Do you believe that it's a good idea to re-examine your life at some point - like I did at age 37?

[sage2021]

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I promised myself NO DATING FOR ONE YEAR! Then I did everything under the sun to improve my by myself. No therapist. Listened to positive affirmations and read them along with reading self help books. 📚 Joined a 12-step program for 2-1/2 years. Took night classes and went to seminars.

[Bricealan]

@sage2021 Yes, ... to see where you are, what you have done, what you have accomplished, what you intend to accomplish with the remainder of your life, have you helped others, do you have many friends that you stay in contact with that you love.

I haven't killed anyone... Yet... but the day is young!

[sage2021]

@Bricelean
I'm sure you already know that I have helped people.

[exitseven]

yes, 37 is about the age I changed careers and got into IT.

[exitseven]

Thanks for the MHO😎

[IslaTheWitch]

if it worked for you... then it was a good idea...

I'm a fan of retrospection in a more regular way... things happen daily... it's good for me and works well for me if I spend some of my time analyzing fresh events...

I can draw conclusions and decide on needed changes in real-time...

[PrincessC16]

I'm doing that now. With my boys gone and me not being able to work. I finally have time for me. To pick up the pieces and see what's best for MY future.

[sage2021]

@PrincessC116
YAY!! Good for you!🙂 I wish you the very best in rediscovering yourself.🩷

[PrincessC16]

Thank you!

[Caroline91]

I examine my life regularly and make course corrections.

[Gaylordslav]

I got sad thinking how i did nothing in 30yrs and my life is practically over but then i stopped thinking about it

[sage2021]

@Gaylordslaw
I was 37 when I re-explained my life - seven years older than you are right now. I am 70 years old now - so since I was 38 look at all of the years I still had ahead of me!! A lot of yes to enjoy the real m.
You are young still and it's never too late to change the course that your life is going and where YOU want it to go!
Give it some thought at least. Yes, change is hard work but you can do a lot of things when you set your mind up and just do them. You don't have to like doing it but do it anyway!! Do it afraid if need be.
I was a single Mom and working a full time job and I pushed myself because I was determined to change the course of my life and also to feel better inside about myself.
You CAN and WILL do it!!🫂 😉

[Gaylordslav]

Remember Im a fag got careful how you speak to me

[sage2021]

@Gaylordsaw
Why do you people fricken ALWAYS have to mention your sexual orientation? Now see, that's what turns straight people off about you.
Don't you ever get tired of telling everyone that you are a fag? I would if I had to tell everyone under the sun that I am straight.

[Gaylordslav]

you're normal. Nobody gives you shit for fitting in societys cookie cut mold. Jesus died for us not just you boo. Get your act right you're time is near judgement

[sage2021]

@Gaylordslaw
First of all I am a God fearing Christian woman already so YOU don't need to tell me something that I already knew since before you were in diapers little man.
Now go and be on your merry way. I said GO!!!

[Gaylordslav]

You have 0 authority over me old swine

[loveyouoak]

No. I have no energy. And I don't care about anything.

[Sal_Monella]

I waited longer than that.

[Mrtcn01]

What do you mean re-examine?