Do you feel lonely and disconnected from people?

[foxsquirrell]

Yes

No

A total of 8 votes were cast: 5 girls and 3 guys. See detailed results

[midnightmoon05]

Not at all. I m always making connections with people. I call talk to them. I meet hang out…

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[foxsquirrell]

I have no social life. It feels frustrated and painful nowadays when I go out in a crowd on Saturday night for instance, because I am aware of how eccentric and abnormal I am. I even notice people looking at me sometimes with that look of curiosity because apparently they notice me sticking out like a sore thumb. :(

[midnightmoon05]

What do you mean abnormal?

[foxsquirrell]

Abnormal in its literal sense. In other words not normal. Normal when people have friends and have a social life, abnormal when they have not.

[midnightmoon05]

Why not? Who are you not meeting friends?

[foxsquirrell]

I have no friends. They all went their way. Traitors. hehe

[midnightmoon05]

So you have the ability to make friends.
Go make more new friends.

I just met a few… but I do t have time to entertain so many people.
So I just picked the one I have the most connection and keep in touch …
I also called my friends to check up on them.

What do you do to make friends and what do you do to keep them?

[foxsquirrell]

I don't see it as a question of ability. It is finding by chance someone you get along with. You cannot make that happen. What I can do is mingle more to increase the likelyhood of meeting with a few people I get along with. And that I am not doing. I am even unemployed currently.

[midnightmoon05]

This paragraph changed the way I see you. You answered your own question 😊👍.
What are your plans with employment?

[foxsquirrell]

I have in mind a little business plan, but I do not know if it will work. The thing is that I am not even happy in the place I am. I want to move abroad, but alone it is difficult. I am working on it though. I have visited multiple countries in Europe to suss out the place and areas to live in. Good job I did. I discovered that cheap rentals correlate strongly with cheap people. Drug addicts, and base amoral people. It would be depressing to rent and live in such a neighborhood. I need to pay a bit more so I can live with people not with dangerous animals. So as you can see I have a bigger fish to fry as they say before I start thinking of employment right now. If I was happy here I would probably find a job in a couple of months. I have an accounts diploma. It is easy to find something in accounts. Book keeping in some company processing invoices and stuff.

[midnightmoon05]

Gosh… you have a good head on your shoulders… you are just going through transitions…
We all have… but still I keep my connections with friends and families… I also went to the movies alone and ate in restaurants alone at one point…
Where is your hometown.. or where are you now?
When we were in Europe, we noticed some Italians went to danmark for work. And some went to Switzerland for work because it’s nice to bring the money back to Italy… for higher currency exchange.
With your collect degree? You should have no problem getting jobs… but accounting may slowly phase out… so will be a good idea to have a backup plan.

[foxsquirrell]

It is a diploma not a degree. Diploma in accounts. I cannot work as an accountant with a diploma. You need a degree in accounts to work as an accountant. With a diploma I can only help around in an accounts department with invoices and such menial stuff. But better then having nothing. Accounts will never phase out. There will always be money and transactions in modern socities. You can be sure of that. Yes I think I am going through a transition. You are right. I am in Malta. Denmark and Switzerland are beautiful and very advanced countries. But I am a racist. I dont want to live around muslims or around black people. I like white people. That is my preference. And countries in West Europe are full of them because of the left parties that are in power at the moment. The tide seems to be turning however. Protests everywhere, rightwing parties gaining a lot of popularity all around the Western hemisphere. But until they flush the filth out and clean Europe it might take a decade depending on how fast they want to do it. So my only option is Eastern Europe. Poland or Lithuania I am thinking, which until now have a very low percentage of those people I hate. And I pray to God it stays that way.
I hope you are not black or muslim by the way. lol
Anyways, thank you for your advice. :)

[midnightmoon05]

Hahahaha... I am not black or muslim silly...
I do love people of all kinds... of course those who are in good places and are good to the society.
I have friends all over the world... they are all very succeeful, black or green or red or muslim or jews, or christians, Hindu, buddist... i am open to love the world... espceially children. I am a school teacher. So I love you as well.
Malta!! wow!! I just did some search and learned about the island :) I like... So glad to learned that you are from Malta, this is the first time I heard/read about this island. Looks beautiful. I will tell my hubby about it and will visit.
Are you able to travel to go to other parts of the world? Poland or Lithuania are good (i have not visit).
What about Greece? you are not far.
I understand why you are not happy with the situations in most European countries... while we were there, it seems okay.. but we don't live there so we are not sure.
Are there good work/social opportunites in Malta? Are people happy there?
I am in the US as a school teacher. I find happiness within so... I am an optimis and positive thinker. :)

[Sunrising]

Nobody should feel lonely or disconnected from people, there are plenty of social clubs and activities to suit everyone, just a bit of effort is needed to join one.

[jahaims]

No, I'm emotionally healthy

[foxsquirrell]

Good for you.

[Anonymous]

Rarely if ever and if I do it's by choice

[foxsquirrell]

Then vote no please. Yeah most people seem to get along with each other. I don't know what the f... is wrong with me. :(

[Opinion Owner]

I only get along with a small group. I don't care for your average human really.

[foxsquirrell]

Hmm interesting. Maybe I just need to find my little group as well. :)