

The route is more important than just being wealthy

[Apple1996]

I guess it depends on the person's morals/values. Some of us are willing to take the dirty route and others would rather not

[Asker]

The dirty route comes with no respect and we all want respect right?

[Asker]

Trading money for respect isn’t worth it for anyone

[Apple1996]

Respect seems more important to men. Personally not something I care about even tho I would probably never do those things you listed

[Asker]

It matters more for men but a girl without dignity is destined to fail. What chance is she gonna marry someone respectable and have a great family

[Apple1996]

Probably pretty high. Men still marry these women

[Asker]

Not at all. Marry and divorce maybe. Low value men would cause they can’t get better

[Apple1996]

a lot of marriages end in divorce so maybe but some women can truly have their cake and eat it to type of thing with this. Probably just one of those unfair advantages that women have

[Asker]

What unfair advantage? Women can be promiscuous but successful men probably won’t want to commit to that. She’ll have to settle for a low down guy. Men can be promiscuous and still most likely find a girl who’s gonna be devoted to him.
It’s why kim Kardashian will never be a wife.

[Asker]

Dirty women have access to dirty men. No doctor is gonna see the value in her

[Apple1996]

Well if she's rich already then what can a guy really offer her? The low guy will probably love her right you know

[Apple1996]

Kim k was married for a long time I thought lol

[Asker]

Female promiscuity literally tarnishes your character and name

[Apple1996]

Easy enough to lie about that stuff tho

[Asker]

The truth comes out. I don’t think it’s easy at all. It follows you. It’s difficult to keep quiet and men can tell from how confident you are in certain situations if you’re experienced or not. Just being confident around men is a turnoff

[Asker]

When men marry a girl it’s because we’ve vetted her out

[Apple1996]

I don't think men can tell. I remember when I was virgin all the guys I kept dating thought I was lying cuz I came off too confident but I was really just horny and excited

[Asker]

He’s gonna find out who you’ve dated etc.. you saying many women are going to form their relationship on a lie? If you’re a whore as men we can smell it

[Asker]

I don’t know any man in my extended family that has called for a promiscuous girl who’s had a wild past

[Apple1996]

Unless you lie in a small town that'd be impossible. And not necessarily a lie just not tell them the past

[Apple1996]

Live*

[Asker]

I ain’t gonna get down on one knee for a girl that’s slept with a bunch of dudes that’s shameful on me.

[Asker]

I’m gonna want to know and most men are. Because women have been given so much freedom we can see the results. Most marriages fail and less young people want to get married.

[Apple1996]

Yeah I totally understand why you'd want to know. I'm the same way with men because I'd only be with a virgin

[Asker]

You’re in the minority I’ve never met a girl that actually cares. Women like men with a bit of experience they don’t want to be his first

[Apple1996]

All women are different. The ones I've known to want virgin men are usually religious and or waiting for marriage so they want a partner to be a virgin. I like virgins for other reasons like men touching other women is too much of a ick for me. And they'd have to learn my body anyways so experience is helpful

[Apple1996]

Isn't* helpful

[Asker]

I get you but how I view it is men struggle to be attractive to women whereas women struggle to get commitment from men. Both parties have to earn it from each other.

[Apple1996]

What? Lots of women find men attractive

[Iuwee]

I disagree. Women are probably attracted to like 1/10 guys whereas men are attracted to like 5+/10 women.

[Iuwee]

Men definitely struggle more than women as a man will only appeal to a small number of women.

[Asker]

@Iuwee not to mentor many girls are bisexual nowadays I had a look on hinge and so many girls are bi

[Apple1996]

Women being bi doesn't make men any less attractive to them 😂

[Anonymous]

If you think people are becoming rich doing OF, you will obviously never be smart enough to make millions.

[Avicenna]

Yes, to at least some extent. You want to be true to yourself.

[Redstang88]

As long as they’re not arrogant about it I don’t care

[exitseven]

It is not that important.

[In_Trance]

For some people, yes