Girls would you play footsies in college? (or something else like it?)

[Anonymous]

Today in the college I was in the library doing work on the computer with my brother. These 2 black girls came and sat across from us. I had my legs spread out a little far but though nothing of it. About 5 minutes later the girl accident kicked me and apologized. I know it was on accident but this got me thinking, would any girls in college (if you are not in college you can still answer) actually play footsies (or something else like it) with a guy they do not know? Yes or no? Please put why or why not?

[Anonymous]

No.

It's just not something that I would have thought of doing at that age. That's more of something you do when you're actually dating with someone and you're flirting without parents/friends noticing. It's more of a "I'm being sneaky" playful thing than a good way to flirt.

[Asker]

Okay then. What if the guy started it?

[Opinion Owner]

No. It's not a good flirting method with strangers. First, you can't tell if someone is just being rude or oblivious and hitting you with their foot. Second, body contact without any previous verbal cues isn't really well received.

[Asker]

No matter what the guy looked like? Would it make a difference if you two were having a conversation?

[Opinion Owner]

Yes, what he looked like doesn't matter. It's just kinda weird to do with someone you aren't already dating...

[Anonymous]

No. I occasional do it with my boyfriend but I wouldn't with a stranger.

[Asker]

Okay then. What if the guy started it?

[Opinion Owner]

I wouldn't play into it and ask him to stop or get up and move if it continues. I'd rather he talk to me. The whole footsie thing comes off as creepy when you aren't dating or don't know the person.

[Asker]

What if he talked to you first?

[Opinion Owner]

Still would be weird. Like I said, it's only acceptable with someone I'm dating.

[Asker]

Even if he looked like your dream guy?

[Opinion Owner]

I could care less what he looked like.

[pips1]

no

[Asker]

Okay then. What if the guy started it?

[pips1]

well if he kicked me I'd kick him back I suppose but not in a flirting way