Are you a 'mutual' kind of person or don't care for symmetry?

[QuestionObsession]

Some examples...

Someone following you on this app and you follow them back as a mutual gesture...

Pleasing your partner in bed/ taking turns doing the work while your partner lays back and enjoys...

Paying for meals and bills, taking turns...

Returning favours in real life, if someone helped you...

You get the idea.

[StarWarGirl]

I don't care about symmetry but I believe more on having balance and priority.

I don't always follow the person who followed me but there i keep my priority, my priority is peace and having small group what's meaningful to me. I don't like adding up things/people in my life just like that.

But to the person who matters to me there i prefer to have a balance. Not the relationship of 50:50 always but I try to keep it always 100. Like sometimes if they are doing 80 I only need to do 20. Sometimes because of some reason they are only able to put an effort of 10 I'll complete the other 90 part of it but I'll keep it 100.

[QuestionObsession]

I had turned Off anonymous comments on this post. How did you get in? 😀

[StarWarGirl]

No it wasn't turned off. I had options to comment publicly or annomously. Do you want me to deannominize? I can

[QuestionObsession]

Haha Ok, let's see how that goes sure

[QuestionObsession]

Ok you have already done it I see 👍🏻

[Abbycado]

Yes in my relationship or family/friends. No on this app as far as that example you listed goes.

[QuestionObsession]

You won't follow back someone if they followed you?

[Abbycado]

Nope. Not usually. If I could turn DMs completely off then yeah I probably would.

I have mine set to only those I follow can DM. If I automatically followed back everyone, an you imagine the sheer number of pervy DMs I’d get on a daily basis?

[QuestionObsession]

Ahh yes

[Ez-Bri-Z_v2]

When people do nice things for me, I try to reciprocate but more often than not, I'm the one who's giving first and it's not always reciprocated. That's ok though, I don't need it.

[RedInnocent69]

Very mutual, I suppose

[QuestionObsession]

So you have a compulsion with symmetry?

[RedInnocent69]

I prefer, sense of fairness

[QuestionObsession]

👍🏻

[Anonymous]

I usually return a favor in real life.