What is the fate of an Indian female immigrant?

[Babygirl_S]

Here’s my guess:
She gets a nice job but is shocked to see NO attractive guys are interested in her. They seem to only want a fling and being a virgin, she doesn’t want that. White girls don’t reject the Indian guys out there who have a fetish for them. Thus, even the Indian guys aren’t interested. She keeps getting older trying to find at least one decent guy but usually matches with unattractive guys. Now she starts thinking “my boyfriends in India were way hotter so why did I even come here?” Her money doesn’t help to attract anyone unlike the 2/10 Indian guys scoring gold diggers way out of their leagues out there.
She starts considering moving back to India but the money is so good and she has a better standard of living so that sounds like a bad idea.
No attractive guy even wants to MEET her. Some even block her for simply sending a “hi”. She starts considering paying a hot guy to finally devirginise her as it’s been so many years and no luck. She is already 30+. She does it and feels horrible because she knows there are SLUTS out there with worse bodies getting PAID for their nudes. She somehow makes him stay for a month (maybe he charges for that) and gets impregnated because her dream is to have a baby before she loses the ability to do so 🥲 Then he leaves her and she becomes an ageing single mother. Her dream of marrying never comes true and there’s no one to help her now.


Yeah no thanks! Stay in India, get valued for your beauty, marry a hot Indian man (many are willing to marry you as a virgin), have lots of fun, have a baby with him and live a life of PEACE knowing your husband will be there to help you raise kids and he is as hot as you! You didn’t have to settle. You got better than what you could get in any Western country.
Guys you considered hot enough to be MODELS asked you “am I okay?” 👌🏻

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So I hope it’s clear that I don’t have any “fetish” like some of those white guys go to east Asia and even the unattractive women look hot to them. Must be a lot easier dating as a fetishist “Anyone from that group will be great 😍”

[IslaTheWitch]

all Indian girls I knew during my 13 years in Berlin had great relationships... some with Indian guys, and some went international... they also had experience in their jobs, so they found employment fitting their skills...

I'm still curious about where do you find your stories :D

[Babygirl_S]

They didn’t get married. Someone dating you without any intentions to marry doesn’t count as a relationship. It’s a lot better when a hot guy wants to MARRY you. Almost every Indian woman has to settle. Many guys think being Indian is a flaw so she should accept bald/fat/short guys. Some of these guys even get angry when you don’t want them. They think you’re the “inferior girl” so why can’t you put up with these things?

[IslaTheWitch]

they did married... I was even invited for a few ceremonies... they have children and happy families :D

[Babygirl_S]

The girls had to accept major flaws 🙂

[IslaTheWitch]

it's your way of perceiving the world... if something doesn't match your perspective, it means it's wrong...

but they are happy, so I really doubt they had to accept any flaws... love happens everywhere to everyone, the question is if you can see it?

[Babygirl_S]

Actually I’m not one of those people who have a fetish for a race which is why I like hot guys. An Indian with such fetish would be attracted to anyone they can find.”If he’s white, he’s attractive” 😃
He’s not going to be my friend so physical attraction has to be there.

[IslaTheWitch]

as I wrote, some of them went international... so... NOT ONLY white guys :D

[Babygirl_S]

So black guys?

[IslaTheWitch]

American (from North, Central, and South), African, Asian guys...

[Babygirl_S]

Indian families don’t accept black guys at all. Even if you like the guy, find him attractive etc. EVERYONE in your family will say mean things about his appearance so you’ll start questioning your sanity. I used to like them and most people reacted negatively “You’re not ugly! “An Indian guy is better” “He looks like a guy from the slums” “He looks like he belongs to a lower caste “etc.
They ruin your attraction towards certain men 🙂

[Berethor]

Funny how much racist indians tend to be, india will never have black head of state.

qz.com/.../i-almost-feel-like-a-god-from-dating-to-business-white-men-are-winning-in-india

[Amur8711]

I find this interesting with how Indians don't like Black men, but then there is Kamala Harris 🤔

[Babygirl_S]

There are exceptions but don’t call Indians racist. It’s not like a white guy would prefer me to a white girl

[IslaTheWitch]

I can only say what I see :D

I think people I know don't really care what you think :D

[Berethor]

She admit that a white guy will have sex with her, so he is not totally racist to her.

[Babygirl_S]

Having sex =/= Liking

[Berethor]

Sex = attraction, is he attracted to a black girl as well? I think that not, so it something.

[IslaTheWitch]

can you have sex with someone you don't like?

[Berethor]

I think that she mean that sex is not always love, but it's still attraction as I said.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6YJ91FKZHI0

[SpaceGalaxy]

@islathewitch well-said.

[college-student2021]

Depending which area. For the most part people don’t care , South Carolina had a Governor who had Punjabi descent.


In South Florida and North Virginia there’s a sizable Indian community and most people are fine with them.


Indians don’t have a bad reputation outside there country, most people are indifferent to them and a few admire the Indians work ethic.

[Berethor]

It was pretty good points, for what it's worth I might care more about virginity than race.

https://allthetropes.org/wiki/Nature_Adores_a_Virgin

https://www.youtube.com/embed/688XMcEchFQ

[Babygirl_S]

Sure you’d like to have a short-term relationship with an Indian virgin. The result is still an ageing single mother 🤱🏻

[Berethor]

Like how you sure that you know me, and why you complaining? you have a boyfriend.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=niu-mvDMg_8

[Babygirl_S]

Not complaining. I am considering a hypothetical situation. You have a fetish for white girls. You wouldn’t marry an Indian girl

[Billlewis]

Seeing that not only are East Indian women among the world's most attractive females, and that, aside from Jewish women, probably the most demanding, they are easily among the most desirable for an eligible male bachelor. I recently began following you, and I'd like to invite you to follow or message me, as well, if that's alright. Thank you very much, Bill, Chicago

[Gauoda_]

So you want Guys chase you like this Gif 🤣 ?

https://i.chzbgr.com/full/7731409152/h0AAD834C/hey-girl

[Berethor]

Only if that a white or indian guy doing that, she don't really liking the rest.

[Babygirl_S]

Not really

[renodnol32]

I doubt you've ever been abroad. And i doubt you actually know desis residing abroad. I reside in the West. I know many desis male and female who would scratch their heads over your pity plea for them.

[Berethor]

White men are known for taking east Asians as tradwives, that is not an racist act.

en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Tradwife#Racial_balance

[Babygirl_S]

Are you telling me they don’t face discrimination? Don’t lie to me

[Berethor]

What discrimination? hell even alt-right white men are marrying east Asians.

planamag.com/.../

[Babygirl_S]

I’m talking about Indians. I’m fully aware of white men’s fetish for East Asians 🤡

[Berethor]

Okay, but white men are not racist to East Asians, I think that it's pretty interesting.

[Babygirl_S]

I don’t think it’s entirely true because during the pandemic many East Asian women were beaten by racist white men. They do have a fetish for them but fetish =/= love. It’s still better than hatred they have for others but the persons get objectified and their feelings considered irrelevant. Many of those guys expect them to fit a stereotype which can be dangerous

[Berethor]

Okay, though this white man youtuber pointed out that we all objects technically.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SiJWUL9QuLI

[Babygirl_S]

Okay! I don’t care about anything he says. He isn’t hot

[Berethor]

How shallow, no one said that you need to have sex with him you know?

[Babygirl_S]

You’re calling me shallow? You keep saying things like white women are the best or blue-green eyes are the most beautiful

[Berethor]

Never said that I want to have sex with ugly woman, but I can hear what she saying.

[SixFootSexy]

A lot words for saying you're racist against yourself.

[Berethor]

White men are treated like gods in india, you might want to migrate there yourself. :)

[Babygirl_S]

No, I’m telling you what’s likely

[stratford]

There are lots of guys in the UK that would be attracted to an Indian lady. From all backgrounds. She should try things out and be happy.

[Berethor]

She don't want a black guy, as indian families don't accept a black guy.

[stratford]

@Berethor Not all guys in the UK are black...

[Berethor]

@stratford oh really? but there is a lot of blacks in UK nowadays, UK is not India.

[stratford]

@Berethor There are people of all races and religions and they are all welcome, these things should not matter in love.

[Berethor]

@stratford yea sure, only woman's virginity is matter, no actually everything matter.

[Babygirl_S]

Yes but they prefer white girls for marriage

[stratford]

I have male white friends who have married indian girls, and white girls who married indian guys. Not ure where you are getting your information from.

[Babygirl_S]

Hot white guys go for average or hot white girls

[Berethor]

White men who go for east Asians also hot or hot white men go only for white women?

[Babygirl_S]

The hottest white guys usually go for white women. Look at all the Hollywood actors. The most questionable looking men pick Indians

[Berethor]

Don't you think that it natural that hot white guys want a women from their own race?

[stratford]

I, and many of my friends find some Indian women to be sultry, subtle and very very sensous in a totally different way to white women.

[Babygirl_S]

Sure @Berethor but they give unattractive East Asian and white women more attention and some even marry them. Even a hot Indian girl can’t be with the kind of white guys average white girls can date. However, Indian men face no such issues as long as they have money

[Berethor]

@Babygirl_S I see, even if Indian girl had blonde hair and blue eyes she face that issue?

[Babygirl_S]

@Berethor many white women don’t have those features and they can still be with attractive white men.

[stratford]

I don't know where you guys are getting your information from. It's just not true in the UK.

[Babygirl_S]

@Stratford I don’t know what you’re talking about

[Berethor]

@babygirl_s it's true, white men notice Indian girls only if they are blue eyes goddesses.

[Babygirl_S]

@Berethor White men notice Indian but no one cares about being noticed. The fact that they forget about blue eyes and blonde hair when they see East Asians is disturbing. Why do they have different standards for them?

[Berethor]

@Babygirl_S I am not sure why, it even alt-right white men, I don't have that fetish.

[LiamJHayden]

If you want to be happy, ignore race and find someone who absolutely adores you for who you are.

[Rohaan2020]

Why are you so obsessed with over white people?

[Babygirl_S]

My question doesn’t say this anywhere. I think Indian guys are obsessed with white girls and they get angry even if you show a little interest in white guys as an Indian girl

[Rohaan2020]

All ur questions are just about indian vs white people… so u don’t hv to say…. And even if indian guys get angry for you showing interest in white guys why you have to care about it… let them stay angry… do what makes you feel good

[Babygirl_S]

No, they’re not. It doesn’t really help when I ask a different question and someone makes a racist remark which happens too often

[Rohaan2020]

When you mention white guys use indian women and leave… and tgat Indian women can’t find a partner abroad… it shows that indian women are desperate for white guys… you are degrading imdian women yourself… why do u care for people who doesn’t respect you

[Berethor]

Yea she almost always ask about indian girls with white guys, it's pretty funny.

[Rohaan2020]

@Berethor yeah

[NathanDavis]

make your own (=

[Agape93]

Again?

[Gauoda_]

Crazy girl is back with her ' Fetish with white guys " 🤣🤣

[Babygirl_S]

Huh? Fetish is what most white guys have for East Asian girls so any East Asian girl is good enough. Someone who doesn’t have a fetish typically doesn’t feel attracted to almost all members of a race. I am attracted to hot guys from any race. You didn’t read my question. I am sure an Indian girl can find at least 1 white guy interested in her for marriage but can she attract a hot guy?