Do you hold in your emotions or personal issues?

[Anonymous]

If so, lay them on me, it's good to have someone to hear you out, they say holding it in leads to memory loss, you don't wanna lose your memory now so you? Well I'm here to listen cause trump winning got me in a good mood and I don't know when the status effect will wear off because the air is smelling cheaper already, so I want to help people with their issues, nothing better than a non busy midnight to hear people vent about their issues 😀

[IslaTheWitch]

it doesn't lead to memory loss... it CAN lead to memory loss... in some specific situations...

holding in has a huge negative effect on everyone who does it... the emotions stay, they build up, to the point we are not able to manage them anymore... it's like a room full of gas waiting for the spark...

and the spark can be anything... in Polish, from some gov ads about domestic violence was created the term "bo zupa była za słona" - "because the soup was too salty"

whatever small thing that in a normal situation wouldn't even be visible... now... is a trigger... and all those put under the mental rug emotions go out...

some people start to talk... fast... a lot... taking things from long past... whatever was itching them for so long...

some people are aggressive...

some people do self-harm...

it's very unhealthy and very anti social... those eruptions break work relationships... you can be even fired for disrespectful behavior...

some people can not remember what happened, what they did or said... it's a defence mechanism...

[MemeSupreme]

not gonna do all that bc thats just toxic to me and you to list em lol BUT i will say...

feeling relief from someone you know dying bc of ODing is weird

[Asker]

What's toxic? Maybe you thinking it's toxic is toxic, ever thought of that retired momo hm 😌

And that's a messed up but can be understandable depending on who they are I guess

[MemeSupreme]

nah you ain't ready to handle my beef especially if the first thing you say is my thoughts are messed up LOL

and nah im talking about someone who has drained their family/friends emotionally and financially (like life savings) to the point you hated them by the time they died. BUT you knew them before drugs so it's kinda like they died when they became an addict in a way

[Asker]

Your thoughts are messed up if you think venting is toxic momo, but I'll just remain not knowing I guess lol

[MemeSupreme]

venting is fine but like

trauma dumping someone who isn't a professional is kinda toxic for the both of us lol

[Asker]

Maybe for you cause you can't handle it but I can basically handle anything 😎

[Smegskull]

They are called "MY problems" for a reason. I am not rude enough or selfish enough to burden other people with them.

[Asker]

It's not burdening others if your problems don't become their problems, don't be a walnut bro

[Smegskull]

Ignoring that time is zero sum so it is a burden (unless you are talking to someone who has NO problems to be spending their time considering).
If it isn't becoming their problem, stop wasting your own time talking about it and go solve it.

[paledreams]

Mostly i have coping mechanisms and am quite at peace daily

[Asker]

Being at peace is a good thing

[paledreams]

Coping mechanisms rejoice 🎉

[valentina4eva]

i don’t hold my emotions in at all irl, so i hope my memory is safe!!😅😅 donno if i should post my issues for ALL of gag to see thoo😵‍💫😂😂

[Asker]

Well I'm always here if you change your mind barbie face, as long as your memory is safe lol

[valentina4eva]

thankss @ChicoFromThe305 ☺️☺️ u are a good one!!💜

[Asker]

Thanks 😆💯🔥

[Miah06]

Naw. But only the very special people in my life get to share that part of me..

[Asker]

Stop tormenting those kids with your life stories 💀

[Miah06]

Oh yeah. I could imagine how that would go. 😂
And i do have more people in my life besides my students

[Asker]

I know, did you forget I like bullying you, turn to a teacher and now you are boring geez 😂

[Miah06]

I am not boring chris. You are the one who needs a shape up

[Asker]

I'm pretty sure the one teaching shapes is you 😂

[Miah06]

Yup and damn good at it. Fuzzy

[Asker]

Yea until you get to the scutoid lol

[Miah06]

It's kindergarten silly. They ain't learning something that complex😂

[Asker]

They should be, with their easy shapes pff smh

[Miah06]

Leave my kids alone they are very smart at their age😂

[Asker]

You really wanna see their little minds blow up, show em a scutoid 😂

[12karen]

Haha, well I don't think you're taught enough to handle all my probs 😏

[Asker]

Im Hispanic I've actually been born with the ability to withstand all forms of spiciness 😎

[12karen]

Good news, I need $1000 , I think you can do that for me right 🙃
Jk
My problem atm is my lack of sleep

[Asker]

Why can't you sleep Karen 📝🤓

[12karen]

Well I sleep but at 4 am but then I have to wake up at 7 am
I can't sleep earlier bc life is more interesting at night, my social life begin at 10pm (social media life huh)

[Asker]

Well canny, you know I'm always up late and I'm always down to have boring conversations to put you to sleep quicker 😂

[12karen]

Conversation is the main reason why I am up late lol , waiting for reply make me fall asleep quickly but I'm up to hear your boring conversation

[Asker]

That's the thing, I didn't expect to get this far, I don't have a boring topic planned so it's pretty blank now but we can talk about boring stuff like math, I'm certain that would put you to sleep lol

[12karen]

It's 10:34am in the morning here now lol, I'm in the supermarket with my dark circles, I think you're the one who needs a boring topic to sleep not me 😭

[Asker]

Wait so why are we having this conversation, you are talking to me like it's night for you 😂

Ill take pills or something, I can find a way to sleep, happy shopping tho 😂

[12karen]

Haha, I love trolling you
It's because I feel tired not that I can't sleep

Sleeping pills is not good for the health yk, it'll be your drug one day,
Well, what's your problem, why can't you sleep Chico 🤓📝

[Asker]

I don't know lots of things in mind I guess, so have you been sleeping a lot to clean your panda eyes canny? 🤔

by the way if you don't sleep that's more unhealthy soo... Yk 😂

[12karen]

My panda eyes are my signature look

We are both unhealthy but I'm not a sleep pills addict 😇

[Asker]

Neither am I but I take them once in a while, but yea your panda eyes are your signature, canny the spicy panda 😆

[12karen]

Good for us then😭😌

[NathanDavis]

I'm good...

[Asker]

You are missing the opportunity of a lifetime

[Asker]

It's not common for me to give a shit about your life, going once... going twice...

[NathanDavis]

how are you doing Chico?

[Asker]

I'ma be doing a lot better now that trump is in office lol

[NathanDavis]

how is that?

[Asker]

Well for starters I expect the gas to fill up my tank now, less immigrants will probably open more jobs, that's only the beginning, also Maduro is getting kicked out of Venezuela so the new president can finally do his thing, so my fam on that side of the world can breathe too, I'm not complaining

[NathanDavis]

hopefully, they will be doing better either way

[Asker]

Thanks 💯

[Anonymous]

Yes. Nah, that's ok. I'm good.